For all of you willing to read this whole thing thank you, and maybe thanks for your advice.. I really need it.



Okay so, i have a new boyfriend we've been dating for about a week, but i still have really strong feelings for my ex. Me and him still talk and things but its like the more i talk to him, and the more i get closer to him, my feelings become stronger.. i Just dont kno how to control them.. i Have asked my ex before if he was over me and he said no iTs really hard to control my feelings, but i like my new bf but not as much as i LOVE my ex.. sometimes when we text its like just an urge to tell him i love him.. but i cant.. Then later today, someone told me they liked me, and i was shocked because i just met him on about the 2nd day of school, but hes in a lower grade then me, i only know him from the bus. But yea anyways, my heart is telling my one thing.. and my feelings are telling me another.. My heart is telling me to stay with my current bf and just proceed with life, but my feelings are telling me to dump my current bf, and try to get back with my ex.. i Just dont really know what to do, im soo confused.. Help please?


Oh and some of you just leaving stupid little retarted comments, and not giving me shtt or helping me out. Keep ur comments to yourself, I dont need you wasting my time. THANK YOU !

Well why did you break up with the ex?
There must have been a good reason or you two would still be together

well why did you break up with the ex??
there must have been a good reason or you two would still be together

Actually no, I Didn't he did.

We can't tell you who to choose but basic rules are...

... do not jump to a new relationship right after the recent break up
... do not talk to an ex.
... be true to yourself at all times.


Things to consider in going back to an EX
... overall quality of the relationship
... presence of deceit and abuse
... feasibility

It sounds like you are young, I remember when I was younger I felt the same like omg all these people like me lol.. but anyway I think you should just follow your heart.

Well you should ask him why he honestly broke up with you?
And go forward from that awnser

What I would do if I was in your shoes is I'd think hard to myself, who do I like more? Who do I get more along with. You can't force yourself to like someone when you don't or that would just make you plain old miserable. Take the time to think to yourself about who you like more. Cause if you like your ex instead of your current then you should get back.

well you should ask him why he honestly broke up with you?
and go forward from that awnser


Another girl.

I think you jumped into a relationship too soon. Instead of leading the new guy on explain your situation and tell him you do not want to hurt him by jumping into something too soon.

Well then that says it all
He dumped you for another girl

Who says he won't do it again?
Id move on and forget about him,and see how you and your new boyfriend get on,take it slow,don't be rushing into stuff when your not ready

1. If he dumped you for another girl he can't be trusted.

2. You are using your boyfriend if you are thinking about your ex. Your current boyfriend did not ask for this nor does he deserve this. End it with now before he gets hurt even more.

3. Tell the new guy that you are recovering from a break up and you appreciate him saying he likes you but at this time you need to clear your head and when that happens you might be interested but you can't and won't confirm that until you've spent some time thinking about it.

1. If he dumped you for another girl he can't be trusted.

2. You are using your boyfriend if you are thinking about your ex. Your current bf did not ask for this nor does he deserve this. End it with now before he gets hurt even more.

3. Tell the new guy that you are recovering from a break up and you appreciate him saying he likes you but at this time you need to clear your head and when that happens you might be interested but you can't and won't confirm that until you've spent some time thinking about it.

If he gets hurt even more? Wth? Rofl.. U don't even know the beginging of what he's done to me. But k thanks.

If he gets hurt even more? Wth? Rofl.. U dont even kno the beginging of what he's done to me. But k thanks.

You misunderstood that. He meant the new boyfriend.

If he gets hurt even more? Wth? Rofl.. U dont even kno the beginging of what he's done to me. But k thanks.

Huh? I am also rofl, but not at your bad English at your own comments. That is correct before your boyfriend gets hurt even more because you are using him, you need to tell him it's over. How do I come to such a conclusion, while I read your original post, let's read it together and see what it says...


Okay so, i have a new boyfriend we've been dating for about a week, but i still have really strong feelings for my ex.

Hmmm. Seems a little... a lot unfair.


i like my new bf but not as much as i LOVE my ex..

Huh? Does you boyfiend like being used? Most guys don't?



My heart is telling me to stay with my current bf and just proceed with life, but my feelings are telling me to dump my current bf, and try to get back with my ex

OOOOOOHHH!! So your feeling are telling you to dump your boyfriend but when I actually say break up with him before he gets hurt even more you question me.

Huh? I am also rofl, but not at your bad English at your own comments. That is correct before your boyfriend gets hurt even more because you are using him, you need to tell him it's over. How do I come to such a conclusion, while I read your original post, let's read it together and see what it says.......



Hmmm. Seems a little.......a lot unfair.



Huh? Does you boyfiend like being used? Most guys don't?




OOOOOOHHH!!!! So your feeling are telling you to dump your boyfriend but when I actually say break up with him before he gets hurt even more you question me.



Rofl my english? My english is good.. U should tell me which boy your talking about.. iNstead of criticizing me.

Huh? I am also rofl, but not at your bad English at your own comments. That is correct before your boyfriend gets hurt even more because you are using him, you need to tell him it's over. How do I come to such a conclusion, while I read your original post, let's read it together and see what it says.......



Hmmm. Seems a little.......a lot unfair.



Huh? Does you boyfiend like being used? Most guys don't?




OOOOOOHHH!!!! So your feeling are telling you to dump your boyfriend but when I actually say break up with him before he gets hurt even more you question me.

O and wdf? IM not using him? IF you KNEW EXACTLY WHAT WAS GOiNG ON. You would do the same thing I'm doing.. But appearently you don't.. So back off? K thanks!

Uhm actually I'm not, your not me, so don't say stuff you don't even know. Ur bullsht isn't needed on this comment page.. Kthanks.

Rofl my english? My english is good.. U should tell me which boy ur talking about.. iNstead of critizing me.

I can't tell you how hard I laughed at you with this.

Also I did tell you what boy I was talking about. You actually have to read the posts.

O and wdf? iM not using him? iF you KNEW EXACTLY WHAT WAS GOiNG ON. You would do the same thing im doing.. But appearently you dont.. So back off? K thanks!

Priceless. Actually I have never needed to use someone while I've had feelings for someone else... so uh... No I would not do the same thing you are doing and if you are going to come here and lie about what you are doing I will happily call you on it. Maybe the boys on the bus don't see through your games but I sure can. K welcome!

Wow... Do not ask for advice if you do not want to hear the opinions people have. Chuff is right. You are too young. And you obviously heard what you did want to and got upset. You need to calm down a lot.

I can't tell you how hard I laughed at you with this.

Also I did tell you what boy I was talking about. You actually have to read the posts.

Actually I Did, But I Got A Little Confused, And iM Sorry About That, But You Laughing Doesn't Help The Situation So.. Go Comment Someone Else's Problem? Cause Your Not Helping Me At All, Your Making The Situation Worse. Bye.

Uhm actually im not, your not me, so dont say stuff you dont even know. Ur bullsht isnt needed on this comment page.. Kthanks.

My BS huh. What's the matter the high school guys don't see through your game and when someone else does it bothers you?

I'm curious about you insight. What exactly would you call it when you go out with someone but have feelings for someone else? I know you said I'd do it, and even though I'm not that cruel is that what you'd recommend for most couples?

My BS huh. What's the matter the high school guys don't see through your game and when someone else does it bothers you?

I'm curious about you insight. What exactly would you call it when you go out with someone but have feelings for someone else? I know you said I'd do it, and even though I'm not that cruel is that what you'd recommend for most couples?

Who Said I Was iN High school? And Who Said That Signature Was For You? NO BODY, Exactly. But Anyway, iT Was Hard Saying No To Him, I Could Tell He Liked Me A lot, And I Didn't Want Him To Be Hurt By Me Rejecting Him, We WERE Friends, Now We Are Together, But That Girl On The Other Comment Helped Me Out, iM Staying With My Current BF, Cause He Could Leave Me For Another Girl Again(My Ex), But Anyway, Sorry For All The Mis-Hap, Ttyl.

Oh And iM iN 8th.

Uhm actually I'm not, your not me, so don't say stuff you don't even know. Ur bullsht isn't needed on this comment page.. Kthanks.

Haha, And Yea Ur Bs, U Weren't Really Helping Me Out Bud, Sorry. l:

Oh And iM iN 8th.

O dear god. Never mind I regret posting in here.

O dear god. Never mind I regret posting in here.

LOLL, Why iS That.

O.k seriously. Caps lock key please check it. Second you are too young to have love. I can put money on come next year you will be with someone else. Just move on past your old ex and get good grades they come in handy more often then a boyfriend.

Who Said i Was iN HighSchool? And Who Said That Signature Was For You? NO BODY, Exactly.

