I am 23 and I have dated a few guys until now, of which I was really in love with one of them. I was dating the other ones because I liked them, and I just wanted to have someone to spend time with, have fun, etc.

Two months ago I moved to a different city and I broke up with my boyfriend and now I am almost craving men's attention. I met someone who I started to like and he asked me out a few times, but then I noticed him one night when we were out with friends that he was hugging and talking too much to the other girls there, so I thought I would start doing the same thing - and I started talking to another guy who, at the end of the evening asked for my number. I gave it to him, since I was still mad with the first guy, who was not treating me any special from the other girls that night. I am wondering now what's wrong with me. Why I am I looking for another's man attention if the one I am interested in is not treating me with all the attention I would like? Am I too demanding? Am I too jealous or selfish? Shall I keep my interested in the guy that I liked first, even if he does not seem as interested in me as I thought or it's OK to keep meeting other guys and compare?

I hate confusions and too many fallbacks or options so in my opinion, just one guy at a time. Just pick one guy at a time. do your thing as a godd GF: be sweet, communicative and appreciative, if you are not getting what you deserve, then let it go.

Rule of thumb: Communicate first before assuming and giving up.

I don't think there's anything wrong with what you are doing there are no official ties to the men so you should feel free to get to know as many men as you like - you are still single, after going on a few dates with a guy there are no obligations toward him unless it has been discussed. Maybe you had just read into things too much and too seriously whereas he had a more relaxed and casual view about things. This doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you - just two people heading in different directions.

If you and this guy are committed to each other, then he shouldn't be out wasting his time talking to other women and hugging all over them. So, if that is the kind of person he is going to be, then don't waste your time. However, you shouldn't be trying to retaliate by talking with some other guy and giving him your number. All that is going to do is spark up a problem, and will get you nowhere. If you two aren't committed, then do whatever the heck you want, and I'm sure he will do the same. But really, what is the point in you talking to him if that is the case? You should want your man's attention and he should want to give it to you, and you should be grateful when he gives it to you and he should be grateful that you are there for him to give you his attention. It's called reciprocating, and if that isn't going to happen, then don't waste your time. Don't settle.

I don't think there is anything wrong with what your doing.life is to be lived.so I say go for it.the right man isn't come yet and when he dose you will know then you can think about settling down.

As long as you don't get carried away, and cross the boundaries of your own personal behavior, you can enjoy being single.

Whatever turns your crank, but listen to yourself, if it don't feel right don't do it.