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anono
Sep 28, 2008, 03:26 PM
Hello , there's this girl , I really like her and she likes me she wants me to ask her out and I want to but she has had sex . I'm not ready , what do I do?

NItEMArE129
Sep 28, 2008, 03:41 PM
If you're not ready, you're not ready. Don't make yourself do something you're not ready for. And if the right moment comes and you feel that you are ready for it, then by all means, go for it. But it's too early to think about it now, so just go with the flow

asking
Sep 28, 2008, 03:46 PM
Just because you've heard she's had sex doesn't mean she will want to have sex right away or at all. Don't assume you know what she wants, and don't feel pressured to do something you don't want to do. If you want to spend time with her, ask her out. Going to a party with friends or to a concert doesn't require a decision about sex.

nicole0789
Sep 28, 2008, 03:59 PM
OK just because a girl has has sex does not mean she is going to want to rush into sex with another person. Take from me I am not a virgin but I like to make sure I am in a meaningful relationship before I take the next step to having sex. Just be honest with her and if she really cares about you she will respect that in fact it could be a turn on !

Alty
Sep 28, 2008, 04:04 PM
Take your time, there's no rush. Let her know that you aren't ready for that step, I'm sure she'll understand. If she doesn't then you will know right away that she's not the girl for you.

Good luck.

Bellagrace19
Sep 28, 2008, 04:12 PM
Go for it, but the first thing that you need to do, is lay it on the line about how you feel, and your beliefs. Good Luck

talaniman
Sep 28, 2008, 05:42 PM
How do you know she has had sex??

Do you think that's all she wants from you?

If so why do you like her??

Romefalls19
Sep 29, 2008, 06:34 AM
Take a chance, if she pressures you into sex then there is reason to end it. Make clear about your beliefs with sex and she will most likely accept them

jenny77
Sep 29, 2008, 06:35 PM
That's is the cutest thing I've heard she is probably guna LOVE that.. I always wished my boyfriend was a virgin like me when I met him but he wasn't. And if you really like her make her wait until your ready and if she's not ready to wait you know what to do ;) just curious how old are you? Be honest