OMG!! You are nuts. I didn't notice that signature until you just said this. My God I can't stop laughing!! And who said that anybody questioned on that signature? NO BODY (correctly spelled nobody).

Now I know why you have so many guys interested in you, you are too funny.


But Neways, iT Was Hard Saying No To Him, i Could Tell He Liked Me ALOT, And i Didnt Want Him To Be Hurt By Me Rejecting Him, We WERE Friends, Now We Are Together,

Don't you think it would hurt him more to go out with and then be dumped for another guy you had feelings for then to be rejected at the beginning?


But That Girl On The Other Comment Helped Me Out, iM Staying With My Current BF, Cause He Could Leave Me For Another Girl Again(My Ex),

That is exactly what I said!!


But Anyways, Sorry For All The Mis-Hap, Ttyl.

Your young you'll learn.

Oh And iM iN 8th.

Oh dear GOD!! That explains it all.

O dear god. Never mind I regret posting in here.

I had to spread it but I think this explains everything.

Oh I love it, I just got it that the original post was edited.


Oh and some of you just leaving stupid little retarted comments, and not giving me shtt or helping me out. Keep ur comments to yourself, I dont need you wasting my time. THANK YOU ![/B]

Yeah everybody quit being retarted. Nobody likes a retart! NO BODY waste her time or you are a retart.

It's my new favorite word.

Here's an answer quit dating

Ask Me Help Desk - Search Results (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/search.php?searchid=3208663)

Just so we know the whole story.

Priceless. Actually I have never needed to use someone while I've had feelings for someone else.....so uh.....No I would not do the same thing you are doing and if you are going to come here and lie about what you are doing I will happily call you on it. Maybe the boys on the bus don't see through your games but I sure can. k welcome!

? Lmaoo omg.. Ur so funny.. iM NOT USiNG HiM, Dumb sht.. U don't know me at all.. So don't talk sht about me if you don't even know me. K thanks.

? Lmaoo omg.. Ur so funny.. iM NOT USiNG HiM, Dumb sht.. U dont kno me at all.. So dnt talk sht about me if u dont even kno me. k thanks.

I think you should refrain from posting if you do not want to hear what people have to say. Just because someone does not agree with you does not mean you need to get rude with.

I think you should refrain from posting if you do not want to hear what people have to say. Just because someone does not agree with you does not mean you need to get rude with.

Uhm No Not Really, They Shouldn't Say Anything When They Hardly Know Me, My Post Asked For Advice, Didn't Ask For Negative Comments. Thank You.

Uhm No Not Really, They Shouldnt Say Anything When They Hardly Know Me, My Post Asked For Advice, Didnt Ask For Negative Comments. Thank You.

Nobody on here knows you so by that logic you should ask your friends for advice.

Nobody on here knows you so by that logic you should ask your friends for advice.

Damn, I had to spread it but this was both funny and the truth.

Somebody loves the drama!

How do I know, well this is one of the older posts she answered, which is ironic since she saw this last night when we were online with my super duper awesome new computer that I bought with my own money cause I don't live with my parents.

I don't usually giving a Chuffing to non English speakers but I've spoke a little middle school in the past so let's give it a try.


? Lmaoo

You are laughing your a$$ off... off? Twice?


omg.. Ur so funny..

Thank you. Your not the first to say that, but in your case I was being serious.


iM NOT USiNG HiM,

First of all, I want to say impressive use of the caps button. First rate.

Second, you are using him because as everybody can see by your own words you don't have feelings for him that he has for you. So when the break up occurs because he's been led to believe otherwise by you he's going to be hurt. In the big person world that's using someone.


Dumb sht..

I'll let your own words and actions determine the truthfulness of that statement.


U dont kno me at all..

I know you can't spell.

I also know you can't commit to a guy.


So dnt talk sht about me if u dont even kno me.

Well let me correct you, I'm not talking about you... okay your bad spelling yes... but about your relationships I'm talking about your actions and what your doing. If you want to lie to yourself that's fine... but I'm not going to lie for you.


k thanks.

K wlcme.

And you have been chuffed.

Nobody on here knows you so by that logic you should ask your friends for advice.

ROFL, Best Advice OMG -CLAPS. Thank you thank you. I Should Shouldn't I? Ty.:cool:

ROFL, Best Advice OMG -CLAPS. Thank you thank you. i Should Shouldnt i? Ty.:cool:

The sarcasm is strong with this one.

Somebody loves the drama!

How do I know, well this is one of the older posts she answered, which is ironic since she saw this last night when we were online with my super duper awesome new computer that I bought with my own money cause I don't live with my parents.

I don't usually giving a Chuffing to non English speakers but I've spoke a little middle school in the past so let's give it a try.



you are laughing your a$$ off.....off? Twice?



Thank you. Your not the first to say that, but in your case I was being serious.



First of all, I want to say impressive use of the caps button. First rate.

Second, you are using him because as everybody can see by your own words you don't have feelings for him that he has for you. So when the break up occurs because he's been led to believe otherwise by you he's going to be hurt. In the big person world that's using someone.



I'll let your own words and actions determine the truthfulness of that statement.



I know you can't spell.

I also know you can't commit to a guy.



Well let me correct you, I'm not talking about you.....okay your bad spelling yes...but about your relationships I'm talking about your actions and what your doing. If you want to lie to yourself that's fine.....but I'm not going to lie for you.



k wlcme.


Rofl.. Omg I Can Spell.. Why Would I Spell Correctly On The iNternet? I Do At School All The Time, I NEVER Do On The iNternet, iT Doesn't Really Matter, And Actually Yes I Can Commit To A Guy, I Went With A Guy For 4 Years Straight Once Thank You, And I Know I Live With My Parents? I Can't Like Go On By Myself When iM Not Even Legal To Even Drive A Car Yet, And I Can Buy A Computer With My Own Money Too I Have Money I Work, But My Dad Makes My CPU, No Need To Brag On Your Computer, Was Not Called For.. But Thanks Anyway, I Should Just Stick To Asking My Friends, They Always Give Me Better Advice, Go Back To Your Times iN Childhood, And You Would Understand What iM Going Threw.

The sarcasm is strong with this one.

Not Sarcasm.

Rofl.. Omg i Can Spell.. Why Would i Spell Correctly On The iNternet? i Do At School All The Time, i NEVER Do On The iNternet, iT Doesnt Really Matter, And Actually Yes i Can Commit To A Guy, i Went With A Guy For 4 Years Straight Once Thank You, And i Know i Live With My Parents? i Can't Like Go On By Myself When iM Not Even Legal To Even Drive A Car Yet, And i Can Buy A Computer With My Own Money Too i Have Money i Work, But My Dad Makes My CPU, No Need To Brag On Your Computer, Was Not Called For.. But Thanks Anyways, i Should Just Stick To Asking My Friends, They Always Give Me Better Advice, Go Back To Your Times iN Childhood, And You Would Understand What iM Going Threw.

Please put the keyboard down and shoot your computer. Never ever get back on the internet again. But I do remember my middle school days and I'll be the first to tell you the people I "dated" have not been in my life for a few years. It's a short time in your life and when you get older you will realize and look back and laugh.

The serious issue is please, for god shakes, fix your caps lock key.

Please put the keyboard down and shoot your computer. Never ever get back on the internet again. But I do remember my middle school days and I'll be the first to tell you the people I "dated" have not been in my life for a few years. Its a short time in your life and when you get older you will realize and look back and laugh.

The serious issue is please, for god shakes, fix your caps lock key.


There's Nothing Wrong With My Caps Lock, I Type Like This, iTs Not Really A Big Deal.. Some People Type Like This And I Don't See Anything Wrong With iT, You Don't See Me Criticizing Your Typing, So Don't Critize Mine, And No I Won't Shoot My Computer? That's Kind of Retarded, But Yea, I Have Went With Someone For 4 Years.. You Don't Know MY Life, So Don't Say Things You Don't Even Know. Me And My Friend Were Talking About Earlier Today iN Class..

No Need For Criticizing Typing.

Oh.. And Don't Change The Topic? Rofl Thanks.

Theres Nothing Wrong With My Caps Lock, i Type Like This, iTs Not Really A Big Deal.. Some People Type Like This And i Dont See Anything Wrong With iT, You Dont See Me Critizing Your Typing, So Dont Critize Mine, And No i Wont Shoot My Computer? Thats Kinda Retarded, But Yea, i Have Went With Someone For 4 Years.. You Dont Know MY Life, So Dont Say Things You Dont Even Know. Me And My Friend Were Talking About Earlier Today iN Class..

I was not commenting on your ability to maintain a relationship. First off typing like that just hurts my eyes. Makes it hard to understand what you are saying. Personally I feel my typing skills are fine.

