I am looking up for gays who seeking love not sex
But I can't find them

Don't single out gays (even though that's your area of interest). Straight people are aloof, too.

In the places most people "look" for people to date, the majority of people in those places are looking for attention and possibly sex, not love.

On the other hand, most people welcome love when it's found, even accidentally. So, just because the people you meet don't profess love as their goal, that might not be conclusive.

So, be careful of "hunting" in the places the masses of people congregate, and when you do find someone interesting, just BE interested in them. Most people find that very attractive.

Studies show that most people's favorite word is their own name. That should tell you something.

I can't find any love in gay relations that's making me so depressed all the time

Hi, supercerative!

Are you interested in anything that's outside the gay lifestyle, please? It would be helpful to know that. Also, what in particular, is it that's making you so depressed?

Thanks!

I don't know sometimes I feel like I don't find my lover and I need to be something else I really can't answer that it is so difficult for me

So, what other interests to you have, please? Do they go beyond that which is gay oriented?

Thanks!

I don't have other interests but if there's no love between gays I prefer to be straight

i don't have interests but if there's no lobe between gays i prefer to be straight

I'm not sure what you mean by this statement. Would you please elaborate on what you mean by it?

Thanks!

I don't have other interests but if there's no love between gays I prefer to be straight

Thanks!

So, what is it that your looking for exactly, please?