So one day I'm in a chat with one of my friends this guys lets call him D well d' invites people from his list and I start talking to one of his friends (lets call him T) online so I never seen him before but he go's to my friend d's college so we talk this goes on for like 3 years we just become online friends. So after a while he keeps saying he wants to see me.. im not big on internet hookups but since he knows my fried D I know in real life I tell D if he certain this guy is cool he says yea but he has a history of getting a lot of girls on campus. I meet him he is very good looking ! He could definitely be a male model 6'2.. he can dress etc.

Then I find out he prefers cats then dogs.. has a "unique" way of dressing in person and has a very sarcastic way of speech. We have fun he does little things to get close to me blah blah then we go into conversation and he starts telling me how he is flexible from soccer and being the goalie? I'm like OK then he says he can do a split and to me its not a turn on then I say " you are so gay" in a playful voice and he says let me prove I'm not and tires to be funny. But it does not really seem like he got upset about me saying that or maybe he just didn't take it to heart.. but he did kept repeating you think I'm really gay?

Well here is a list of things that made me think he is gay.. has been gay or soon will be




He likes cats and hates dogs - I DON'T CARE WHAT YOU SAY THAT'S WEIRD TO ME
Can dress - very different from guys around here he likes the fitted pants look he says baggy pants are "tacky" I some what agree
Very sarcastic/ animated faces- he's dramatic when he talks
Can do the splits - in his defense says because of soccer
Like the color purple - in his defense it means royolty
Walks weird - I think he is bowlegged but its not extreme
When we were looking at posters in the cd store and I saw one of johnny depp and was like oh sexy he said not to be gay or anything but johnny depp is a pretty good looking guy " I said your so gay and walked away

He says he never approaches girls they always come up to him



Things made me think he is straight

He wouldn't stop starring at me kept asking why I couldn't look at him( its because he was to damn tall)
Tried to kiss me about 100 times-succeeded like 3 times
Says he enjoys giving girls oral very much - wants to do it on me
Was a little to touchy feely at the end of the date - I had to hit a couple hands
History of getting a lot of girls ( but what does that really mean)


OK that's all I have to say.. what you guys think

wow you completely read this man wrong. He isn't gay. Look at your list of gay signs... dresses good? That means he cares about how he presents himself (maturity). Says johnny depp is good looking... well he is.. and if a male is OK with his heterosexuality he can feel safe saying so because he has nothing to prove to himself. Walks weird.. so what? Sarcasm and facial expressions? Obviously this is how he tries to be funny... its normal AND essential to emphasize expressions and sarcasm in humor... this man sounds straight. He likes giving oral to women, had hands on you, tried to kiss you.. what other signs of heterosexualness do you need??

anymore questions let me know!

I haven't really thought about the dresses good = maturity it is a possibility but the splits conversation which caught me off guard( and he brought up) really freaked me out.. maybe its cause I'm use to other types of guys but I'm not convinced! Maybe he is not gay there are so gay tendencies... his facial expressions were far from masculine they were quite feminine if I do say so myself... o goody he is texten me as I type.. this would suck if he got on this site

All right I can see where you think he has some gay tendencies but a lot of men do... and like you said, your not used to that type. As far as the splits, its possibly just to impress you in bed... I could be wrong about his sexuality, but it sounds like your reading him the wrong way if he wants to sleep with you!

Good comebacks.. he was talking about sexual things when he expressed that he can do the splits (which is still a terrible turn off and I never want to see) I think I'm convinced he might not be gay after all, come to think about it without me picking at his flaws I had a really good time.. I must have to be openly talking about sex( which won't happen in a billion years) and other things with him

Thanks! Stephen09

Let's see:
Dresses very different from guys around here...
Very sarcastic/ animated faces- hes dramatic when he talks
Can do the splits
Walks weird - i think he is bowlegged but its not extreme
Maybe he's just a cowboy?

If he says he's straight,
Then act as if he is.
If's he's secretly gay, let him come out at his own pace!
He's telling you he finds you attractive, that's quite straight, and he's making moves on you. I have a lot of gay frieds and if he was really gay, he's wouldn't want to kiss you 'in that way'
Johnny Depp is a good looking man and maybe this guy is comphtable enough with his sexuality that h can admit that.
DO you know how hard it is to find a guy like the one your friends with!
So be his friend, or be his lover
But stop acusing him of being gay goddamn it!

