brandibaby23
Oct 7, 2008, 02:44 PM
This is a long story but I will try and make it short. My Uncle is getting rail roaded by the county domestic relations office and the court systems. I wrote this on his behalf...
I have 2 daughters 13 and 16 who live with their mother and her Husband. I on the other hand, have a steady job of 16 years and a wife that loves my daughters as her own. My daughters are being left in bar parking lots while they(my ex and her boyfriend) go into the bar! I know this because my girls told me and then I have taped it on video. I called the police about it which nothing was done except they (police) were going to arrest me for harassment! My daughters have told me, that their mother and her husband will fight and she with leave with my daughters and ride around all night in the car on a school night and my girls will miss school the next day! They have left their 8 month old baby at home for my oldest daughter to watch while they go away. My oldest girl (13) is being allowed to run around unattended with other boys and girls her age. Her mother says she's a teenager now and she can do what she wants. My ex-wife has numerous times been in contempt of the court order, allowing my children to walk the street to get to our drop off which is HER mothers house, another being that my youngest daughter was supposed to be picked up at our usual time but was told by her mother she was not allowed to come with me, nothing has ever been done, their mother has assaulted me, nothing was done, I tried to file a report and the cops laughed at me saying " I think your safe now." I don't think any of these things are good for my daughters. I and my wife can and do provide my children with stability love and discipline when we are allowed to have them. I love my girls and I don't want them making bad choices because they didn't have good opportunities. I have never been before a judge due to money issues I need help to help my children could you help me to figure out a payment that could suit you and greatly help the lives of me and my girls. This can't be fair I should be raising my girls I have never done wrong by my girls, never been in contempt, never let them run alone, never let them outside in a car while I go into a bar! I have never abused their mother, I have never said mean words around my girls about their mother, all of the things I've said I have proof of, it seems to me it should be an easy case but I don't have the means to fight for them the way it needs to be done I guess. While I pay child support, support me and my wife and my children, my ex-wife lives with her husband that makes as much money as I do and they get welfare because her husband keeps a PO box. They have lived together for 8 years now collecting welfare and lying to the state. They have recently been married about 1 year. Our marriage ended because of infidelity on her part, and I left and I was faulted for that due to ignorance of not being knowledgeable of the law. Please help me! I have tried all I know to do but without a lot of money my kids can't be given a voice to get out of the unhealthy and unstable place they are. My oldest daughter no longer wants to be a part of my life now due to who knows what. I would also like to have custody of my youngest daughter, to try and give her the stable and loving life she deserves. She has recently called me crying scared with all the fighting and things that go on at her mothers house. I will take any advice or opportunity you can offer. I will try anything. Any one with any suggestions Please help a good dad not get screwed.
The mother has just taken him back for more support he pays now 850 per month religiously and now she wants more on top of the welfare she is frauding from the state and numerous other things she has lied about Honestly this woman is the Devil and it is sad when people use their children as leverage.
I have 2 daughters 13 and 16 who live with their mother and her Husband. I on the other hand, have a steady job of 16 years and a wife that loves my daughters as her own. My daughters are being left in bar parking lots while they(my ex and her boyfriend) go into the bar! I know this because my girls told me and then I have taped it on video. I called the police about it which nothing was done except they (police) were going to arrest me for harassment! My daughters have told me, that their mother and her husband will fight and she with leave with my daughters and ride around all night in the car on a school night and my girls will miss school the next day! They have left their 8 month old baby at home for my oldest daughter to watch while they go away. My oldest girl (13) is being allowed to run around unattended with other boys and girls her age. Her mother says she's a teenager now and she can do what she wants. My ex-wife has numerous times been in contempt of the court order, allowing my children to walk the street to get to our drop off which is HER mothers house, another being that my youngest daughter was supposed to be picked up at our usual time but was told by her mother she was not allowed to come with me, nothing has ever been done, their mother has assaulted me, nothing was done, I tried to file a report and the cops laughed at me saying " I think your safe now." I don't think any of these things are good for my daughters. I and my wife can and do provide my children with stability love and discipline when we are allowed to have them. I love my girls and I don't want them making bad choices because they didn't have good opportunities. I have never been before a judge due to money issues I need help to help my children could you help me to figure out a payment that could suit you and greatly help the lives of me and my girls. This can't be fair I should be raising my girls I have never done wrong by my girls, never been in contempt, never let them run alone, never let them outside in a car while I go into a bar! I have never abused their mother, I have never said mean words around my girls about their mother, all of the things I've said I have proof of, it seems to me it should be an easy case but I don't have the means to fight for them the way it needs to be done I guess. While I pay child support, support me and my wife and my children, my ex-wife lives with her husband that makes as much money as I do and they get welfare because her husband keeps a PO box. They have lived together for 8 years now collecting welfare and lying to the state. They have recently been married about 1 year. Our marriage ended because of infidelity on her part, and I left and I was faulted for that due to ignorance of not being knowledgeable of the law. Please help me! I have tried all I know to do but without a lot of money my kids can't be given a voice to get out of the unhealthy and unstable place they are. My oldest daughter no longer wants to be a part of my life now due to who knows what. I would also like to have custody of my youngest daughter, to try and give her the stable and loving life she deserves. She has recently called me crying scared with all the fighting and things that go on at her mothers house. I will take any advice or opportunity you can offer. I will try anything. Any one with any suggestions Please help a good dad not get screwed.
The mother has just taken him back for more support he pays now 850 per month religiously and now she wants more on top of the welfare she is frauding from the state and numerous other things she has lied about Honestly this woman is the Devil and it is sad when people use their children as leverage.