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lisa3456
Oct 6, 2008, 01:59 PM
OK I don't know if you guys recall my earlier. I had a situation where this girl was harassing a lot of people I know and made it look like it was me. Well I was able to resolve the issue with most of the people the harassing was going on. One person I guy I met through my mom is still angry with me. Well I finally told my mom about it.She was upset
Because she would have called his mom right away.It has passed two months now and does not want to call at this point. I told her because the police were involved and just in case this woman continued to harass him I didn't want to get in trouble. My question is how to convince my mom that we do need to call her even if has passed two months.I feel like I can never get closure If I don't call his mom and explain this situation once and for all.I can't call him because he is mad at me and also I don't want to make things worse.I just want to try to explain everything.His mom is really nice. My mom just feels weird calling her.. What should I do..

Chery
Oct 6, 2008, 03:17 PM
Hi lisa, I do remember your name and part of the story, but you must have changed and logged on with a new username as the only post I find with the current name is this one. So, if you can find the links of the posts you wrote earlier, it will give others a chance to read them and get the whole story.

I hope that you will find an appropriate time and ask his mom if you can have a little talk with her so that you can explain things slowly and not get interrupted. Also, I hope you get this resolved and are able to go on with your life without having this stress hanging over your head for much longer.

Good luck, and keep us posted. If need be, you might have to tell your story again, but we are here for you, so stay with us.
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lisa3456
Oct 7, 2008, 01:49 PM
Thank you for responding.For some reason I cannot recall my password so I could not get
Into my account.Anyway it was about this woman who was harassing this guy by using
My email and name to harass him.He had the cops come to my house.anywayI want to clear the air and explain things but it has been almost three months.My mom is worried his
Mom might why call now.It was just that I had to understand everything she did first and
Also I was in shock the first two months. So what should I do...

Dragonfly1234
Oct 7, 2008, 01:58 PM
Can you speak to her mom yourself? Can you ask her to go and have a coffee with you somewhere. You could explain the whole story to her and tell her that you don't feel good about her son being angry with you and that you wanted to resolve this issue and that is why you asked to speak with her. If she wonders why your mom didn't get involved, tell her that you only recently told her and that you are trying to deal with this yourself as best as you can.