So I`ve got this friend for 2 years already. We`re like best friends. We share our secrets and trust each other. He lost his virginity first and after that he told me that I have to do it to cause it`s a good think. He told me to find a good looking guy. But that`s a problem for me cuse people think that we are together. Once when we were in club with our friends he was drunk a little bit and his behaviour was naughty. We had a moment alone and we had a talk. He sad to me that I`m for him like a lil` sister and I told him that he`s lika a father to me (he`s older then me). But now I feel that I want to do IT with him. So my queston is-haw to have IT with him?
P.S sorry for my bad gramar.

First you sound WAY to young to be thinking about sex, and if this guy is older, would it even be legal?

Second, virginity is something sacred and should not be taken lightly. Losing it just because someone says it's a good thing isn't the best reasoning. How about finding a guy who you have a strong connection with and decide together that your relationship is ready for that step.

You have confused some intense feelings you have, with lust, and I advise you not to act on them, as he has told you he doesn't like you in that manner.

Forget it, it can only hurt you!