OK, why do you care if he is gay or not?? From your original post I get the feeling that you two are just friends. If you are not trying to pursue a relationship with him then just go with the flow. The guy that I went to prom with was gay (my boyfriend was away at college), I knew that he was gay, but he wasn't ready to come out. I see him nine years later and he is no longer Terrence, he is Taylor. He thought that I would be shocked and I told him that I knew all along. He asked me why didn't I confront him with it? I asked him if he would have told me the truth? He said no and then went on to say that if I would have asked him then he probably would have gotten upset. I told him that I knew that he would come out eventually, and that it wasn't up to me to make him feel uncomfortable. I was just there to be his friend. In conclusion, how would knowing if your friend is gay or not affect your relationship? Because it shouldn't. I mean knowing if he's a serial killer that's one thing, but him being gay, that shouldn't concern you.

But wait, wait a minute... HE LIKES CATS?? OH MY GOD!! I have to call my boyfriend up right now and confront him. He's got to be homosexual. That's it I'm ending my relationship right now. I'm just being facetious.

OK, why do you care if he is gay or not??? From your original post I get the feeling that you two are just friends. If you are not trying to pursue a relationship with him then just go with the flow. The guy that I went to prom with was gay (my boyfriend was away at college), I knew that he was gay, but he wasn't ready to come out. I see him nine years later and he is no longer Terrence, he is Taylor. He thought that I would be shocked and I told him that I knew all along. He asked me why didn't I confront him with it? I asked him if he would have told me the truth? He said no and then went on to say that if I would have asked him then he probably would have gotten upset. I told him that I knew that he would come out eventually, and that it wasn't up to me to make him feel uncomfortable. I was just there to be his friend. In conclusion, how would knowing if your friend is gay or not affect your relationship? Because it shouldn't. I mean knowing if he's a serial killer that's one thing, but him being gay, that shouldn't concern you.

But wait, wait a minute....HE LIKES CATS??? OH MY GOD!!!! I have to call my boyfriend up right now and confront him. He's got to be homosexual. That's it I'm ending my relationship right now. I'm just being facetious.


He wants to purse a relationship with me ? Why wouldn't I want to know if he's gay has been gay or has secret desire's to be with men lol be serious!. I don't give a if he's gay and he just wants to be friends.. but when I comes to who going to be with you have got to kidding me I don't want no man on the down low!! Hey if you think that info is not important in your relationships then hey do you... excuse me for wanting to know who I talk to

Well if he does laundry and cooks, no doubt, *** honestly, how silly, really, professional men care about their looks, educated men have a different sense of humor than the bar troll. A soccer goalie talk about a tough hard position, and you laught it off as a gay position.

Let me see you found perhaps the best catch of your life and you insult him by calling him gay. Sounds like you need to get out of your trailer park and start meeting more people of different types

well if he does laundry and cooks, no doubt, *** honestly, how silly, really, professional men care about thier looks, educated men have a different sense of humor than the bar troll. A soccer goalie talk about a tough hard position, and you laught it off as a gay possition.

Let me see you found perhaps the best catch of your life and you insult him by calling him gay. Sounds like you need to get out of your trailer park and start meeting more people of different types

Tralior park? How moronic > lol you humor me I only date educated men and I have met many professionals but he is oddly strange... " the best catch of my life " how cliché.. if you haven't noticed there ARE INDEED MEN ON THE DOWN LOW.. why don't you stick to answering questions you think you know about Christianity Expert?. I swear some of you people absolutely know nothing about men.. then again most of you can't read because me and the first person who answered already analyzed this situation.. I don't even know why I posted this.. your opinions really don't matter to me because you all show that your easily are swayed by first impressions.. maybe I over analyze situations (and I do) but I rather analyze then be caught up with a mirage of unrealistic circumstances. But of course most of you people get swayed by your reproductive organs and sorry I don't

So do you want to be with him or not? It really doesn't matter if he wants to be with you and you don't want to be with him. If you have no intent of being with him then mind your own business. I did not insult you, I made a joke about myself, and I did not invite you to chime in on the joke. Furthermore, how ignorant are you to think that just because a man likes cats that he is gay. So do you like dogs?? Because if you do then according to your gay guidelines you must be a butch lesbian. Men on the downlow are men that you would never be able to guess in a million years are gay. Hence on the downlow. Who do you think they are keeping that secret from, their wives, girlfriends, family, and children.

