qwerty108
Oct 8, 2008, 04:54 PM
Hello all.
I've recently stumbled upon a good looking gal that I just so happen to work with. We don't work together AT ALL. We just work in the same building. Let's get something straight first... she has a 3 year old kid, and is still living with the dad. They've had some rough times together, and they are not a couple anymore. They are still living together for the sake of the child and they're friends.
So, with that being said, we've been only able to email each other while at work. We rarely see each other at work, so we're basically stuck emailing back and forth. Right now, I'm not very interested in having a kid to take care of. So I've kind of made up my mind that I don't really want to be more than friends. But the past few weeks, we've finally decided to "hang out" some night. You would think that I would be really nervous... but I'm not. When we do see each other I don't get nervous or anything. Part of me thinks that she likes me, so I don't really want to lead her on thinking that I want more than just friends. I get confused in these types of situations, and I've made other mistakes in trying to read girls "signals". So right now, I'm just sort of not expecting anything. And with having a kid, that just makes it harder to move past being "just friends". And having the ex living with her is not too exciting either.
Talking to her and getting to know her a little bit makes me think that we could have a good time together. I'm trying to think of this situation of going out with one of my buddies and we're out having a good time. That way, the conversations don't get too heavy, and it can be a carefree atmosphere. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!
I've recently stumbled upon a good looking gal that I just so happen to work with. We don't work together AT ALL. We just work in the same building. Let's get something straight first... she has a 3 year old kid, and is still living with the dad. They've had some rough times together, and they are not a couple anymore. They are still living together for the sake of the child and they're friends.
So, with that being said, we've been only able to email each other while at work. We rarely see each other at work, so we're basically stuck emailing back and forth. Right now, I'm not very interested in having a kid to take care of. So I've kind of made up my mind that I don't really want to be more than friends. But the past few weeks, we've finally decided to "hang out" some night. You would think that I would be really nervous... but I'm not. When we do see each other I don't get nervous or anything. Part of me thinks that she likes me, so I don't really want to lead her on thinking that I want more than just friends. I get confused in these types of situations, and I've made other mistakes in trying to read girls "signals". So right now, I'm just sort of not expecting anything. And with having a kid, that just makes it harder to move past being "just friends". And having the ex living with her is not too exciting either.
Talking to her and getting to know her a little bit makes me think that we could have a good time together. I'm trying to think of this situation of going out with one of my buddies and we're out having a good time. That way, the conversations don't get too heavy, and it can be a carefree atmosphere. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!