I will try to sum this up quickly?. I met this guy he's 30 I am 45.. we met about 2 months ago, although in the last month its gotten more serious I think?. lol.. He seemed to have some girls in his life when we first met, then another 1 came along, then we got more serious and now there's no more women in his life, we have spent almost every night together, He has taken me to some nice places for dinner, had no remorse about kissing me in public, then we had a few drinks went home and had kind of sex, but its all fuzzy for the both of us, not good!. anyway that was last weekend now, last night I went over to his house and we went out for dinner, had 2 drinks, went back to his place got really into heavy kissing, then when I was sure we were finally going to go to the bedroom, I asked if he would turn out the light , he didn't, then things cooled right down and he seemed tired? I don't know, but we had NO sex?. So sometimes he's on and off again about this issue, days when I know he's ready and I'm not, then days when HE knows I'm ready and he won't?. Please any advice on where this is going?. Do you think he really wants to have sex with a clear head? maybe a special moment?. or he's not attracted to me?

I think, Texas, you have to work a little harder to get that guy's attention in the bedroom. What you are describing is sort of humdrum. For heavens sake, get sexier stuff going on and then maybe you will tweek his interest. A sexually progressive woman with a good libido should have no problem knowing what to do to get her guy interested in sack time!

Undress and have some really sexy lingerie on; tease him a little; strutt your stuff naked in front of him if that's what it takes!

Think about it.

Could the lust be wearing off?? Maybe its time to see if there is really something there between you, besides the physical.