Newsflash honey this is a forum. If you don't like the responses to your questions then keep them to yourself. You have absolutely no right to throw a temper tantrum, because you don't hear what you want to. Btw Christianity experts do know a thing or two about relationships, hence the reason people go to their pastor for marriage counseling.

Now Good luck and have a wonderful day:)


Mind my business ? Isn't this my topic.. your simply insulting yourself.. . are you really that slow ? If you don't know what your talking about then you shouldn't try to give advice.. lets see he wants to get to know me he wants to be my man? Why wouldn't I want to know about his true sexual orientation.. it can't be that complicated to understand honey... and yes the women who marry the men on the down low are the ones like you who think everything on OK on the surface.. why ? Because your to dumb to really get to know them its OK.. I find it rather disgusting but you sound like you would quite enjoy it :).. plus this topic means nothing anyway because as of now I refuse to pick up his phone calls and moved on to dating a physicians Assistant so my life is wonderful as you can see and if there something I don't like about him I will simply refuse to talk to him.. unlike you I won't settle for anything less . Yes this is an OPEN forum and if you say something rather idiotic I have the right the reply... "btw" Christianity experts know a thing or to about Christian relationships... even though I am a christian if I wasn't that wouldn't be much helpful now would it... by referring that someone shouldn't look in the tralior park is not very Christian like hopefully you would agree if not I would condemn you of having the same class as him for that low class statement.. Good day :rolleyes:

For those of you who must defend there bf's husbands or whoever cat loving pleasures the truth is its feminine to many quality.2 many feminine characteristics will indicate something of course there's always that metro sexual thing and that could be a case and as my forum stated he had more then one thing wrong with him , to be frank stop stating that your lover is a cat lover because that's not the point and I really don't care and if you don't care about my topic simple don't reply.. don't get upset with me I have been known to be rather combative in conversations I am a debater so don't be surprised or get offended and for the "lady" who called me a I would like to say you and very tasteless and tacky :)

You have a lot to learn about people in general, and honestly, putting people into a group without knowing them, is a big mistake.

Hey if you want to know if he is gay, ask him, and be done with it. But in today's world gay, and bisexual, are different so don't be so fast to put labels on people, before you find out where they personally stand.

I love cats, (allergic though) and the color purple, but ask my wife, there is nothing gay about me, and so what if it was?

Your lists are funny, but far from factual. Not a lot of gay people in your neighborhood I see.

You have a lot to learn about people in general, and honestly, putting people into a group without knowing them, is a big mistake.

Hey if you wanna know if he is gay, ask him, and be done with it. but in todays world gay, and bisexual, are different so don't be so fast to put labels on people, before you find out where they personally stand.

I love cats, (allergic though) and the color purple, but ask my wife, there is nothing gay about me, and so what if it was?

Your lists are funny, but far from factual. Not a lot of gay people in your neighborhood I see.


You have just missed the point... keep it moving lol

You're obviously a child. I think you went off on a tangent with your rants and raves.

You only date educated men, huh? By the way that you puff your chest out and yell that you only date educated professional men, and then turn around and say a physician's assistant I am willing to guess that you don't have that much education yourself. Just from your original post I can tell what type of person you are.

Yes, mind your own business. It may be your trivial post, but it is his life and choice.
What's wrong with having people on the same level as yourself.. you have your "Bf" and I have.. everything else looks, money , intelligence why can't I have the same ? WHO CARES IF HE WANTS TO BE WITH ME HIS BUSINESS IS MY BUSINESS SO STOP TALKING REALLY LOL maybe you let your boyfriend run around sucking face with other guys but I wouldn't dare.. and I can tell that your absolutely disgusted by me because of my confidence get over it really... where would I meet educated men oooohhh college that I attend!. part time a volunteer at the cancer center.. I don't see what's wrong with the person I am :)

Your to young, inexperienced, and generally full of yourself, to even notice that your attitude is what holding you back. To put your unrealistic preconceived notions on someone without the benefit of honest dialog, is childish, and inaccurate.

So why don you take your looks money, and the brains you claim to have and use them for something other than be snide and snooty to those answering your dumb azz question.

Then you can learn SOMETHING BESIDES HOW TO BE A BRAT.

As you say, keep it moving.

Wow, someone is sure full of herself.

OP, why would good looking intelligent men put up with a snotty little girl like you?

I know you think that you're all that and a bag of chips, but really honey, not so much.

You are judgemental and ill informed. Read your list of reasons you think this guy is gay. How old are you, 11, 12? Next you'll be telling us that he has his ear pierced and that means he's gay.