I'm gone getting into a pissing contest with a 14 year old. I'll be the mature one and stop posting in this thread. I hope everything works out for you.

I was not commenting on your ability to maintain a relationship. First off typing like that just hurts my eyes. Makes it hard to understand what you are saying. Personally I feel my typing skills are fine.

Okay, Well That's All You Had To Really Say iNstead Of Criticizing iT, And iM Sorry, But I Can't Stop Typing Like This, it's a Habbit, And iTs Hard To Get Rid Of Habbits. But GoodBye.

I think that coming from my point of view, your ex could obviously dump you for another girl again, and maybe he's lying about he's over you, he might just want to get back with you because some of us boys don't like to stay single for to long.

I was not commenting on your ability to maintain a relationship. First off typing like that just hurts my eyes. Makes it hard to understand what you are saying. Personally I feel my typing skills are fine.

I agree with wikedjuggalo. I feel his typing skills are quite good. I can tell when the words are spelled correctly, when the sentence end... and when they start. The subject matter is very easy to see because... while it's typed very nicely.

Rofl.. Omg i Can Spell.. Why Would i Spell Correctly On The iNternet? i Do At School All The Time, i NEVER Do On The iNternet, iT Doesnt Really Matter, And Actually Yes i Can Commit To A Guy, i Went With A Guy For 4 Years Straight Once Thank You, And i Know i Live With My Parents? i Can't Like Go On By Myself When iM Not Even Legal To Even Drive A Car Yet, And i Can Buy A Computer With My Own Money Too i Have Money i Work, But My Dad Makes My CPU, No Need To Brag On Your Computer, Was Not Called For.. But Thanks Anyways, i Should Just Stick To Asking My Friends, They Always Give Me Better Advice, Go Back To Your Times iN Childhood, And You Would Understand What iM Going Threw.

Somewhere in all that you said you went out with a guy for 4 years and yet you are 14 years old. Hmmm.

I would say that you should break up with the boyfriend you have now until you get over the last one. You obviously still have feelings for your ex, and that isn't fair to your new boyfriend. How would you feel if your boyfriend "Loved" another girl but "liked" you? You wouldn't really feel valued or appreciated in the relationship, right? Or at least I assume.

And you shouldn't go back to the old boyfriend because if he left you for another girl, he may do it again, and in my opinion, isn't trustworthy. It would be difficult to begin a relationship with him, and TRUST him. You said it yourself, that your heart tells you one thing, and your mind the other. The mind is usually right in these cases... The mind is not biased or anything like that, and will lead you in the right direction.

So, I think you should break up with your current boyfriend, and NOT get back together with your ex. Just stay single until you have your ex out of your mind.

Good luck

***SOME may consider the following a "retarted comment." It may result in ones time being wasted. If you do not want to read it, don't. If you want to be accepted on these forums, and helped, then read it. (I'm lookin at you KayKay)

A little off topic, but still needs to be mentioned...

You should really watch how you talk to people around here. We are only trying to help. The goal of our presence on these threads is to help others. Understand that, and even if things are said you don't like, everyone has their heart in the right place. Even if you don't agree, the advice is still valid. Just because it isn't what you want to hear doesn't mean it is 'wrong.' Try to be a little more tolerable on these (or any) forums.

And SPELL properly. Please. Or at least make the effort. I just read through the 6 pages of this thread, and when I wasn't laughing at Chuffs posts, I was straining my eyes to read your posts. Your original post is fine, but you switched to some other way of spelling that makes no sense after that... Please, just spell as if you were in school. It would make everything much easier.

And Chuff is really highly respected by all members (well, most) on this forum. You, KayKay, were lucky to have him answer your question.
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And I just have to say,
WOW! Chuff!
Don't mess with Chuff! And wikedjuggalo with the assist! Quite the thread. I have actually saved this too my "favourites" to read when I am bored.

This thread has provided me with literally half an hour of entertainment, so thank you ALL for that. I have been laughing the entire time, and going 'OOOHHHHHH!' to the screen after reading most of Chuffs post.

I learned something from this thread: Don't mess with Chuff!

***SOME may consider the following a "retarted comment." It may result in ones time being wasted. If you do not want to read it, don't. If you want to be accepted on these forums, and helped, then read it. (I'm lookin at you KayKay)

I don't feel that comment was retarted at all. In fact I enjoyed reading it. It made me feel anti-retarted. I think the world would be a better place if it was filled with anti-retarted people.


A little off topic, but still needs to be mentioned...

You should really watch how you talk to people around here. We are only trying to help. The goal of our presence on these threads is to help others. Understand that, and even if things are said you don't like, everyone has their heart in the right place. Even if you don't agree, the advice is still valid. Just because it isn't what you want to hear doesn't mean it is 'wrong.' Try to be a little more tolerable on these (or any) forums.

And SPELL properly. Please. Or at least make the effort. I just read through the 6 pages of this thread, and when I wasn't laughing at Chuffs posts, I was straining my eyes to read your posts. Your original post is fine, but you switched to some other way of spelling that makes no sense after that... Please, just spell as if you were in school. It would make everything much easier.

Amen.


And Chuff is really highly respected by all members (well, most) on this forum.

I think it was good of you to put in the fine print.


You, KayKay, were lucky to have him answer your question.

It's funny because I feel even though she's clueless, I, along with WickedJuggalo, were lucky to answer her question because just when the retartation was about to end it would only get worse. Some people get better, some people stay in neutral, and now only one has seemingly fallen back with every post.

The best was how bad the English got with EVERY post and when called on it she would actually answer back with English that was worse then the post we'd comment. That alone had me in hysterics.



And I just have to say,
WOW! Chuff!
Don't mess with Chuff! And wikedjuggalo with the assist! Quite the thread. I have actually saved this too my "favourites" to read when I am bored.

I agree with the assist to wiked, the "please shoot your computer and never use the internet again" comment had me rolling. When I read my Chuffing again, and then clicked the next page and wiked simply wrote, "And now you have been Chuffed" I was almost on the floor.

This thread has provided me with literally half an hour of entertainment, so thank you ALL for that. I have been laughing the entire time, and going 'OOOHHHHHH!' to the screen after reading most of Chuffs post.


I learned something from this thread: Don't mess with Chuff!

I'm a big softy.

Haha,
Thanks, Chuff.

And I just saw the post by wiked, "Put down the keyboard, shoot your computer and never use the internet again." Haha! I missed that line. One might say it had me "RoFL"

And not to talk behind KayKays back (your welcome to respond), but that spelling was just ridiculous. She typed out the original post fine, but then lost it after it first post. Then she says she CAN type and spell properly, and that she does it in school. BUT, then she says it is a habit she can't lose. I really don't think it is that difficult to take a finger off the 'shift' key every once in a while.

Well,
I'm glad that you enjoyed reading my post, Chuff. And I am also glad I didn't come across as a retart.

This thread is one for the books!


By the way, Urban Dictionary always has something good. Here are the definitions for "Retart." (http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?defid=865467&page=1&term=retart) I think definition 10 (on page 2) is the best, and most fitting of this thread.

I'm glad I could make you laugh :). I just get irritated when people ask for help then bash for getting it. But honestly I know they (school kids) have to go through a typing class and if that is how she typed she must have failed. I do not see how one can capitalize every word that should not be and the words that should be are not.

I was being serious about not getting on the internet again maybe she took the advice :).

No I Really Didn't Take Your Advice.. I Just Left This Post Alone.. But Seems Like Some People Cant, When This Post iS Way Old. But I Did Pass My Class iN School, 102 words in 10sec :D, But I Don't Type Like This iN Class. But Yea, iM Done With This Post, And As You Said, Your Going to Be The Mature One And Stop Posting iN iT, But You Still Are Even When I Left iT Alone... Bye?

No i Really Didnt Take Your Advice.. i Just Left This Post Alone.. But Seems Like Some People Cant, When This Post iS Way Old. But i Did Pass My Class iN School, 102 words in 10sec :D, But i Dont Type Like This iN Class. But Yea, iM Done With This Post, And As You Said, Your Gonna Be The Mature One And Stop Posting iN iT, But You Still Are Even When i Left iT Alone... Bye?

I believe my words were I'm done getting in a pissing contest with you :D. I'm simply replying to Chuff and jrsg.

But since I have your attention. Why do you type like that? I mean for me to do that I'd really have to go out my way to type that like. I do not believe you typed 102 words in 10 seconds correctly :).

I believe my words were I'm done getting in a pissing contest with you :D. I'm simply replying to Chuff and jrsg.

But since I have your attention. Why do you type like that? I mean for me to do that I'd really have to go out my way to type that like. I do not believe you typed 102 words in 10 seconds correctly :).

