OK so I'm 17 and I've know this girl for a few months, her doyfriend was one of my best friends, and I first saw her when I went with them to the movies, I was instantly attracted to her. About a week after that they broke up, she gave her number by myspace and I talked to her about the break up and we just talked on and off for a few weeks, after a while I told her that I liked her more than a friend and she told me that she didn't know and that she should have seen the signs, but the next day it was like I didn't tell her, we were still the same. We didn't talk for about a week or two, it was like we both just lost interest, then we started texting and talking again, and one night she told me that she wanted to have sex with really bad, just be like friends with benefits, we talked freely about sex and had some text sex about every night, I would go and see her sometimes (she lives in another town), one Friday night we went to the movies and we were sitting next to each other away from her other friends, and about midway through the movie she sat up and moved the arm rest so she could lay her head on my shoulder and wrap her arms around mine. When the movie was over she looked like she was getting up so I started to get up then she stopped me and french kissed me, we sat up and left the theater. We went to another place to hang out, she told her friends that she wnted to go lay down in the car and asked if I wanted to go with her, so I did and we got in the back seat and she cuddled up against me and we talked for awhile and her friends showed up. We left to go drop one of the friends off and she laid her head on my shoulder with her arm around mine and her other hand on my chest, we got to the persons house and as we walked up the driveway she looped her arm through mine, we said hi to his family and the other friends stayed to hang out while we went back to the car, again we sa in the back and she laid her head on my shoulder and what not, we fell asleep for awhile, on our way home we held hands while she leand on me and I rubbed the side of her arm every now and then and she rubbed mine. When we got to my truck she got out with me to say goodbye and we hugged for a little while and I put my hands on her hips and she did it to me to we kissed again and hugged, she kissed my neck the we kissed again. After that night she got kind of distant, like we haven't talk dirty or anything like that, I asked her why she didn't want to date me and she told me that she wasn't looking for a relationship, now I don't think we are even going to do the sex thing, please tell me what is going on, I have no idea

First I don't think so she likes if she was your best friend girl friend just like you said and they broke I think she just only want something to forget him and do a dirty thing with you so she can forget him and I think when she finishe the bussines with you she going to say to you good bye and never going to come back she wasn't the right girl for you and my advice if you are looking for girl first starting with looking each other and then dating and then love she didn't even show any sings for real relation I think you have to let it go , but if you one have fun and she is availbe to you trying to push her self to have sex with you , right thing to do walk away I don't thing she is right for you

YA it time to move on I don't think she knows what she wants she sounds confused and to be honest you don't want to be with a girl that isn't sure if she wants to be with you or not, your better then that. I know it hurts and everything but your better off look for another girl who won't play games and be so confused you ll be better off..

Take care of you

MIXED SIGNALS! She acts like she likes you but then again she stops talking to you. Doesn't it frustrate you? It sounds to me like she's not ready for a serious relationship. I would move on and find someone who knows what she wants.