Hey everyone, well I dated this girl for almost a year. We broke up because we had a fight because of this other guy she was flirting with. Well after that she started dating him... this hurt me a lot because not even a week had passed by since our brake up. Anyway, one night I saw them talking outside his truck and he was holding her close to him with his hand on her behind... then they got inside his truck:( Yeah I was mad because I did everything for this girl! I was nice, buy her stuff, take her places, everything!! Well, the day after that I call her and told her that I needed my ring back and she started to cry and beg me not to leave her and she swears up and down on jesus name that she didn't do anything with that guy. And yeah she admits that it was wrong for her to get on his truck and stuff and said that she doesn't know why she let that happen. And now she don't even talk to the guy. She says that he has a girlfriend and that she doesn't like him, that she loves me:confused: So at this point Idk what's going on. She dated him for two weeks... Idk what to do, I love her but I can't trust her after seeing that. And I want to move on but I can't because I she keeps telling me that she loves me and stuff. How do I tell her to back off or just let her go?? (We work in the same place so I HAVE to see her every day:mad:) Thank everyone

One of the main reasons NOT to date people in the work place. OK beyond that, you have two basic choices. One, forget her and move on with your life. This may include changing jobs to get away from her. Two, you can give it another try, and if she really likes you then see where it goes. Just be careful with your emotions until you see how the relationship progresses. Guess if I were in your shoes I would choose option two.

Until you understand what was going wrong in your relationship you have no business getting back together... and missing the other person isn't reason enough.

Love isn't even reason enough.

I've had to leave two women I loved dearly. If the issues aren't fixed, you are just delaying the inevitable.

Have a sit down and talk with her. Tell her you want a no bull play by play on what her and that other guy did. Then make your decision from there based on whether you believe her. That's my advice, if you're thinking of giving her another chance. If you're not just tell her she went to far, and that you want your sh!t back. If you do end it though, one of you would have to quit.

Don't talk to her completely ignore her. IF you want her out of your life you have to make the changes in your life to insure that. Don't text her don't read them block her on your Facebook,myspace, msn,etc. /my son had a girl like that and he changed all him numbers and told me cause he lived with me at the time she would come to the house and sit out side till I wwent outside knocked on her window of her car and told her my son doesn't want anything to do with you and if you come up here again ill get a restraining order on you, that what did it haven't heard or seen from her again...
Go move on, go hang with your friends alone and move on..


Have a great life