OK so a month ago me and my girlfriend got back 2gther. We have been on and off for the last year and been through so much drama 2gther at one point we hated each other so much we said some very and did some very hurtful things. Anywhew over the summer we got talking again on fb and realoised how much we love each other and when she came back to my home town where she studies, we got back together. The last month as been great, all loved up, having a great time 2gther, my only problem is every now and again we have little arguments which push us right back to a starting line of trust. This week she is staying in leeds in a hotel and she went out with a young man she is working with. Naturally I got jealous, I didn't shout or sanything but she could tell by my tone of voice I wasn't too happy about her spending so much time in a hotel with him. I foned her back shortely and said I'm sorry I just miss you that's all. Her response was 'ok ill let you off' anyway I went out with my mates and my battery went dead so when I turned it on this morning I got loads of missed calls from her texts saying night from last night which I didn't respond to. Then she called me this morning aksing if I wa spissed off with her I sai d'no not at all my fone was just dead' we had a nice chat, then she said 'ok well ill let you go. Speak soon. Byeee' usually we say I love you at the end of all our converstaions and usually she's texting me or telling me on the fone how much she is missing me. But she hasn't been! What do I do now. I mean things are OK between us but I don't feel very loved up or wanted right now. It all seems a bit casual, whereas Sunday night we were talking about moving in together someday. What do I do? Like I said ill call her later and it will porb be just the same. All quite casual and everything. I don't want to start playing games because we've been doing that in the past and it just doesn't work. What do/shud I do to help bring back this passion of love we had so strong for each other last week?

You are becoming way to dependent already man! You are clinging onto her waiting for anything to happen, you are reading too much into things and wondering what's going wrong with you two. Just see what happens, it's all you can do

I can't believe your still on this roller coaster, and Rome is right, your expectations are so high, she will never live up to them.

You will never be happy with her, until your happy with yourself.

The whole story which starts in January.
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Cheers guys, I needed to hear that. And your right, my expectations are way to high. I've decided to go swimming this morning, going to do other tings today, going to leave my fone at home and just have some escape from her for a day to get back to being me again. Your right about the dependent thing. I foned her yesterday ands asked whether she'll be coming to see me on Saturday night or ill come down to met her, and she said to me 'i don't know because its my friends birthday so I'm going out with her' so I said 'ok , don't worry about it then. Ill go out with the lads' a couple of hours later I get a text saying 'we should go home early on Saturday night'... anyway, I'm just going to back off a tiny bit the next couple of days, let her get on with her work, ill get on with mine and see what happens.