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Gybites911
Oct 9, 2008, 11:07 AM
I have a girl I really like. But she hates me! How can I go about impressing her?:o

450donn
Oct 9, 2008, 11:19 AM
You can't. There is no way you are going to change a persons mind about you unless you show them that their initial impression was wrong. Be friendly, outgoing, not pushy and try just being her friend.

chaosxonxice
Oct 10, 2008, 09:40 PM
If she hates you... then I really don't see a point in trying to get her to like you.

ChihuahuaMomma
Oct 10, 2008, 09:56 PM
Just show her the real you without throwing it in her face. If she doesn't seem to care, move on, it's not a big loss.

Revival
Oct 10, 2008, 11:33 PM
Keep dreaming is a phrase that comes to mind. Best of luck if you try but you're going to wind up wasting your time.

talaniman
Oct 11, 2008, 08:52 AM
Don't waste time on someone who isn't interested. Just curious, why does she hate you??

JBeaucaire
Oct 11, 2008, 09:24 AM
Hate? Actually hate you? If she REALLY hates you, this is a waste of time.

But people often say "love" and "hate" when what they mean is "attracted to" or "not interested in". What exactly do you mean by "hate".

My wife of 23 years turned me down the first 5 times I asked her because she "wasn't interested in me" and thought I was weird. (I was) So, perseverance paid off... for both of us.

But she didn't really know me so that meant there WAS a chance to be pursued. Is this the case with you? Or no?

Gybites911
Oct 15, 2008, 06:49 PM
OK maybe not hate but she basiclly looks away

talaniman
Oct 15, 2008, 07:58 PM
Forget it!! She hates you!