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caitlinCREEP
Sep 15, 2008, 08:28 PM
Okay - I'm in 9th grade.
In seventh grade, I dated this boy named drew. I was totally crazy for him, but he broke up with me because he was confused and stuff.
His feelings for me never went away, and neither did my feelings for him.
Now, in 9th grade, I'm dating this boy named bradley.
I care for him a lot,
But now me and drew have become so close..
And me and bradley haven't even been dating a month.
So I don't want to just go and dump him.
But I know I feel stronger towards drew.
I don't know, I'm so confused.

411Help
Sep 15, 2008, 08:33 PM
Follow your heart, go with Drew. Even though it may hurt Bradley, at least he will know you were honest.

JBeaucaire
Sep 15, 2008, 10:27 PM
You're not confused. Try to train yourself NOT to say that to yourself. It's crippling and seldom actually true. What you are in this situation is hesitant to hurt someone.

Relationship Tip #346 - If you're going to date humans, someone is going to get hurt. If not the boy(s) you're dating, then the ones you are turning down. Let go NOW of the idea you can avoid it. OK?

So, 411 is right, always deal honestly with everyone, especially boyfriends. It's more important than being nice or being liked.

talaniman
Sep 16, 2008, 08:03 AM
Being honest with them, and yourself ,may hurt some feelings, that can't be helped. But in the long run, its better than leading someone on.

Your not confused. You just don't want to do what it takes, to solve this issue the best way possible. Sorry, it may not be easy, but do the right thing.

happy_jester
Sep 16, 2008, 08:47 AM
It may not be easy, but do the right thing.

In your question,you mention that,you know you feel stronger towards drew...
That's your heart telling you what's right! Always follow
What it says.

No,it won't be easy to "do the right thing" and yet,at the end of the day,in your heart
Of hearts,you'll know it's the right way to go.

That's all that matters...

Dragonfly1234
Sep 16, 2008, 09:06 AM
Just make sure Drew isn't suddenly interested in you again because you started dating a new boy.