I have just got out of a 4 year relationship and I graduated HS last year. I'm a good looking guy and very outgoing.

There is this girl she is a Sophomore, and I met her just a few days ago. She found me on Facebook and left a comment saying we should hang out soon, and she gave me her number. We talk quite a lot. Its gotten to the point where her friends are also talking to me more and always ask how me and her(the girl I just met) are doing, and we have never hung out except that day.

Im not looking for a relationship because I just got out of one and it was/still is a painful thing because I still love the girl.

So is what this girl is doing flirting?

Im not looking for a relationship because I just got out of one and it was/still is a painful thing because I still love the girl.


One thing wron with thaat don't do it you could end up doingf it till our 6 feet under...

Yes she likes you... if these are the signs


1. she tends to smile a lot when you see her

2. she sometimes stares blankly at you and sort of freaks out slightly and sayings its nothing

Does she overly want some from of phsyical contact...

That just a few anyway don't like an ex even though you just broke up since she did it to you think back as to why it happened and if she did it and youu were caring compassionate and cooperative and she did it don't like someone like that instead be a bit angry and move on

I think she likes you, and if the relationship clearly moves out of a friendship zone to a romantic one you need to let her know to avoid hurting her feelings.

Well if she knows what u are going through and still flirts with u den it is your call... if its unfair to her or its time to move on..

Yeah, she likes you!
Gave you her number...
Leaves comments on your Facebook...
Friends ask about you and her...
She is all over you! Lol

The girl is obsessed. In a good way, lol. She wants you! Congratulations! The question YOU have to answer now is are you going to pursue it. Like you said, you just got out of a 4 year relationship, I guess your high school sweetheart. That is always hard to get over. But, and you know this, you want to be careful you're not setting up a rebound relationship. It is a tough decision, but you don't want to lead on this girl like you're going to build a relationship. Think about it, A LOT, and talk to her about it. Or, if you decide you want a relationship, go for it! Just be careful.

Good luck,
And let us know what you decide to do!

OK just to keep everyone updated here's what's going on.

Yesterday I was on the phone with her best friend because my best friend thinks she is hot(the girl I'm on the phone with). She was telling me that she thinks my friend is really cute and would love to hang out. So I told her that we can all go to the movies so they can get to know each other.

Then she said she was IMing the girl I'm attracted to. She started asking her what she thought of me and she said that she thinks I'm really good looking that I'm funny and she enjoys being around me but doesn't think I'll like her because she thinks she isn't as pretty as my ex (which is false this girl is very very attracttive). When she was told that me, my best friend, and that girl were going to the movies she said she wants to go (which is where the conversation between them was obv going) and so now she is going.

I think its clear that the only reason she is going is because of me and I can't begin to explain to you how happy that makes me, not because a girl is atttracted to me but because I'm legitamently attracted to this girl. I don't want people to think I'm trying to use her as a rebound because I'm not, I'm also not trying to dive into a relationship, I'm going to take my time and see what I want.

When I was with my ex the last year or so felt like I was 2nd and 3rd to her like I wasn't an important part of her life, she never called me to see if I wanted to hang out, to see what I was doing when I didn't see her, but this girl she calls me to see if I want to hang out with her, she actually likes being around me, we make each other happy and comfortable.

I also want to thank everyone, if it weren't for you guys I wouldn't have heard the NC rule. I followed that and I actually feel better like I'm over it,she actually calls me now and I don't feel the need to make desperate conversation, I realize that I did nothing wrong and that I treated her like a queen and that she dumped for a dumb reason. Im very happy now and I owe that in a large part to the people on here, thank you.