I know her in rl, Believe me, She types like mad fast, Lol.

I kno her in rl, Believe me, She types like mad fast, Lol.

I'm not doubting her typing fast more typing fast and correctly :).

Hey, sorry... I think I should take the responsibility of reviving this...

But I just want to ask YOU a few questions now...

If you type normal in school, why can't you do that here? When so many people have requested it, can't you just type normally? And don't use the "bad habit" excuse. If you can type normal english in school, you can do it here. Why do you refuse to?

The only reason I can see is that you don't like being told what to do. I think you are being rebelious... But these people (and me) are just asking you to type normally!


No i Really Didnt Take Your Advice.. i Just Left This Post Alone.. But Seems Like Some People Cant, When This Post iS Way Old. But i Did Pass My Class iN School, 102 words in 10sec :D, But i Dont Type Like This iN Class. But Yea, iM Done With This Post, And As You Said, Your Gonna Be The Mature One And Stop Posting iN iT, But You Still Are Even When i Left iT Alone... Bye?

I don't want to say bye quite yet...
I just have so many questions, most just out of curiosity.
- Why do you insist on typing like that? Just try it once, in your next post. Type normally!

- Did you read my post? #56 on page 6 of this thread. Please read it.

And...
I also want to follow up on your original question. What did you do? How did it go? We all got so lost in this argument, and I want to know what happened?

And don't get so mad... I've said it before (*ahem*, post #56) that people here just want to help. Sure, this post turned into one huge argument, but that is only because you were so confrontational. Just try being nice and understanding on these forums. It will get you so much more respect.

In your next reply, PLEASE be nice, and maybe even type in proper english! At least think about it. What is the worst that can happen? People actually read your posts, and respond to them in a kind way?

I thank you in advance for using proper spelling and grammar in your next post. :D
And just don't be so confrontational, my god...

But i Did Pass My Class iN School, 102 words in 10sec :D, But i Dont Type Like This iN Class.

Oh KayKay. You continue to put a smile on my face.

To know that we have somewhat of a celebrity posting on this site is a true honor.

World Records in Typing (http://www.owled.com/typing.html)

If you follow that link you'll see the various world records for typing. Our own KayKay has blown those retarts right off the keyboard because even the fastest at 216 words per MINUTE can't match up to the apparent 612 words per minute that our little KayKay can type. Who would have known reading stuff like this, LMaoO Are you Kthanks I Ride The BuS, wHo saiD I maDe thAt SiGnAtUrE 4 U that we were in the shadows of typing royalty. We truly have been the retarted ones.

This post is for wiked...

I just have to say, that line about shooting her computer was great... lol.

And I know exactly what you mean,
People ask for advice, then, when it isn't what they want to hear they get mad. Then they call you a dumbs**t and type with bad grammar and throw the basic rules of spelling out the window. Sometimes they even call you a retart...

And it must take longer to capitalize the words then to just type normally.

Several things you have said on this thread have made me fall out of my chair, or stand up and just walk away and laugh. I sit here, and giggle at me computer, as people look at me like I'm a retart.

Thanks for the good laugh,
To you and Chuff :) Actually I guess the OP too. Haha!

Oh KayKay. You continue to put a smile on my face.

To know that we have somewhat of a celebrity posting on this site is a true honor.

World Records in Typing (http://www.owled.com/typing.html)

If you follow that link you'll see the various world records for typing. Our own KayKay has blown those retarts right off the keyboard because even the fastest at 216 words per MINUTE can't match up to the apparent 612 words per minute that our little KayKay can type. Who would have known reading stuff like this, LMaoO R U Kthanks I Ride The BuS, wHo saiD I maDe thAt SiGnAtUrE 4 U that we were in the shadows of typing royalty. We truly have been the retarted ones.

I looked up the world record too. I got 278 wpm off Google, but still, that is still a hell of a lot less than the 612 our KayKay claims...

Even when you are serious, you have a way of "Chuffing" people. It is quite the talent you have there, Chuff. You are no retart!

Haha...
Typing royalty. This is better than T.V.

Maybe she means 102 letters per 10 seconds? I don't know... but 10 seconds isn't a common time segement to measure typing speed either. Did you just make it up, KayKay? Just pull a bs statistic out of your butt so that you could be respected? Seriously, you are just confusing! Funny... But confusing!

typing royalty. This is better than T.V.

This post is one of the all time best I have to admit. I give her credit, most would have stopped pages ago, but she keeps posting something new and outrageous... and her typing gets worse every time. I just can't stop laughing.


Did you just make it up, KayKay? Just pull a bs statistic out of your butt so that you could be respected? Seriously, you are just confusing!

I can't imagine our precious KayKay doing something so dishonest! KayKay lying to us like we are a bunch of retarts, it just can't be. If KayKay says she can type 612 words per minute then give her record of integrity I think we'd be retarted not to believe her.

This post is one of the all time best I have to admit. I give her credit, most would have stopped pages ago, but she keeps posting something new and outrageous....and her typing gets worse every time. I just can't stop laughing.



I can't imagine our precious KayKay doing something so dishonest! KayKay lying to us like we are a bunch of retarts, it just can't be. If KayKay says she can type 612 words per minute then give her record of integrity I think we'd be retarted not to believe her.

Omg yo, Im her cousin and I don't really like how you guys are talking to her like this. You don't even really know her in real life, So you wouldn't know how she types or how she doesn't type. Unless you know her in real life and know how she really types don't critize her typing. Thanks. Please stop posting in this, Unsubscribe to it.

Oh also, She has stopped posting in here, But you guys keep on adding to the drama, if you stop it will be done. Keep on adding drama to it, and she will add more drama back, that's just how she is, I know her. I know how she does.

Lol because you asked so nicely I will leave it alone. But you should talk to her about her the way she talks to people when they give her advice.

Omg yo, Im her cousin and I dont really like how you guys are talking to her like this.

In what way?


You dont even really know her in real life,

That has already been covered.


So you wouldnt know how she types or how she doesnt type.

Umm, but I would because I read her typing.


Unless you know her in real life and know how she really types dont critize her typing.

I'm not criticizing it, I'm laughing at it.


Thanks. Please stop posting in this, Unsubscribe to it.


Mmmmm No.

Oh also, She has stopped posting in here, But you guys keep on adding to the drama, if you stop it will be done. Keep on adding drama to it, and she will add more drama back, thats just how she is, I know her. I know how she does.

She said she didn't want our advice and she was going to ask her friends, now we are using this post for learning purposes. KayKay may not be with us but her spirit lives on with us all.

Yea okay but still, having you add more drama to the post, and it being HER OWN post when she logs in she see's it. Just stop adding drama to the situation and nothing else will go wrong. All the drama on this post will end. Thank you and have a nice night.

But do you see how she types in real life? Are you sitting there right beside her and see how she is typing? No you aren't.
And laughing at it is even worse, you wouldn't want someone laughing at your typing or laughing at anything else to you, now would you? No you would not, Just leave the situation alone. Its done, its been done for a while, but then you guys keep on adding and adding. Seem's like you like to add to the drama instead of stopping when its already been stopped.

Personally,
I don't think we are adding to any drama. We were just reminiscing about the good times we had with KayKay.

To be blunt, if you two don't like it, don't read it, and let me say what I want. I don't like being censored. When we laugh at the good ol' times, there is nothing wrong with that.

But you, jj, have at least been nice. Notice the difference between your posts and KayKay's. You type properly, and you are nice, and a respectable person online. You don't call people "dumbs**ts" or anything like that. You have not once been a retart to any of us (not that I am insisting that KayKay was).

Someone (hopefully you) really needs to advise KayKay on how to talk to others. And when she asks for advice, realize she isn't only going to get what she wants to hear. And then she doesn't even consider the advice. That is why I found this so funny, the close-minded mentality KayKay had. Apparently she knew everything, yet she was asking for help. Maybe it is her own insecurity, that she needs to be so rebelious and defensive, but she needs to learn.

So, Jordan, THANK YOU! For being a decent, educated, considerate individual.

But, I am going to have to respectfully turn down your offer. Ultimately, if anyone posts here, and I want to respond, I will. If you don't want to read it, don't. Just click it so it removes from your cp, then navigate right back out. It takes 5 seconds, and lets me have my right to free speech. If you could do that, I would appreciate it.


And if I can just point this out:
When KayKay commented on your post, she used PROPER spelling, and puncuation. Although the attempt at the grammatical device known as the "elipsis" wasn't carried out properly, but I won't be that picky (it needs three periods "..."). That aside,the typing there 100% readable. If only she could have done that 6 pages ago, a lot of this would've been avoided.