I say let him go, you're way too high maintenance.

Good luck.

And now, for something totally different:http://www.freefever.com/animatedgifs/animated/monkeys21.gif

Wow, someone is sure full of herself.

OP, why would good looking intelligent men put up with a snotty little girl like you?

I know you think that you're all that and a bag of chips, but really honey, not so much.

You are judgemental and ill informed. Read your list of reasons why you think this guy is gay. How old are you, 11, 12? Next you'll be telling us that he has his ear pierced and that means he's gay.

I say let him go, you're way too high maintenance.

Good luck.
I'm to high maintenance? Lol thank you ill take that as a compliment.. but hey I'm a snob but guys love me? and I don't have sex with them ? I wonder why they must not think I'm a snob maybe I sound like one to ignorant people hence... your statement.. and you're a sad little women who should grow up and stop name calling.. if you could read you could see I said he I don't pick up his calls he's not on my level... do you need a man maybe you could have him... want my sloppy seconds?

I"m to high maintenance ?? lol thank you ill take that as a compliment ..but hey i'm a snob but guys love me ??and i don't have sex with them ? i wonder why they must not think im a snob maybe i sound like one to ignorant people hence ....your statement ..and your a sad little women who should grow up and stop name calling .. if you could read u could see i said he i don't pick up his calls he's not on my level .... do you need a man maybe you could have him ......want my sloppy seconds?


Oh I can read dear, even your text talk and incomplete sentences. :)

As for your sloppy seconds, no thanks, I'm happily married, have been for 13 years. Besides, I like guys that can see through acts like yours, you know, intelligent, independent, cat loving guys. :D

One day you'll grow up, hopefully, and then you'll learn, hopefully. Until then, yes, guys will fall for you, until this attitude comes out, then they'll run for the hills. Pretty on the outside but ugly on the inside only works for a short time, then they catch on.

Good luck. :)

Oh I can read dear, even your text talk and incomplete sentences. :)

As for your sloppy seconds, no thanks, I'm happily married, have been for 13 years. Besides, I like guys that can see through acts like yours, you know, intelligent, independent, cat loving guys. :D

One day you'll grow up, hopefully, and then you'll learn, hopefully. Until then, yes, guys will fall for you, until this attitude comes out, then they'll run for the hills. Pretty on the outside but ugly on the inside only works for a short time, then they catch on.

Good luck. :)

Lol you talk as if you think you know me?. they run for the hills you say.. hmmm let me tell you something lady when I have a guy he is mine until I say otherwise... I don't have to chase them and I have never been dumped and if one day I slip up and do.. I will just shrug it off because that's the kind of person I am.. guys are easy come easy go... well here's a tip happily married for 13... don't worry about how guys interact with me lol.. stop wishing my love life sucks because simply it doesn't that's like me saying your husband is low life pathetic excuse for a man I don't know if theses things are true but do I wish bad on you.. no because I don't care for you life lol.. thats the difference HONEY , oh yes one more things yes I am beautiful but that's not all that attracts them.. what else's would it be.. if you were half the women I am then you would have a idea... no go tend to your husband and stop playing online counselor:p

You silly little girl. Do you have any idea who you are talking to? No, you really don't. Honey, grow up, get half the experience I have, then you can talk.

You may be beautiful on the outside, but honey, your personality sucks. Beauty fades, ignorant lasts forever.

Obviously you are a great actress if these guys are sticking around, because if this is the attitude they saw, I'm sure they wouldn't, but what do I know, right?

As for what else attracts them, well, like you said, easy come, easy go, emphasis on the easy.

As for being half the women you are, God I hope not, that's something I would never wish for.

Good luck, you'll need it.

he likes cats and hates dogs - I DON'T CARE WHAT YOU SAY THAT'S WEIRD TO ME
can dress - very different from guys around here he likes the fitted pants look he says baggy pants are "tacky" i some what agree
very sarcastic/ animated faces- hes dramatic when he talks
can do the splits - in his defense says because of soccer
like the color purple - in his defense it means royolty
walks weird - i think he is bowlegged but its not extreme
when we were looking at posters in the cd store and i saw one of johnny depp and was like oh sexy he said not to be gay or anything but johnny depp is a pretty good looking guy " i said your so gay and walked away


I haven't read all the posts... but here's my reply:

I'm a 22 year old... straight guy.

