Questions2007
Oct 16, 2008, 03:22 AM
I posted a while ago on here about my ex. We broke up some 18 months ago, stayed in touch for a bit, then it wasn't right so I decided on No Contact, that was 14 months ago and I haven't contacted her since and she hasn't contacted me.
I am well and truly not interested in getting back with her, for ages I wanted her back, then I was angry with the way she acted, to be honest now I am ambivalent, I miss the good times we had but know to ever go back would be a disaster.
One of my friends recently went to a wedding, and the person getting married is also friends with my ex. My friend was showing me the photos and to say the pictures of my ex made me take notice is an understatement.
When she was younger, 16 or 17, my ex suffered from anorexia, she got over it and was fine for years. She is now 28. When we were together she was a normal size, and had been for years, she could be described as quite curvy, she looked after herself but was not skinny at all.
In the photo I saw from the wedding my ex looks dangerously thin. I am not even saying she has lost a bit of weight, she has become very very skinny, to the point where she looks odd with it when stood next to other people.
I am concerned she may have lapsed back into problems. It may not even be something I should concern myself with but I would be interested in what people think?
I would also be interested in if people think I should contact her to see if she is OK or if I should steer clear?
I am well and truly not interested in getting back with her, for ages I wanted her back, then I was angry with the way she acted, to be honest now I am ambivalent, I miss the good times we had but know to ever go back would be a disaster.
One of my friends recently went to a wedding, and the person getting married is also friends with my ex. My friend was showing me the photos and to say the pictures of my ex made me take notice is an understatement.
When she was younger, 16 or 17, my ex suffered from anorexia, she got over it and was fine for years. She is now 28. When we were together she was a normal size, and had been for years, she could be described as quite curvy, she looked after herself but was not skinny at all.
In the photo I saw from the wedding my ex looks dangerously thin. I am not even saying she has lost a bit of weight, she has become very very skinny, to the point where she looks odd with it when stood next to other people.
I am concerned she may have lapsed back into problems. It may not even be something I should concern myself with but I would be interested in what people think?
I would also be interested in if people think I should contact her to see if she is OK or if I should steer clear?