But do you see how she types in real life? Are you sitting there right beside her and see how she is typing? No you arent.
And laughing at it is even worse, you wouldnt want someone laughing at your typing or laughing at anything else to you, now would you? No you would not, Just leave the situation alone. Its done, its been done for a while, but then you guys keep on adding and adding. Seem's like you like to add to the drama instead of stopping when its already been stopped.

I just have to comment on this, jj. Please just try to go with me here for a minute...

Do I see how she types in real life? YES! I do. This is real life. Just because it is on the internet does not make it some kind of game. On this site, REAL people try to advise other REAL PEOPLE about their REAL SITUATIONS!

And if she can type normally, why doesn't she just do it? When several REAL people are requesting that she type properly, why can't she do it? Are you seriously going to say that me asking her to type properly is an outrageous request?

First she can type normally, just chooses not to.
Then, it is a "bad habit" she can't get rid of.
Then, she once again CAN type normally.
Then, SHE DOES TYPE NORMALLY! (while commenting on your post)

Just type properly. It's that simple.

It is just a mess, and I myself, can't help but laugh at it.

Which brings me to my next point;
laughing at her lack of proper typing is not rude at all. If she was autistic or a retart, and couldn't do it, as in physically impossible for to do it, yes laughing would be rude. But if she chooses to type like that, and piss of eveybody here, that my friend, is funny. It's the stubbornness and rebelious attitude of KayKay that is funny to me. I am not ashamed to admit that, and I refuse to feel guilty for it.

But seriously, about the spelling,
you don't see anything funny about that?

Why can't she just type normally?

I could ask that question 50 times, and I know I would never get a straight answer from you. But please, prove me wrong, and ANSWER me! Please.

This whole thread is just funny. Please, read from post 1, and tell me there is no comical value to this at all. It is just absolutely helarious.

Again, jj, thanks for acting like a rational, human being. I understand you defending a family member. But I just don't agree. I also understand you are extremely biased in this, but PLEASE! Just take yourself out of the moment for a second. Pretend you have never met or known her before. Then read it. The thread is just ridiculous.

Now, I am tired. I have typed huge posts, and probably for nothing, but I need to sleep now. Thank you, and you have a good night as well, jj.

Oh and some of you just leaving stupid little retarted comments, and not giving me shtt or helping me out. Keep ur comments to yourself, I dont need you wasting my time. THANK YOU !
With this type of attitude, what do you expect??

And if she can type normally, why doesn't she just do it? When several REAL people are requesting that she type properly, why can't she do it? Are you seriously going to say that me asking her to type properly is an outrageous request?

I know that she doesn't type correctly, She use to, BUT she started to hang around people on the internet on some sort of game that typed like her, And she got in the habit of typing like it. One of her friends have already told her to try and stop typing like it because its annoying, She has said she will try, But even when she tries its just a thing that just appears when she types. That's how she texts too. You know how it is, Once you start a habit its hard to get rid of, Like you start to bite on your fingernail's isn't that a bad habit you can't just magically stop? It takes a while to stop. And that is what Kayla is trying to do. So don't blame her, Blame the person she use to hang around with that typed like that. And I am just taking up for my little cousin.


First she can type normally, just chooses not to.
Then, it is a "bad habit" she can't get rid of.
Then, she once again CAN type normally.
Then, SHE DOES TYPE NORMALLY! (while commenting on your post)




And it is a bad habit.

Okay guys, Come on now, She is only 13, Just let her off some slack, She is still maturing, I bet you were like this once. She is just a kid, and she still is, you guys are probably adult's, she doesn't understand some things, so she might take some things wrong. But if you want to post in here, Can you just post to help her? Even though they already broke up, but still, Help her out with it, So she can have the advice for other boy's that might come in her life and treat her badly. Thanks.

I don't blame the people that she hung around with, she is her own person with her own mind. It shows a weak character if she is easy impressionable like that. Just because you hang out with people who smoke weed, doesn't mean you do it. I go to the gym 6 days a week, all my work out buddies take roids, I don't. I'm around them constantly, I just have will power.

And typing like that takes a long time to do, regardless of habit or not. The people who have been here for long periods dedicate their spare time to try and give advice from real life expierences and to have a simple request from them to type proper is not out of hand or rude. Rude are the comments of her because she is acting like a immature little girl who didn't get the new toy she wanted for christmas

I don't blame the people that she hung around with, she is her own person with her own mind. It shows a weak character if she is easy impressionable like that. Just because you hang out with people who smoke weed, doesn't mean you do it. I go to the gym 6 days a week, all my work out buddies take roids, I don't. I'm around them constantly, I just have will power.

And typing like that takes a long time to do, regardless of habit or not. The people who have been here for long periods of time dedicate their spare time to try and give advice from real life expierences and to have a simple request from them to type proper is not out of hand or rude. Rude are the comments of her because she is acting like a immature little girl who didn't get the new toy she wanted for christmas

Just because your much bigger and mature, Doesn't mean you need to beat down on a little kid like that. Have some common sense, And use it.

Just because you hang out with people who smoke weed, doesn't mean you do it. I go to the gym 6 days a week, all my work out buddies take roids, I don't. I'm around them constantly, I just have will power.

That has happened to my older cousin, So don't say "doesnt mean you do it" Sometimes when you hang around people who do that ALL the time, YOU Become apart of the habit, And YOU start to do it.

Your right that has happened to one of my friends and family members once.

Because they are weak willed people who are easily impressionable. That's not the people they hang around faults. He chose to hang out with those people, he could have found a new group of friends.

Also, please learn the rules for disagreeing with a post, simply because a family member signs on doesn't mean you can also disagree. I will wait for the regulars to toss in a balancer which I am sure will come.

Because they are weak willed people who are easily impressionable. That's not the people they hang around faults. He chose to hang out with those people, he could have found a new group of friends.

Yea okay, But still.. It still becomes a habit no matter what.. You get attached to it.

Also, please learn the rules for disagreeing with a post, simply because a family member signs on doesn't mean you can also disagree. I will wait for the regulars to toss in a balancer which I am sure will come.

Lol? Just because my cousin disagreed, Doesn't mean I just disagreed because she did, I felt the same way.

Just because your much bigger and mature, Doesnt mean you need to beat down on a little kid like that. Have some common sense, And use it.

How did I beat a little kid down I simply said she was immature, which at 13, she is. I also said she is impressionable, which once again, at 13 she is. So if you're going to use common sense tactics, please point them to your cousin for the group of friends she chose to hang out with. Thanks

How did I beat a little kid down I simply said she was immature, which at 13, she is. I also said she is impressionable, which once again, at 13 she is. So if you're going to use common sense tactics, please point them to your cousin for the group of friends she chose to hang out with. Thanks

It's not my chose to choose who she wants to hang out with or not, Its her's, I can't force her to do something she doesn't want to do. Come on now.. You're an adult.. Use that brain of yours.. This post is done. Goodbye.

Use that brain of mine? Please use yours and learn grammar, you seem to want to try and force me to stop sharing LIFE EXPIERENCES on this forum to help people. If she wants to stop a habit, blame her friends for that habit then that's on her. But only she can fix it, by finding a new circle of friends, which is her best option.

When someone is battling a drug problem, they will tell them to stop hanging around that crowd because you fall into that trap. Oh wait, there I go comparing factual evidence again.

Use that brain of mine? Please use yours and learn grammer, you seem to want to try and force me to stop sharing LIFE EXPIERENCES on this forum to help people. If she wants to stop a habit, blame her friends for that habit then that's on her. But only she can fix it, by finding a new circle of friends, which is her best option.


We are blaming her friends, As I said before, And I do have precise grammar? And she doesn't want to find a new circle of friends she likes her friends and likes how she types, Just because you people don't like how she types doesn't mean she needs to find a new set of friends and change her typing.

We are blaming her friends, As I said before, And I do have precise grammar? And she doesnt want to find a new circle of friends she likes her friends and likes how she types, Just because you people dont like how she types doesnt mean she needs to find a new set of friends and change her typing.

I won't comment on your grammar yet again. If she does not wish to change her typing or her friends, that is her decision but every action has an equal an opposite reaction. The reaction of this happens to be comments about the way she types and people diminishing her post by her lack of proper typing skills.

Why do you ask for people to stop posting in here yet you feel the need to comment on everything? I mean you wanted it to die then let it die.

Why do you ask for people to stop posting in here yet you feel the need to comment on everything? I mean you wanted it to die then let it die.

Eh, it doesn't bother me much wiked as IT life today is once again very dull. I just wish people would read the board rules for when they disagree with a post. Oh well, guess we can't always get what we want!

