Haven't been on here in a long long time, and I wanted to see how everyone is doing

I am happy and currently investing my time on a girl that's pretty and have similar taste in music and in movies. How is everyone else doing?

Lost 7 pounds... that's something.

Congrats, man. I hope your doing well

It sounds as if both of you have something to be congratulated for.


Good for you spartan. she must have kept you busy enough since you've not been here for a while, so keep on doing what your doing and I hope all works out the way you want in your life. Don't be a stranger..

Hey JB.. what was it, sitting too much, or too many Reeses? At least you got rid of the excess baggage if that's what you wanted. You other half must have helped you eat healthier too, if I'm not mistaken.

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Haha, you always crack me up Chery. I hope your doing fantastic as well

Homecoming dance is in a week, and I'm afraid to ask her out for the dance. It's kind of refreshing to have this kind of feeling again :)

Yup, it's great to feel those old butterflies again, isn't it.

I have a girlfriend with a 10 year old daughter who is going through the butterflies for the very first time in her life. Yes, she was together with a man (or she would not be a mother now), but she has never ever felt dizzy, not even erotic,just went through the motions without emotions.

She never knew how it would feel to get a shock when accidentally touched on the hand in a crowd, or felt all tingly when he looked in her eyes. Well, this girl is going though it right now and she's just all nuts about these new feelings.

So even after all these years, it happened, just as it will happen to you and the rest of the world when the time is right and the right person comes along.

I just got through reading a new post and was surprised at how a young man can glean so much from his experience and then put it down on paper (so to speak). Not many men give these deep emotions a second thought, let alone write them down, so check it out - I think you'll enjoy it.

As for those butterflies of yours, let them happen, go to the event and enjoy life to the fullest, dear.

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Hey JB.. what was it, sitting too much, or too many Reeses? At least you got rid of the excess baggage if that's what you wanted. You other half must have helped you eat healthier too, if I'm not mistaken.

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Actually, I'm the cook in this family... at least this year.

Last night I made Tomato Basil & Onion Soup (from scratch) with a Walnut/Raisin salad.

Tonight, I'm thinking... Ham & Cheese Paninis. I got a Panini press and haven't broken it in fully yet.

I'm planning a Ribeye Roast for Wednesday. Anyone want to come over?

Wednesday would be fantastic, I haven't had a ribeye in about a year. Someday soon, I'll grill one soon. Even if I have to grill in the snow

Like spartan, I've lost weight... getting into the gym, and I'm even learning MMA (Mixed Martial Arts) from a friend of mine...

Still going through NC, it seems to be getting harder and harder every day, but I'm all right... things could always be worse...

Hello again Spartan, glad to see you have moved ahead with life, that's great.

Is this the same female?? /

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Lost 7 pounds...that's something.

I found them, want them back? ;) :p

Hey tal, nice seeing you again
No this isn't the same female, it's a different one. I've only been talking to her about a week or two but she's very interesting. We haven't really hung out anything and she's been acting really weird for the past two days
I don't really know why (I don't think I've said anything wrong) but we don't talk as much as we used to now
Oh well, I could always be worse

How are you doing, Tal?

Some good days some bad. Day fifteen of nc, right now I feel the urge for a little fix just a small txt saying hi. But I will fight it.

Some good days some bad. Day fifteen of nc, right now I feel the urge for a little fix just a small txt saying hi. But I will fight it.

I've been there, man. It's better to just keep those things to yourself. I made a fool out of myself a couple of times doing that with my ex but she always had the decency to talk to me then and ignore me now. More power to you, my friend. And good luck

Hey guys! It's been a couple months since I broke up with my ex.. he's still trying to get me back, but I won't have any of it

I'm dating a new guy now, we've been together almost 2 months now, he's great and the complete opposite of my ex.. I'm very happy right now!

See? There is always light at the end of the tunnel!

How are you doing, Tal?
Between grandkids, and a dog, busy, very busy!!

Tal, you have grandkids? No way, you're not old enough. Nope, I don't believe it! :)

What's wrong with grandkids?

Nothing is wrong with grandkids, I just can't believe that Tal is old enough to have them. :)

I myself look forward to grandkids, but my kids are currently 10 and 6, so I'm happy to wait a while, a long while. :)

Did I mention the dog??

I have 2 dogs Tal, so yes, you are definitely old enough to have a dog. :)

Broke up 6 months ago. Things are incredible now!!

Yeah, there was those couple of months where I thought my life was over, but WOW how time can change things. Life really does and has moved on. For the first time in years, I'm honestly happy with my life and where its headed. Learned to love myself again and reconnect with friends and families. And after dating around for a while with some good/some bad experiences, I may have met someone recently that could definitely be "something". Wow, how good it feels to honestly have those feelings again... the giddiness, butterflies, etc. And the best part is, he honestly is a genuinely nice good guy who is all for taking things slow and getting to know each other. Wish me luck! :-)

I wish you all the best of luck. And since there are only 'Get Well Soon' cards in stores, I thought I'd come up with some Happy Healing cards to help you along your way. I hope you like this and can escape into it now and then, just to refresh yourselves a little. There is life after a breakup!

As water keeps on flowing, life keeps on living - there is no stopping either one from going in any given direction.

Thank you Chery
Thanks for being there, everyone. I don't know what I would've done those heartbreaking months, I owe you guys; that's why I'm trying to give back to the community. I'm actually surprised you guys didn't forget me :)
Well have a nice day everyone, I have a term paper due tomorrow so I'll see you guys tomorrow.

I guess it does feel like a holiday, when you see people come back here, happy and healthy.