The cat/dog thing... fine, I have a dog and I'm allergic to cats... so no comments there. I also like otters and hamsters.. . what the heck does liking an animal have anything to do with one's sexuality?

I think I dress relatively well.

I'm absolutely sarcastic and I am pretty darn animated when I talk.

I can also do a split. I've taken 4 years of kung fu. I can also sword fight, fence, and shoot a gun.

I'm not so sure what "purple" has anything to do with this... I could care less.

Johnny Depp is a damn good looking guy. So is Will Smith.

I think overall, you have issues. Leave this guy alone, and let him find a DECENT girl.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/bf-says-he-cares-does-he-really-249406.html

The complete picture!! She is selfish!! Just needs a whiff of her own shat.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/bf-says-he-cares-does-he-really-249406.html

the complete picture!!! She is selfish!!! Just needs a whiff of her own shat.

Priceless response tal.

.. plus this topic means nothing anyway because as of now i refuse to pick up his phone calls and moved on to dating a physicians Assistant statement ..


The gay guys free... I love happy endings :)

Lol you guys make me laugh! Keep on talking me and my friends are having a ball reading your comments... and actually its hard to believe i am pretty smart.. i can't wait until im one of you guys bosses don't worry i will forgive you while im slashing your pay checks in half lol to buy designer shoes from v.wang... thats if half of you aren't already retired.. . old people get so cranky aww... the truth is i think im a gd actress because guys think im the best thing since slice bread and you know that guy i called gay... he thinks he is in love with me he told me that in a text the other day since i refused to pick up his calls and you know what i said " AWWW HOW SWEET" and then ignored him some more... soooo i can have him.. if i want lol!. but yea im selfish and i volunteer and the brest and cervical cancer program i could have had a job there but i turned it down to go back to college so again all you guys are wrong married women of 13 and allergic to cats guy stop embarrassing yourself.. this guy last night over ice cream gave me an issey miyake bilbao tokolocom bag.. i found it rather ugly he has a thing for japanese designers that's if you know who he is i don't think it cost that much anyone want a less then 24 hours hand me down? :)... losers lol

Oh you're funny.

Dear, unless I decide to take a job at Walmart I don't think I have to worry about you being my boss.

As for being old, not so much.

You are very selfish, and it will catch up to you one day. Like I said, beauty fades, wait and see. Of course, you won't listen, you know everything, right?

Trust me, for now the guys want you, because you're eye candy, a trinket, a pretty little toy. When a guy looks to marry he looks for more than an empty shell.

As for volunteering at the cancer centre, what do you want, a medal? Both my parents died of cancer, and I took care of them, gave them their shots, their meds, took them for chemo and radiation, blood transfusion, you name it. I hope that you are a better person when you are there dealing with these poor sick people, because on here, well, you don't sound like the kind of person I'd want helping me during my final days.

I have a college degree, I've been the "career women", I took time off to be a mom.


AND ACTUALLY ITS HARD TO BELIEVE I AM PRETTY SMART

You took the words right out of my mouth, it is hard to believe, and there's been no proof so far.

Say hi to your friends, hope they get a kick out of this post. :)

Oh you're funny.

Dear, unless I decide to take a job at Walmart I don't think I have to worry about you being my boss.

As for being old, not so much.

You are very selfish, and it will catch up to you one day. Like I said, beauty fades, wait and see. Of course, you won't listen, you know everything, right?

Trust me, for now the guys want you, because you're eye candy, a trinket, a pretty little toy. When a guy looks to marry he looks for more than an empty shell.

As for volunteering at the cancer centre, what do you want, a medal? Both my parents died of cancer, and I took care of them, gave them their shots, their meds, took them for chemo and radiation, blood transfusion, you name it. I hope that you are a better person when you are there dealing with these poor sick people, because on here, well, you don't sound like the kind of person I'd want helping me during my final days.

I have a college degree, I've been the "career women", I took time off to be a mom.



You took the words right out of my mouth, it is hard to believe, and there's been no proof so far.

