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jedidah
Oct 17, 2008, 04:17 AM
Seeing this nyce new guy for 6 mnths who seems to be the best thing that ever happened... :)but he is not the best in bed though and now seems to talk a lot of marriage and babies.tried explaining that it isn't the time yet for me??
My worry is that he will pop up the question soon and I will be unable to say no>>:rolleyes:

JBeaucaire
Oct 17, 2008, 10:30 AM
Then sit him down and tell him that. "I just want you to know, I enjoy our time together, but, I am years away from even thinking about settling down in any official way. You need to keep that in mind, OK?"

Bural21
Oct 17, 2008, 10:44 AM
Just out of curiosity, how old are you two?

Romefalls19
Oct 17, 2008, 10:48 AM
Yea, age and some details about the relationship. What does sex have to do with this anyway?

TrueFaith
Oct 17, 2008, 11:12 AM
No need for marriage just yet.
And if he is not so good in bed

Then tell him what you like and how you like it
Show him. Remember it takes two to have great sex

Not all of us guys are mind readers ;)

But tell him that your not ready for it yet but who knows in the futuer

Best of luck

jedidah
Oct 18, 2008, 05:55 AM
:) I did just that.. think am good for a while

bigbird213
Oct 18, 2008, 09:39 AM
Perhaps he doesn't know what you want in bed, or what will make it better for you? Trying talking to him about it...

marcantony
Oct 18, 2008, 05:01 PM
Yea, age and some details about the relationship. What does sex have to do with this anyways?

I wondered this too. Try telling him what you'd like him to do and if he's reluctant then offer him something in return.