A few years ago I met a girl on an online game. At first we just casually talked because we shared a lot of the same interests, but as time went on we began talking for hours at a time pretty much every day. After some time in this stage she wanted to meet me irl. Sure enough, I did meet her irl even though she lives about 12 hours away from me. I stayed at her house for a few days and everything went great. Since then we still talk every day for the most part, but I don't know what I should do. I have strong feelings for this girl and she has feelings for me. I just don't know how I could have a relationshop with a girl that I can only visit a few times a year. I suppose it can be done but should I pursue this?

I met a guy online too. We lived about 3 hours from each other. He was worth it!! We've been together 12 years and we've been married for 8. Give it shot. You never know.

It's always worth a shot. How old are the two of you? It may be worth it in the long run if you eventually end up living together.

Can you close the distance between you?

If not, then your basically pen-pals, that see each other once in a while.

Can you close the distance between you??

If not, then your basically pen-pals, that see each other once in a while.


Eventually yes the distance can be closed but not anytime in the near future.