OK so I had known this girl for a couples years before we got serious we didn't talk much just kind of joked around here and there we didn't really have the same group of people then last November me and her started finally talking more I started developing feelings for her as did she by this past febuarary we were finally dating no before all of this she had always said how she liked me but didn't want a boyfriend we dated for only about a week but ever since then we have been "together" we are still basically a couple just not official we went out once more in April but she said it just felt different and didn't like it so we broke up which I know is all in her head because we acted no different it was just finally officail but she doesn't understand that we were still "together" though every time I would see her she would be all I love you calling me by pet names constantly wanting my attention resting her head on my shoulder grabbing my hand it just seemed like wherever we were it was only me and her no matter who was around we were talking about finally dating again for the longest time just recently (september 2nd) me and her decided to try it again this time it seems perfect there was no arguing like previous times we were always holding each other, cuddling, holding hands then after about a week we started arguing not big arguments just stupid things built up we just broke up a few days ago and she says its just not there anymore when I said I would stop arguing she claims that's not it but it obviously is because we were perfect until we started today I was with her again and once again she was holding my hand and the same old then when I asked if we could try it again she said no we've been ovre this although she goes from an I don't know to no to probably like nothing and everyone tells me oh get over her don't talk to her for a while you'll find someone new but they don't understand I've never had feelings like this and although the situation hurts if it meens having her its worth it I don't want to lose her or find anyone else nor do I think anyone else could ever make me feel this way and I've been through a lot of hard times lately and losing her is the last thing I can possibly do right now what can I do to get her back?

If you want her back, then simply not give her the attention she wants. It's a sick world that we have to do that but I know from experience and friends' experiences that once they realize that "hey is he moving on?" she will quickly realize what she's losing. You can't always be available to her and I'm guessing you are cause of how much you like her.. and trust me you will find someone to make you feel just as good it just might take awhile. Give her space and don't even hang out say its too hard for you if your just friends... she will start to miss you.

Yes people have told me that but what happens if she realizes she does miss me but just decides to let me go and doesn't say anythign I don't want to risk that even though most peoepl will say its not worth it then then a bunch of bull trying to make sometone feel better because she is worth it the only time I'm truly happy is when I'm with her

Aw yeah I understand I hate when people would tell me that if they just let you go then it means its not meant to be. But it really is true. But it sucks to hear. When was the last time you talked to her?

We talk almost 24/7 whether were texting on the phone or in person

Ohhh.. hmm maybe u should stop unless u can handle being friends

Well just lately I've been having a lot of going on and its like she's the only thing that makes me happy so I can't stop talking to her but the reason she makes me happy is because of what we have so I can't be like just friends

Life sucks sometimes doesn't it lol