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Oct 1, 2008, 10:08 AM
So, it's been two months since my ex broke up with me. I'm doing well enough right now. I met a new guy. He's a bartender at his family's restaurant and that's how we met. I went to eat there and we flirted, then I went back 2 weeks later and we flirted again and ended up having sex. I enjoyed it a lot more than I thought I would since I know I'm not completely over my ex yet. This guy also just got out of a relationship that went on for 5 years and is clearly not over his ex either. So we talked about having a casual, purely sexual thing. I've never done anything like this before. I like this guy. He's really cute and friendly but I know I'm not ready for a real relationship, and he isn't either. I just wanted to hear some thoughts about this. It sounds like it could be fun, but I'm kind of scared that it might go wrong somehow.