Eh, it doesn't bother me much wiked as IT life today is once again very dull. I just wish people would read the board rules for when they disagree with a post. Oh well, guess we can't always get what we want!

Lol, I was not referring to you. If I felt like being a jerk today I'd continue tearing at this topic but I felt since he asked so nicely I'd stop. He has continued to argue and post so hell I'll join in. Soon I'll be joining the IT field going into networking then software engineer.

JJ-The whole point of this is to learn from the mistakes of others, and get some solutions to problems. If you ignore the advice, so be it, but supporting the bad behavior of your cousin, does neither, of you any good.

While I understand defending her, to make the excuse that its okay to be disrespectful and break the rules, is utterly irresponsible on your part.

If that's the stance you think is best, the expect a LOT of negative feedback, until the administration deletes this as being irrelevant to the site and against the rules.

Ha ha I know you weren't referring to me, I was just responding with why I have continued this battle of wits with someone so under armed.

That's awesome! I'm in the networking field as well, it is a great field to go into, people will always need computers and the internet will always be around as well. Hope all goes well!

Tal, when will these kids learn? We are only trying to tell them things because we have been where they are before? I'm positive we have all hung around a crowd that probably wasn't in our best interestes before.

(https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/members/kaykay0941.html)kaykay0941 (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/members/kaykay0941.html) disagrees: I Am iMmature, iM Still Processing iN Life, And iF You Dont Like iT, iT iS Not Really My Fault, Also, iM Not You, i Grasp Onto Things Quickly, Like This Bad Habit. So Dont Compare Yourself To Other People.
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Do you really think this is a good example of not only your maturity, but you ability to grasp things, and make improvements? I don't, and its says a lot about you, and your attitude, which sucks, as we are adults trying to help. If you don't want it, or can't handle it, Just go away.

Tal, when will these kids learn? We are only trying to tell them things because we have been where they are before? I'm positive we have all hung around a crowd that probably wasn't in our best interestes before.
Kids are like that sometimes, they would rather argue than listen, and that's part of the problem. :D

Okay you are truly offensive. Before it was funny but this is total nonsense.


Okay guys, Come on now, She is only 13, Just let her off some slack, She is still maturing,

Well which is it, 13 or 14. Her age changes with every post... and given that she said she's been in a 4 year relationship am I to assume she started dating at 9?


I bet you were like this once.

Was I immature. Yes. Was I insulting to other people who tried to offer help? No.


She is just a kid, and she still is, you guys are probably adult's,

Yep. And as an adults we've been in her spot and know how to act in various situations. When we offered real life experience she started shooting her mouth off. Guess what, we've been there too, and we can top her ever changing posts and stories with facts. Sorry you aren't old enough to see facts or if you do old enough to stand up to you cousin and say, "Your wrong!" The rest of us are old enough and mature enough to do it.


she doesnt understand some things, so she might take some things wrong.

I don't understand a zillion things, but I don't insult the people that do. Nor do I change my story so that others will suddenly agree with me. If I'm wrong, I'm wrong. Tal, who is posting on this very thread has told me I'm wrong before... and at times I didn't want to hear it but it needed to be said, I don't jump down his throat and call him names, and if I did I wouldn't misspell them.


But if you wanna post in here, Can you just post to help her?

Are you kidding me? We offered help and she flipped out and started calling us all sorts of things.. Maybe acting like bullys works in 8th grade but in the real world that sh*t don't fly. Maybe she can flip out and start swearing to your peers, but make no mistake, we are not peers, I'm am a grown man, and as you correctly pointed out she doesn't understand things, all we did was try to offer her a guiding hand on how to deal with those things, some new to her life and she falls back to her security blanket of telling people off. I may not be great at a lot of things but it if it's the telling people off game you want to play you have met the King.


Even though they already broke up, but still, Help her out with it, So she can have the advice for other boy's that might come in her life and treat her badly. Thanks.


ARE YOU F-ING KIDDING ME? That is EXACTLY what every one of us did. That is insulting to say anything else. Jordan, this is not an attack on you, because I will give you all the credit in the world, despite disagreeing with the rest of us you have been extremely respectful of the rest of, and that should not be overlooked and I won't, but for you to say that we should offer her help for the next boy that treats her like that is borderline ignorant. That is exactly what we did. Furthermore, the one getting treated badly was her boyfriend, who, it was pointed out... correctly I may add, was being used by KayKay to begin with.

Now, I would never wish any real harm to KayKay but if she's getting used by one guy and then turn around and uses another because of the first guy or just because that's the way she is, that is HER problem. That is something SHE has to work out. If she is going to use guys then I damn sure am going to point it out. If her defense to being pointed out the obvious is to start calling people names because that works on the bus, well welcome to real life. Nobody here gives a damn about the attitude problem of an 8th grader with a chip on her shoulder that got knocked off, however everyone here gives there time and energy for those looking for seeking real help from an outsider who has something to offer when another person is searching for assistance. Age limit not required, just the common sense and decency to shut you mouth and actually think outside your security blanket of swearing at somebody that disagrees with you or worse yet has the nerve to actually call you out on something that is your problem to begin with.

If KayKay wants help, then it's available, if she wants to get into a name calling contest based on facts, then there's nobody here that's going to help her... unless she sees she's outnumbered and goes and gets a family member to defend her. Oh look, that already happened. She's wrong, she's a user, and she is immature. But if she want's real change in her life she'd better suck it up and admit when she's wrong, and ask herself or us what she can do to improve. KayKay, yourself, and certainly never will I, ever be perfect, but it's not too much to ask to learn from your mistakes and move forward with a new knowledge or understanding. KayKay not only doesn't move forward, she moves backward. She's stuck on one guy that used her, using another guy that likes her, and swearing at those of us pointing out what's wrong with that picture. Don't tell us what to do, when we already did it, take the stand and tell her as a true friend, she's wrong but she can do better and she deserves better and that doesn't mean she should have to hide behind her security blanet of swearing, it just means she needs to open up and accept that she might have to change to make her life better.

11 pages... Wow. All I can say is wow.

I have to "spread around the reputation" before I can greenie that last post, but the above post by Chuff is completely accurate.

AND, just to comment. The reddies given out by you (jj) and KayKay are getting ridiculous. That pisses me off more than anything on this thread. These are all good people having their rep ruined because they are TRYING TO HELP a couple of people who don't agree with their advice.

This is to you, jj and KayKay, LEARN HOW TO USE THE "RATE THIS ANSWER" FEATURE PROPERLY, OR DON'T USE IT AT ALL. I don't know how to make it more clear, but quit doing that.

And Roman, and tal, you "disagreed" with one of their posts, and I don't think that was necessary. I know you guys from around the teen/relationship/dating threads, and I know you two are better than that. Don't sink down to their level, please. Lets all at least agree on a sort of "truce" with the reddies. Unless factually wrong, or dangerous advice is given, they should not be used. There is no real reason they have been used here other than a way to 'jab' at each other.

And just to point out, I am 16. And yet, I don't feel the need to call people I disagree with names. Don't use the "I'm young and maturing" excuse, its b.s and you know it. Just admit you are ignorant, stubborn PEOPLE. Somehow, SOME people our age (teens) manage to be repsonsible, considerate people. But, then there are people like you, who give the age group a bad name. You will probably get offended by this, and you should. It actually embarasses me to admit my age because it gives me a "teen" title, and I don't get nearly as much respect. GROW UP. STOP MAKING EXCUSES. Learn self control, and just smarten up. It really isn't that difficult. Ugh...

I know that she doesnt type correctly, She use to, BUT she started to hang around people on the internet on some sort of game that typed like her, And she got in the habit of typing like it. One of her friends have already told her to try and stop typing like it because its annoying, She has said she will try, But even when she tries its just a thing that just appears when she types. That's how she texts too. You know how it is, Once you start a habit its hard to get rid of, Like you start to bite on your fingernail's isnt that a bad habit you can't just magically stop? It takes a while to stop. And that is what Kayla is trying to do. So dont blame her, Blame the person she use to hang around with that typed like that. And I am just taking up for my little cousin.




And it is a bad habit.

OH MY GOD. HOW DO I EVEN REPLY TO YOU?

I know people who have quit using cocaine! That is a bad habit that is hard to get rid of. Typing normally is not difficult! NO, IT WON'T MAGICALLY STOP! YOU NEED TO MAKE A EFFORT (that has not been made yet). Are you just going to accept the fact that you can't type properly? You aren't going to TRY to type normally?? What happens when you type up a resume to get a job, huh? Are you Going to 2 typ It Lyk this? Or will you do it in a professional, readable fashion?

Stop making excuses. Typing like that is something you CAN change. It takes very little effort to do so. JUST DO IT.

