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mithr314
Oct 11, 2008, 03:37 AM
Hi
I am in a relationship which has been going on for 5 years... my boyfriend did breakup with me in between this period as I was becoming over possesive... but then we rejoined after 1 year when he saw that I have changed... I started thinking from his side... now every thing is going well from my point of veiew , but my boyfriend is not happy with the new me.. he say that I'm acting in front of him which I'm not... and nnow he hate when I talk to other boys... he is afraid that I would repay him... please help me... I really want to make him realize that I turely love him :(

Clough
Oct 11, 2008, 03:45 AM
Hi, mithr314!

Have you really had a talk with him about the way that you feel like the way that you are stating it here?

Thanks!

talaniman
Oct 11, 2008, 05:25 AM
Your in a situation where you changed, and now he must, for this relationship to survive. Y

You must express this to him in an honest, calm way, and give him a chance to decide if he is ready to make things better on his part.

If you can't work this out together, then you will grow apart, as you have already seen for yourself.

Its really his choice, as he must be made to understand you cannot live like this.