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darlingnurse7
Sep 17, 2008, 05:54 PM
I just recently adopted a little boy but now he is driving my family crazy. He lied about everything. We want to return him back to the foster care system. I want to know how can I do that please I'm desperate

danielnoahsmommy
Sep 17, 2008, 05:58 PM
You Obviously Are Not Ready To Adopt! HE IS NOT AN OBJECT THAT YOU CAN RETURN TO A STORE. He is a little boy that needs you, and yes he may be work, but in the end the love you give and get back will be the best thing in the world. You all need therapy

Synnen
Sep 18, 2008, 05:59 AM
You can't.

You've ADOPTED. In most states, that's as legally binding (or more so!) as giving birth to a child. He's YOURS.

Get some counseling on how to learn to deal with him, in my opinion, otherwise you're just going to be one more person who doesn't love him, and who just USED him instead of helping him.

JudyKayTee
Sep 18, 2008, 08:28 AM
I just recently adopted a little boy but now he is driving my family crazy. He lied about everything. We want to return him back to the foster care system. I want to know how can I do that please I'm desperate


On a whole other subject, how were you able to adopt with a criminal record serious enough to cause you to lose employment?

Was this a private adoption?