You really can't understand this?

And stop sticking up for your cousin. If you really want to help her, explain to her how LIFE WORKS. Typing like that is just nonsense, and in a world where computer skills are NEEDED for just about any job, she needs to learn to type. You defending her screwed up style of typing is only going to HURT her in the long run.

Jj, you seemed like a sensible, respectable, understanding individual, but I don't really see that anymore.

O.k I'll chime in.

I feel I wasted my time posting in here I answered you question, even though I had a hunch you were too young to appreciate it, to help you. You blew up at Chuff because you misunderstood him.

I'm feeling really lazy tonight as I have much work today and later I'll go about a detailed post explain what exactly went wrong here.

But jj I had respect for you because you were being decent about it but the defenses you claim are flawed. Stop defending very childish behavior. I know she is young but that is not an excuse.

But seriously KayKay you stepped into the real adult world searching for real adult answers. Mind you we did not give you what you wanted and you acted very childish. I'd say grow up but your young and will get there. Learn to type with some decent respect to the English language. Or you could get Firefox and use its spell checker at least.

I know I added fuel to the fire but what do you expect when you come in here asking for help and get pissy with everyone.

Jj the thread was dying but you fanned the flames man.

I'd say grow up but your young and will get there.

I have a 9 year old cousin who is a hell of a lot more mature then KayKay, who is 13 or 14, we don't really know. At 13/14, why are you calling people names like "dumbs**ts" anyway? That is more than immaturity, that is total disrepect to others. Not accepting anyone's opinion is also just disrepect.

Maybe "grow up" isn't the right advice, but "RESPECT" should be given at ANY age. Respect should be given especially to the people who are trying to help you.
The only reason I don't respect KayKay is because she showed utter disrespect to EVERYONE here, and I don't think she deserves it. Jj, I did respect you, but I have to admit, I am slowly losing respect for you. The defense you put up for some of these actions are just ridiculous. But, THANK YOU for not calling anyone names here.

And, Wiked, I think we are all guilty of fueling the flames here...

But, after all this, I hope KayKay and jj can at least learn SOMETHING from all this. I know I have.

I can't wait to see Wiked's analyzation of what went wrong here. I'm looking forward to it.

To be honest, I am not quite sure why adults have gotten into an extended dispute with a rude and silly young teen that is clearly not going to listen to anything except what she wants to hear.

"Kaykay"- I apologise but you're abrasiveness is just... well it's just very ANNOYING, and you need to be ignored as you can't accept help/positive criticism

I am also well aware I am next in the firing line...

Okay iM Sorry Gosh, I Know My Mouth Starts A lot Of Drama, I Have Been Told That. I Usually Get Back Sashed By My Dad, Sometimes He Hits Me But W.e. But iM SORRY. Just Stop.. Please? Sorry For Everything.

Okay iM Sorry Gosh, i Know My Mouth Starts Alot Of Drama, i Have Been Told That. i Usually Get Back Sashed By My Dad, Sometimes He Hits Me But W.e. But iM SORRY. Just Stop.. Please? Sorry For Everything.

Okay,
I don't know whether that was a plea for attention or serious. "Sometimes he hits me, but W.E." Not whatever... If that is true, tell someone. Maybe jj could help here... He is very protective after all.

And don't just say sorry for the sake of it. I would really like to think that after ALL this, you learned something... Have you?

Okay Detail time. I'm kind of annoyed because how much time I took to do this to prove a point.

The first page and a half was fine. Then...


If he gets hurt even more? Wth? Rofl.. U dont even kno the beginging of what he's done to me. But k thanks.

Not only do you contradict your first post but you also started getting rude.I mean honestly if you can see how wrong he was to you why would you even attempt to give him the light of day again? If you had read chuffs post you would have seen what he meant. Also he was being very civil and nice until that comment.

Your English skills go from good to wdf in two posts.

O and wdf? iM not using him? iF you KNEW EXACTLY WHAT WAS GOiNG ON. You would do the same thing im doing.. But appearently you dont.. So back off? K thanks!

You did not like his post so you chose to take his criticism badly. One thing you'll learn real quick in the adult world is to take constructive criticism. It will be around more and more the older you get.


well then that says it all
he dumped you for another girl

who says he wont do it again?
id move on and forget about him,and see how you and your new boyfriend get on,take it slow,dont be rushing into stuff when your not ready

You agreed with that girl on the first page because its something you wanted to hear not the truth. But I swore I said something along those lines of not rushing into something when your feelings are still torn. O and chuff explained it very clearly and better then Cookie in my opinion.


Now after that I tried to tell you to calm down and save yourself some embarrassment but I guess you wanted to naïve. About that time it was noticed you added something to your signature which was commented on but seeing as I can't see what it was because its been changed we will leave it alone.

Chuff then attempted to point out things to you but then again you did not listen to him in the first place. And I'll be fair and say he may have been a little cruel in his posting but that shouldn't take away from the truthfulness of it.



Who Said i Was iN HighSchool? And Who Said That Signature Was For You? NO BODY, Exactly. But Neways, iT Was Hard Saying No To Him, i Could Tell He Liked Me ALOT, And i Didnt Want Him To Be Hurt By Me Rejecting Him, We WERE Friends, Now We Are Together, But That Girl On The Other Comment Helped Me Out, iM Staying With My Current BF, Cause He Could Leave Me For Another Girl Again(My Ex), But Anyways, Sorry For All The Mis-Hap, Ttyl.

Then here we go. I'd like to read it but my eyes hurt attempting to. I think you need to read what you posted. I think you stated you did not have feelings for him but would rather lie to him and lead him in a false relationship because you did not want to say no.



Uhm actually im not, your not me, so dont say stuff you dont even know. Ur bullsht isnt needed on this comment page.. Kthanks.

Haha, And Yea Ur Bs, U Werent Really Helping Me Out Bud, Sorry. l:

He was trying to help you before an attitude developed but maybe you'll realize that down the road.

Then you promptly shot yourself in the foot by telling everyone how old you really were.

I still was being civil with you and asked you to check your caps lock key because iT iS HarD tO reaD likE ThiS and just plain ridiculous.

After that it was noted that you changed your OP to say some very mean things toward people trying to help you. At which chuff promptly called you out on it. You did not like that one bit.


? Lmaoo omg.. Ur so funny.. iM NOT USiNG HiM, Dumb sht.. U dont kno me at all.. So dnt talk sht about me if u dont even kno me. k thanks.
Now I left you a disagreement on this because of the nasty words you used. He was not talking sht but merely trying to point out (in a semi cruel way) the wrongness in what you were doing. True we do not know you. But you being a stranger we tried to take some time to answer your question and give you an unbiased opinion on what was going on but you did not like that.


Continued to try to nicely tell you to stop digging yourself a hole but as you proved you do the opposite of what your advised to do.

Chuff continued to dismantle and argue that last post and which I laughed. I got very annoyed at this point and stopped holding back.


Rofl.. Omg i Can Spell.. Why Would i Spell Correctly On The iNternet? i Do At School All The Time, i NEVER Do On The iNternet, iT Doesnt Really Matter, And Actually Yes i Can Commit To A Guy, i Went With A Guy For 4 Years Straight Once Thank You, And i Know i Live With My Parents? i Can't Like Go On By Myself When iM Not Even Legal To Even Drive A Car Yet, And i Can Buy A Computer With My Own Money Too i Have Money i Work, But My Dad Makes My CPU, No Need To Brag On Your Computer, Was Not Called For.. But Thanks Anyways, i Should Just Stick To Asking My Friends, They Always Give Me Better Advice, Go Back To Your Times iN Childhood, And You Would Understand What iM Going Threw.

And there is your other foot.


Theres Nothing Wrong With My Caps Lock, i Type Like This, iTs Not Really A Big Deal.. Some People Type Like This And i Dont See Anything Wrong With iT, You Dont See Me Critizing Your Typing, So Dont Critize Mine, And No i Wont Shoot My Computer? Thats Kinda Retarded, But Yea, i Have Went With Someone For 4 Years.. You Dont Know MY Life, So Dont Say Things You Dont Even Know. Me And My Friend Were Talking About Earlier Today iN Class..

There is something very wrong with this mess. I can't stand to read it. You should have stopped digging that hole but you kept going. I finally said I'm done getting into a pissing contest with you. But we all know how long that lasted, maybe I'm not as mature as I thought?

The topic after that was kind of left alone and a conversation between Chuff and Jsrg started.


No i Really Didnt Take Your Advice.. i Just Left This Post Alone.. But Seems Like Some People Cant, When This Post iS Way Old. But i Did Pass My Class iN School, 102 words in 10sec :D, But i Dont Type Like This iN Class. But Yea, iM Done With This Post, And As You Said, Your Gonna Be The Mature One And Stop Posting iN iT, But You Still Are Even When i Left iT Alone... Bye?


