View Full Version : I started my period but I think I am pregnant, could I be?
tiffnydjohnson
Sep 26, 2008, 04:06 PM
I had sex with this dude and I started my period two days later but I have reocurring dreams that I am pregnant I didn't think I was until after the dreams and I still feel that way on my period so is it possible to be pregnant while after starting your period two days after having sex?:confused::confused::confused:
J_9
Sep 26, 2008, 04:11 PM
Anytime you have unprotected sex, pregnancy is a possibility. Ovulation cycles vary in women, and, since we don't know when you ovulated, it is possible that you are pregnant.
tiffnydjohnson
Sep 26, 2008, 04:32 PM
I don't know much about any of this but ovulating I have no clue, how would you find out?
jennysolano18
Sep 26, 2008, 04:36 PM
I am not sure how it works either, but there are kits that you can buy at the pharmacy and it tells you the days you are ovulating. I don't remember the name of it but it comes out on t.v.
J_9
Sep 26, 2008, 04:39 PM
Many women get cramps on either the right or left side, during ovulation, yet most women have no idea. There is a change in vaginal discharge also, usually from a thick whitish discharge to a clear stringy discharge.
Ovulation occurs at different times of the month for every woman. For many women who have a 28 day cycle, ovulation is around the 12 - 16th day after the first day of the period, however, this is not true for every woman. Many don't have 28 day cycles, and ovulation can be early or late in the cycle.
After reading your other thread I was wondering if you are trying to get pregnant, or trying to avoid it. Also, how old are you?
tiffnydjohnson
Sep 26, 2008, 04:48 PM
God I have never been so worried in my life.
J_9
Sep 26, 2008, 04:51 PM
Unfortunately you now have to hurry and wait for your next period. If you are not ready to be a parent, you should not be having sex with "this dude."
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregnancy-new-motherhood/started-period-but-think-am-pregnant-could-264216.html
Sex should be saved for the person you may have to spend an eternity with due to the responsibility of raising a child.
tiffnydjohnson
Sep 26, 2008, 05:01 PM
I have I high sex drive but I don't believe in love or that there is somebody for everybody so ihave loveless sex is that a bad thing?
J_9
Sep 26, 2008, 05:05 PM
It's not a bad thing if you wish to get STDs HIV/AIDS or if you want the responsibility and expense of being a single mother.
DoulaLC
Sep 26, 2008, 05:07 PM
I suppose if it doesn't bother you, if you don't feel there should be more, if you are truly comfortable with it, then it isn't wrong for you. Just be sure that the people you are with know where things stand so there are no misunderstandings... and of course, be sure you keep yourself, and others, safe.
Keep in mind as well that if you are engaging in loveless sex with others who are doing the same... you are sleeping with everyone they have in the past and they may not always feel the need to be completely honest with you about it and any potential health concerns.
tiffnydjohnson
Sep 26, 2008, 05:08 PM
My hormones don't help how do I control them
tiffnydjohnson
Sep 26, 2008, 05:19 PM
I just have no idea what I might be getting into I need help:(:(:(
liz28
Sep 26, 2008, 05:21 PM
You have to turn to others things besides sex. Volunteer someone, etc. How old are you? I think in your other post you stated you was 17? What are some things you enjoy doing?
JudyKayTee
Sep 26, 2008, 05:28 PM
i just have no idea what i might be getting into i need help:(:(:(
What do you need help with?
This should be combined with your other posts: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregnancy-new-motherhood/dont-believe-love-sove-loveless-sex-comes-so-natural-wrong-264232.html
liz28
Sep 26, 2008, 05:29 PM
Your going to have a baby that you are going to have to support. Babies are expensive, clothes, stroller,etc. Your going need health insurance for the child so he/she can get their shots. There will be times that you get no rest and let not forget rushing to the hospital in the middle of the night or hearing the baby cry and you don't know why because it can be gas, coli,etc. Then the child crawling, walking and is no longer a baby but is a toddler.
When you have a child you are responsible for their life. You have to be able to provide for that child. The father can leave but you can't. Going to school or working will be hard but doable. Your life will revolve around that child.
liz28
Sep 26, 2008, 05:37 PM
I think you have too many posts and their all related. You need to understand what love is and if you want it. Sleeping with someone just because isn't good. With everything that's going around you have to be extra careful. You need to take off from sex and find out what you want from life then go after it.
J_9
Sep 26, 2008, 05:48 PM
<threads merged>
mommyv
Sep 27, 2008, 04:34 PM
Right on!