Say hi to your friends, hope they get a kick out of this post. :)


You love talkng to me fine lol... i don't have proof that you now what the hell ur talking about either lol... really! Now i know your ignorent you think studying cancer and researching is not a big deal!! well then you should have more respect for someone who is taking there free time out to save people like your parents . That's all i can say,. i don't care what i sound like to you because you just proved you mean nothing to me the only respect i have for your pathetic life is your parents... im not worried about guys because there everywhere i have been proposed to twice ? I denied both lol read this lady i don't need men to love myself unlike you.. well go play mommie then and stop worrying about my life its great.. you be carful what you say mom... my friend said thank you hopefully your kids don't grow up like you a sad women who wishes bad on someone better then them... beauty dies yes yes blah blah but by that time ill be retiring in italy somewhere so save ur pity :rolleyes:

NOW I KNOW YOUR IGNORENT YOU THINK STUDYING CANCER AND RESEARCHING IS NOT A BIG DEAL

I never said that, I have great respect for the doctors and scientists that are doing cancer research, I donate to cancer research every year, go on the cancer walks to earn money for research, sell breast cancer pins, and a whole lot more.

I didn't realize that volunteering and actually doing cancer research were the same thing (sarcasm).


WELL THEN YOU SHOULD HAVE MORE RESPECT FOR SOMEONE WHO IS TAKING THERE FREE TIME OUT TO SAVE PEOPLE LIKE YOUR PARENTS

As should you. I took care of my parents, my mom lived with me for the last 5 months of her life, I held her hand while she died. My father died 6 1/2 months before her, I was there 24 hours a day, holding his hand, talking to him, praying that he'd make it. You have no idea what that's like until you've gone through it, so show a little respect.

I've been proposed to 4 times in my life, I still have 2 of the rings that were given to me, they didn't want them back when we split up. Do you really want to have a contest on who's the most desirable, the prettiest, the smartest? I can't believe I'm actually sinking to your level.

As for my kids, I hope that they grow up to be smart, kind, caring, and not afraid to stand up for what is right. So yes, exactly like me.

I never wished bad on you, I just wish you'd grow up and realize what a spiteful girl you are. I also don't pity you, I pity the guys that fall for this act.

I'm done, there's no getting through to you. You'll learn the hard way, of that I'm certain. Print this out, save it, one day you'll read it and realize that we were all right.

Good luck, take care, learn and grow. :)

i never said that, i have great respect for the doctors and scientists that are doing cancer research, i donate to cancer research every year, go on the cancer walks to earn money for research, sell breast cancer pins, and a whole lot more.

I didn't realize that volunteering and actually doing cancer research were the same thing (sarcasm).



As should you. I took care of my parents, my mom lived with me for the last 5 months of her life, i held her hand while she died. My father died 6 1/2 months before her, i was there 24 hours a day, holding his hand, talking to him, praying that he'd make it. You have no idea what that's like until you've gone through it, so show a little respect.

I've been proposed to 4 times in my life, i still have 2 of the rings that were given to me, they didn't want them back when we split up. Do you really want to have a contest on who's the most desirable, the prettiest, the smartest? I can't believe i'm actually sinking to your level.

As for my kids, i hope that they grow up to be smart, kind, caring, and not afraid to stand up for what is right. So yes, exactly like me.

I never wished bad on you, i just wish you'd grow up and realize what a spiteful girl you are. I also don't pity you, i pity the guys that fall for this act.

I'm done, there's no getting through to you. You'll learn the hard way, of that i'm certain. Print this out, save it, one day you'll read it and realize that we were all right.

Good luck, take care, learn and grow. :)

I SHOULD HAVE RESPECT FOR YOU BECAUSE YOU TOOK CARE OF YOUR PARENTS? UMM That's WHAT UR SUPPOSE TO DO ? AND YOUR TALKING ABOUT WANTING MEDALS.. ITS ONE THING TO TAKE CARE OF FAMILY BUT ANOTHER THING TO HELP TAKE CARE OF STRANGERS SWEETY IF U DNT AGREE SHARE?

Ohhhhhh!. so now your trying compare with me wow 4 times your just as bad as me now huh.. I see you have the same tendencies lol?. You have the tenacity to talk to me in that manner. Its OK hun I make you anger that's fine because you want to prove you look better then me ? Fine go ahead it doesn't me anything there are hundreds of beautiful girls out there they don't mess wit me I don't mess with them I don't care what you think of me do you get that now... stop being so mad with me and my life kk honey good-day

You all are still entertaining this girl? Surprisingly enough, with all of her accomplishments, like breast cancer research, school, the multitudes of men beating down her door, her climbing mountains, rescuing sick babies and kittens, and shopping at kohls for high end fashion, like vera wang (ha ha ha), I am shocked that she has time to engage in conversation with the likes of you.
So to all of you responding to her I think that you should stop. We wouldn't want to take time away from her busy schedule.