Then you felt the need to comment on my reply to them. Might as well have taken a can of gas and a lighter to yourself.

And then your cousin decided to jump into to defend you. But instead of making it better he added more fuel.
Now I'm not going to go and break down his post as I have more important sht to do. That and he was semi respectful to us.

But then you dragged Tal and Rome in this. But that deals with your cousin so I'll let it slide.

I'm done. I have much better things to do.

BTW, thanks for fixing the word black in you signature. Maybe you could fix the other errors too.

Okay,
I don't know whether that was a plea for attention or serious. "Sometimes he hits me, but W.E." Not whatever... If that is true, tell someone. Maybe jj could help here... He is very protective after all.

And don't just say sorry for the sake of it. I would really like to think that after ALL this, you learned something... Have you?

IT Was Serious, And I Don't Think I Would Be Able To Tell Someone Something Like That, I'Ve Thought About Going To The Police About iT, But What iF He Finds Out I Told Them?. He Would Probably Do Worse To Me.. iM Just Scared.. But Yea Jordan iS Protective Over Me, But I Don't Think He Would Be Able To Help iN A Situation Like That.

But To Stay On Topic, I Did Learn, iF I Would Like To Comment Something Bad, I Should Just Keep iT To Myself And Just Thank The People Who Took Their Time Out To Help Me.
But Yea, I Don't Think I'LL Be Going On This Anymore, Take Care. GoodBye.

iT Was Serious, And i Dont Think i Would Be Able To Tell Someone Something Like That, i'Ve Thought About Going To The Police About iT, But What iF He Finds Out i Told Them?.. He Would Probably Do Worse To Me.. iM Just Scared.. But Yea Jordan iS Protective Over Me, But i Dont Think He Would Be Able To Help iN A Situation Like That.

But To Stay On Topic, i Did Learn, iF i Would Like To Comment Something Bad, i Should Just Keep iT To Myself And Just Thank The People Who Took Their Time Out To Help Me.
But Yea, i Dont Think i'LL Be Going On This Anymore, Take Care. GoodBye.

After all the b.s you've fed me, you still blame me for asking if it was a cry for help? I feel sorry for you, but don't play the "I would never do that to someone" game here. My expirience with you has been lies, and just a lack of respect for others. Can you really blame me for questioning your motives? I think my concerns are completely valid. After the way you've treated us here, don't expect me to take everything you say for face value, and just go along with it.

I really hope you follow up on this thing with your father... All things that have happened on this thread aside, you need help there. I just hope you can find that help. I'm sure many people would be happy to help you with this problem, IF you treat them with respect.

Jordan is your cousin... right? Can't you go live with him and his parents (your aunt, unlce)? If it is that bad, you can get other family to gain custody of you. The authorities can help. You can find out more about this by asking a question on this very forum. Just type normally, play nice, and I'm sure people would love to help you.

jj, have you heard anything about this before? Maybe you should talk to your parents about this. Tell an adult, and get help immediately.

I can't believe I am saying this, but I hope to hear from you soon on the father issue. Or at least from jj... Nobody deserves to be abused like that.

What are the other opinions here, on what to do about the father issue? (Chuff, Tal, Roman, Wiked, etc...) I'm curious to know what others in this thread think.
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Other than that, don't just thank people for the sake of it. Actually APPRECIATE the help you get, and TRY to understand it. Even if it isn't what you want to hear. And I see you haven't put any effort into your typing skills. That would be a good skill to tune too.

This thread relates to you a bit, with the father issue. Maybe you can find some solutions here. (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/dad-scares-me-262292.html)

If you need any help with that, I would be happy too. Child abuse is something I hate with a passion, as I'm sure most people do. Despite everything that has happened here, I am willing to help. And I'm sure other forum members will be too.

jj, have you heard anything about this before? Maybe you should talk to your parents about this. Tell an adult, and get help immediatly.

I can't believe I am saying this, but I hope to hear from you soon on the father issue. Or at least from jj... Nobody deserves to be abused like that.

What are the other opinions here, on what to do about the father issue? (Chuff, Tal, Roman, Wiked, etc...) I'm curious to know what others in this thread think.
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Other than that, don't just thank people for the sake of it. Actually APPRECIATE the help you get, and TRY to understand it. Even if it isn't what you want to hear. And I see you haven't put any effort into your typing skills. That would be a good skill to tune too.


Uhm, Actually, No I haven't heard anything about it. I will talk to my parents about it. But I do know that Kayla's father gets angry really easily, I don't know if it's any anger management thing but he just steams up fast.

Uhm, Actually, No i havent heard anything about it. I will talk to my parents about it. But I do know that Kayla's father gets angry really easily, I dont know if it's any anger management thing but he just steams up fast.


Either way, the issue needs to be addressed.

Of all the things you've done to protect your cousin, this is where she really needs you...

And good for you, for taking the initative and going to an adult who can make a difference.

It takes a lot of courage on KayKays part too, but I think you can do this.

This thread relates to you a bit, with the father issue. Maybe you can find some solutions here. (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/dad-scares-me-262292.html)

If you need any help with that, I would be happy too. Child abuse is something I hate with a passion, as I'm sure most people do. Despite everything that has happened here, I am willing to help. And I'm sure other forum members will be too.

Thanks, I Posted iN iT.

Thanks, i Posted iN iT.

You could always make your own thread, under the "teen" subforum on this site. Plenty of help is available there. And, under your own thread, you will get more information customized to your needs. I would recommend making your own thread.

Just one thing when you start the new thread, spell properly, seriously.

You could always make your own thread, under the "teen" subforum on this site. Plenty of help is available there. And, under your own thread, you will get more information customized to your needs. I would recommend making your own thread.

Just one thing when you start the new thread, spell properly, seriously.

Lol :D, I did, Im trying to stop my habit now.

Lol :D, I did, Im trying to stop my habit now.

HEYYY!
There we go! Now that is typing!

It is a good skill to have, typing properly. Try to make that the new habit.

Yeah! Lol
That makes me really happy!

HEYYY!
There we go! Now that is typing!

It is a good skill to have, typing properly. Try to make that the new habit.

Yeah! lol
That makes me really happy!

Lol :), I will try, Takes me a while to type though since Im use to my other habit. Hehe :p

Morning folks, how be things?

Reading this post was like watching three kings, starts cheery enough then takes a very dark turn near the end.

morning folks, how be things?

reading this post was like watchin three kings, starts off cheery enough then takes a very dark turn near the end.

Meah I'm glad she finally received some help but damn it I typed all that crap on the last page for nothing :(

Meah I'm glad she finally received some help but damn it I typed all that crap on the last page for nothing :(

Uhm.. Sorry to you too I guess?. And why you feel you typed it all for nothing?

I have a question for you KayKay, do you do I.C.T in high school? If so would you not get a fail for your typing skills?

Coming from an IT background meself I know that over here you wouldn't pass the tests.

damn it I typed all that crap on the last page for nothing :(

Why do you think that?

Why do you think that?

Lol well I do not want to stir anything up just felt subject was changed so attention was changed etc. :)

i have a question for you KayKay, do you do I.C.T in highschool? If so would you not get a fail for your typing skills?

Coming from an IT background meself i know that over here you wouldn't pass the tests.

Im in 8th grade. And I don't type like that in class.. Its just a habit outside of class I don't really know why.
And what's I.C.T? Lol.

Im in 8th grade. And I dont type like that in class.. Its just a habit outside of class I dont really know why.
And whats I.C.T? Lol.

Kayla your weird. Lol! Jk little because. Love you. :)

lol well I do not want to stir anything up just felt subject was changed so attention was changed etc. :)

Lol, I know what you mean...
If it helps, I think that was the perfect analysis of the thread, hence then greenie :)
I think most people found it very accurate.

But I do think the subject needed to change, it was getting pretty intense, lol.
And I think the thread turned for the better at the end.

I love happy endings...

Im in 8th grade. And I dont type like that in class.. Its just a habit outside of class I dont really know why.
And whats I.C.T? Lol.

Information Communication Technology

Information Communication Technology

Oooh, I'll probably take it in HS I love to type.

Hi,
Basically I'm going through the same similar situation and my honest opinion, I think that you should move on and let it go because you will hurt the other person in the long run and obviously it did not work out with your ex it seems like he doesn't feel the same feelings that you are feeling because he broke up with you so you should make up your mind and if the new guy isn't really your type just tell him that you want to be friends and stay single until you find Mr. right...

Wish you lots of luck:cool: