Hello ! I was in a relationship for almost 1 year my partner left me I'am codependent he did not say good-bye or anything he was a addict 'crack ' he did tell me he was leaving to his uncles but he actually never broke-up I did the breaking up.. as he unemotional available person.. I told him clearly that I did not want him to call me at all to please respect my decision he said nothing.. just glanced at me and left with his clothes --now 1 week later he has called me 3 times but I refuse to answer his call... I told him its over' what's wrong with this guy I made it clear and direct of my wants and needs.. anybody can give me some feedback.. I have not the faintest clue' what he wants? Or needs from me :mad: I'am moving -on with my-life just want to be left alone.. yes it cuts like a knife but I'am healing I feel he won't let me heal... :confused:

First of all good on you for doing that and cutting him out of your life

The best! Thing you could have done.

If he rings up again tell him your going to get the police into this to keep him away from you, he does not seem to understand that you want nothing more to do with him.

Get the police, and have them deal with scum

first of all good on ya for doing that and cutting him out of your life

The best! thing you could have done.

If he rings up again tell him your going to get the police into this to keep him away from you, he does not seem to understand that you want nothing more to do with him.

get the police, and have them deal with scum

:) hello buddy! Thxz for the in-put really makes me feel stronger I actually smiled' its been dreadful for me... see buddy he is not a bad person he never did nothing to me steal, abuse me either... he was to unemotionally unavailable all of sudden he wants to communicate 'wow' the nerve of him actually I did good... I'am trying to go healthy :o I'am what you call a people-plezzer a rescue-ranger get the point lol... :} to hear his voice I'am afraid I might weaken out... and tend to his needs because that's all I know how to rescue' I now know that I come 1st.. I want to keep it that way buddy! :cool: again thxzz manny 'i just hope the phone will not ring again !

You're a strong girl my darling
Just remember that in times of doubt


Regards

Just stay strong. Ignore the calls and if they persist, it is REALLY simple to change your number... and worth the inconvenience of giving out the new number to your friends and family.

Just stay strong.

Change the cycle, and keep him out of your life.

Keep doing what you're doing! You are doing great