tobybeebee
Oct 17, 2008, 09:29 PM
Couple weeks ago, I ended our 8 years long distance relationship with my boyfriend. We had lots of good time together, he phoned and text message me everyday, he always said he loves me, and miss me, and all those nice things... I can feel his love for me is deep and true, even though I don't want to make any commitment. He was willing to wait for me until I'm ready to commit. But I took our relationship for granted, I neglected him, and always gave him the rejected feeling... I always feel guilty for doing this to him. After some serious thinking, I decided to end our relationship as I don't want to waste his time anymore, so I initiated the breakup and he accepted, I know he was badly hurt.
Right after the breakup, I felt just as hurt, my heart aches, I couldn't get over him. I miss him very much. I kept thinking about our good time together. After a few days being aparted, I realize how much I do love him and I really want him back in my life. I phoned him up and we had a long talk... I apologized to him and let him know how I felt and I made a big mistake and wanted a second chance... I can feel that he still love me, but he said he need time to digest...
We now kind of back together, but he doesn't phone me anymore like he used to. Only when I ask him to phone me or I phone him. I know he still care about me & love me, but it seems not the same anymore. I think I have hurt him really bad. What can I do to go back the way we used to,, I don't want to lose him, I want another chance and I'm willing to commit. What can I do to salvage our relationship. Is there anything I can do to make it up to him ? Any advice you can give me ?
Right after the breakup, I felt just as hurt, my heart aches, I couldn't get over him. I miss him very much. I kept thinking about our good time together. After a few days being aparted, I realize how much I do love him and I really want him back in my life. I phoned him up and we had a long talk... I apologized to him and let him know how I felt and I made a big mistake and wanted a second chance... I can feel that he still love me, but he said he need time to digest...
We now kind of back together, but he doesn't phone me anymore like he used to. Only when I ask him to phone me or I phone him. I know he still care about me & love me, but it seems not the same anymore. I think I have hurt him really bad. What can I do to go back the way we used to,, I don't want to lose him, I want another chance and I'm willing to commit. What can I do to salvage our relationship. Is there anything I can do to make it up to him ? Any advice you can give me ?