YOUR ARE ENTERTAINING ME YOU OUT OF ALL THE PEOPLE ON HERE.. OF COURSE YOU Don't BELIeVE ME YOUR SIMPLE AND YOUR LIFE IS PROBABLY BORING :( AWWW .your so silly you never heard of labtops? Don't tell me you can't afford that either OK OK your so mad at me because your thinking there can't possible be pretty smart and successful people in the world but I see it all the time.. and when I look in the mirror lol!. BUT MY friend WANTS TO SAY SOMETHING TO YOU SO THE NEXT paragraph IS FROM HER

"why are you still talking to her? why don't you get a life go to kohl's like you said you know you love shopping there... and don't even try to start talking about me I actually attend fashion shows , you probably buy your clothes from walmart or something LMAO.. if you didn't know our parents have high expectations for us so we have to perform high in education.. so for me I am a soon to be lawyer so don't waste your time running your mouth about stuff you don't know.. I would think you were smart because your not even pretty ;( aw but your ugly bitter and dumb sorry:p.. ha ha your life sucks BIOTCH.

You all are still entertaining this girl? Surprisingly enough, with all of her accomplishments, like breast cancer research, school, the multitudes of men beating down her door, her climbing mountains, rescuing sick babies and kittens, and shopping at kohls for high end fashion, like vera wang (ha ha ha), I am shocked that she has time to engage in conversation with the likes of you.
So to all of you responding to her I think that you should stop. We wouldn't want to take time away from her busy schedule.

I agree fjs, and I will stop now. I admit that people like this make me very angry, and I don't back down, darn my stubborn streak. :o It's sad to think that people like this are our future, heaven help us all. I have to say that my head hurts, it's hard trying to lower your IQ in order to have a conversation with someone.

I think it's way past time for this thread to end. I for one will no longer respond. One good thing about life, no one can escape the consequences of their actions, what comes around goes around, karma will kick in.

Alty out.

I agree fjs, and I will stop now. I admit that people like this make me very angry, and I don't back down, darn my stubborn streak. :o It's sad to think that people like this are our future, heaven help us all. I have to say that my head hurts, it's hard trying to lower your IQ in order to have a conversation with someone.

I think it's way past time for this thread to end. I for one will no longer respond. One good thing about life, no one can escape the consequences of their actions, what comes around goes around, karma will kick in.


Alty out.
LMAO do I need you to write me a whole damn paragraph to say you will stop, don't you have better training what a joke.. the offer still stands for the hand bag you know you want it lmao??

Put a pic up let's see how pretty you are???? You feel like a big person saying all of that stuff behind a computer, don't you. I didn't have to list out my accomplishments because I have high self esteem, but because I am tired of hearing trash like you talk i will go for it.

I have studied computer science, accounting, finance, and french. I used to model, fashion show, print, you name it, not too long ago in South Beach. My boyfriends, doctors, lawyers, club owners, business owners, etc. Now my current boyfriend, a filmmaker. I did not get little trinkets like purses, and vera wang shoes. I got a cars, trips, and jewelry biotch. You want to know why? Because I am not a little snot nosed little girl that has nothing better to do then attack people on the computer. But you know what, what men have given me doesn't even compare to what I can give myself. I am intelligent, beautiful(no I've heard stunning), and I have a bank account that would make your head spin. I could give two sh#*s what you think about me and how I look. Because when you end up with twelve kids and living in the trailer park, I'll just be another person that pays taxes to foot your welfare check.

LOL! Someone's MAD!. LOOK Who's COMPARING THEMSELVES TO ME? WHEN I TALK ABOUT THE STUFF I GOT YOU GET MAD BUT THEN U START MAKING UP STUFF?? LISTEN BABES ME AND MY FRIENDS DON'T CARE THE MADDER YOU GET THE MORE WE LAUGH.. WE Don't TAKE ORDERS FROM WILD ANIMALS!. sorry if she hurt your feelings about you being ugly.. ok she wants to talk.

" biotch what are you gonna do ..fight me heres a hint your making yourself look dumb..your saying everything you just said we have that was wrong. so your contradicting yourself .. ha ha she wins F.y.I you are ugly ..sorry it the truth :eek: nooooooooooo Im not posting my pics online !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! stupid hag "

LMAO do i need you to write me a whole damn paragraph to say you will stop, don't you have better training what a joke ..the offer still stands for the hand bag you know you want it lmao ???.

