raichund
Sep 14, 2008, 02:09 PM
OK I split up with my boyfriend of 2 years 2 months ago, everythign was OK although past two year we arued a lot kept dumping each other going back. One major thing that happened towards end of uni he kissed another girl when he went out and was drunk he never told me straight away although did own up in summer holidays, w ebroke up initially then but I forgave and got back together, as he didn't have sex or anything, although I kept brinign it up in arguments as I didn't have enough time I don think to heal from it,
We had a major split in April but after a period of begging to him etc, he said no again and again when I forgot him he came crawling back, things got better but arguments wer still occurring not as much as before though.
He was my first boyfriend I was his first girlfriend. Now I had been doing well with no ocntatc etc, although couple weeks ago he strated tlking to me as mates, general stuff he did keep syaing he missed me, etc wished it never happned bla bla, but that was it. I went on holiday came back recently finding that I ahd got over him nearlly, then all of a sudden he says whya re you blanking me, and tlks to me again, rememebering old times good times.
Today just now, he bought up all the bad stuff I did and wanted answers these were things I did a year ago like I did not go paintballing for his birthday as iwas shy and I chucked a book he made for me because when we split in April I kep looking at it and I kept crying non stop I had to get rid of it.
He asked me what did I do to you I said a few things, but he made them sound so small comapred to the tantrums I had, and said I feel better we have cleared these issues, lets be mates but its up to you it's a free world, I don't understand what he's doing to me,
What is e doing can someone help, I know I was bad at times tantrums for no reasons, I chucked the book, and I said once if I'm going down your coming down with me as I was mad as a condom poped, what I meant was if I'm pregnant he has to be there with me to.
These issues are old we have been through them he bought them up today out of no where and every time I explained myself said I was twisting it. I don't understand, when he wants me to listen to him he comes oline and tells me his life story, then he brings this up basically to say I did everything wrong?
Wts going on I'm kiliing my ehad thinking about it
We had a major split in April but after a period of begging to him etc, he said no again and again when I forgot him he came crawling back, things got better but arguments wer still occurring not as much as before though.
He was my first boyfriend I was his first girlfriend. Now I had been doing well with no ocntatc etc, although couple weeks ago he strated tlking to me as mates, general stuff he did keep syaing he missed me, etc wished it never happned bla bla, but that was it. I went on holiday came back recently finding that I ahd got over him nearlly, then all of a sudden he says whya re you blanking me, and tlks to me again, rememebering old times good times.
Today just now, he bought up all the bad stuff I did and wanted answers these were things I did a year ago like I did not go paintballing for his birthday as iwas shy and I chucked a book he made for me because when we split in April I kep looking at it and I kept crying non stop I had to get rid of it.
He asked me what did I do to you I said a few things, but he made them sound so small comapred to the tantrums I had, and said I feel better we have cleared these issues, lets be mates but its up to you it's a free world, I don't understand what he's doing to me,
What is e doing can someone help, I know I was bad at times tantrums for no reasons, I chucked the book, and I said once if I'm going down your coming down with me as I was mad as a condom poped, what I meant was if I'm pregnant he has to be there with me to.
These issues are old we have been through them he bought them up today out of no where and every time I explained myself said I was twisting it. I don't understand, when he wants me to listen to him he comes oline and tells me his life story, then he brings this up basically to say I did everything wrong?
Wts going on I'm kiliing my ehad thinking about it