My best friends fell out with me for some stupid reasons. Now they are telling my other best friend I am lying about something I wouldn't. Now I have no friends and it is ing up my head and grades. Im in year 10 and need to get good exam results.I need away to end it all any sugestions?? :confused:

High school is hard, but you'll make it through. I had a lot of issues in high school, but they were issues I was having at home. If you have a counselor at school it doesn't hurt to talk to him/her. It will feel better to talk about it. You lose a lot of friends in high school years from my experience and you find out who your true friends are when they stick by your side. Talk to your friend if you can- or if you want to, rather- about reconciling. You both need to want to work things out for it to work though.

When I was in high school I had a friend, Amy that was super jealous of another friend that I used to hang out with a lot, Valerie, because I was really close with her. Valerie and I had been friends for years before I even met Amy and we lived just a few houses apart. Well, we were all working at the same place at one point. And out of nowhere Valerie decided she didn't want to be friends with me anymore. I had NO idea why- nothing made any sense. I tried to ask her but we didn't talk for years. Then about 5 years later she calls me and says we should get together because she was in town. She had gone away for college. We hung out and laughed until we cried. It was just like old times. I asked what happened that she stopped talking to me and apparently it was because Amy told her I didn't like her cowboy boots and country music. I have a hard time even talking to Amy anymore because I never made fun of Valerie for any of it and I even listen to country. Amy flat-out lied in hopes that we wouldn't be friends anymore.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that people do/say stupid things in high school, but I wish I would have found out what happened with Valerie sooner because we're right back to where we were before Amy ruined our friendship. I couldn't be happier. I have seen other friends walk out of my life but they were the ones where you realize you're better off without them.

Think about how much this friend means to you and decide if it's worth patching up the friendship, if not just know that you'll make other friends along the way.

I've been there! Though I'm only in year 9 I know what its like, I use to hang around with the older crowd and get into abit of mess with everyone, because once the olders hate you, you're pretty screwed! ANYWAY not the point lol, yeah, if you've got the girl they're trying to get away from you on msn or myspace or something, TALK TO HER! It's the best thing to do, talk to people, don't talk to your parents, people say you should, but to be honest I don't think that helps at all.

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Battery, parents are people too, and most times they can offer good advice because they've been through a similar situation. Teens don't have enough experience to offer advice on things like this.

Of course all parents are different, some are easier to talk to than others. Just because your parents aren't easy to talk to doesn't mean that the OP's aren't.