It wasn't addressed to you princess.

As for the handbag, I don't base my worth on material things. If you need to that's fine, some people need the expensive clothes, shoes, purses etc. in order to feel good about themselves. Not me.

Okay I'm out. There's a portion of my life I'll never get back. What a waste of time.

Good bye :)

It wasn't addressed to you princess.

As for the handbag, I don't base my worth on material things. If you need to that's fine, some people need the expensive clothes, shoes, purses etc. in order to feel good about themselves. Not me.

Okay I'm out. There's a portion of my life I'll never get back. What a waste of time.

Good bye :)


Aww she's back?:D I like you more then the other cow who keeps running your mouth... why do you keep saying bye but you never leave? Are you sure I will send you the bag its nothing really I don't know the official price but hey you can sell it on eBay!!

I'm actually laughing. Did you just call me a wild animal? Well, then I guess you better be careful then because they are vicious and they attack.

I'm actually laughing. Did you just call me a wild animal? Well, then I guess you better be careful then because they are vicious and they attack.


Good! Lol , nice to know you don't take it to the heart... yea listen to the lady married for 13 years take your own advice.. you don't even take your own advice.. why would anyone listen to what you have to say duh...


"your still ugly in my eyes your probably uglier when you laugh ,I called you a beast because you look like one :(

Thank you for shedding some light. You are very insightful Pink. How did I ever get through life without your help?

Thank you for shedding some light. You are very insightful Pink. How did I ever get through life without your help?


Make- up?. and this is pink's friend :D she's on the phone with some guy.. I thought you had a boyfriend where is he now ? I was the one who called you ugly by the way

Okay girls, enough. I'm guilty too, but now I have to step in.

Please read the link.

Ask Me Help Desk - FAQ: Terms of Service, FAQ and How To Use This Site (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/faq.php?faq=vb_faq#faq_faq_rules)

I know we're all mad, yes, I am too, but this isn't getting us anywhere. It's time to back off, move on, or try and have a rational conversation. Since I don't think there's anything left to talk about, perhaps we should all move on.

Everyone has said their peace, the end.

If this keeps up the thread will be closed, in fact, I'm surprised it hasn't been already.

Good luck.

Okay girls, enough. I'm guilty too, but now I have to step in.

Please read the link.

Ask Me Help Desk - FAQ: Terms of Service, FAQ and How To Use This Site (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/faq.php?faq=vb_faq#faq_faq_rules)

I know we're all mad, yes, I am too, but this isn't getting us anywhere. It's time to back off, move on, or try and have a rational conversation. Since I don't think there's anything left to talk about, perhaps we should all move on.

Everyone has said their peace, the end.

If this keeps up the thread will be closed, in fact, I'm surprised it hasn't been already.

Good luck.




I'm not mad at all but I'll stop if you guys will stop being so angry with the way I carry myself and the way I live I can't help it... and ill tell my friend to stop 2

Truce. I do apologize for sounding judgemental. The reason is that I was very much like you when I was younger, and I learned a few hard lessons because of that.

Like I said, I'm stubborn, I don't back down, been pushed down to many times in the past. But I also know when to let something go.

Like I said, truce. :)

Truce. I do apologize for sounding judgemental. The reason is that I was very much like you when I was younger, and I learned a few hard lessons because of that.

Like I said, I'm stubborn, I don't back down, been pushed down to many times in the past. But I also know when to let something go.

Like I said, truce. :)


Well I guess where more alike then we think.. I also.. stubborn and don't back down
.. funny thing is my friends boyfriend was watching gangs of New York just now and once we stopped fighting so did the people in the movie I thought it was kind of funny.. but I would like to hear about your experiences when you where young sometimes :)

Sure, my life is open book. ;)

I have a few threads about my past experiences, they will definitely shed some light about me.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/mental-emotional-health/truth-about-me-195877.html

Here's the one that will shed the most light. :)

Sure, my life is open book. ;)

I have a few threads about my past experiences, they will definitely shed some light about me.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/mental-emotional-health/truth-about-me-195877.html

Here's the one that will shed the most light. :)

Kk cool

Alt, I agree with Historian you are a hero. They say that you know that you have really healed when you are able to open up and talk about it. After that happens to people they don't truly understand why they lash out, become promiscious, and start taking drugs. I'm glad that you were able to realize this before it was too late. I applaud you and I wish you well in the rest of your life.

Thank fjsmith, I appreciate the kind words. :)