The other day my girlfriend of 4 months told me she wanted a break. It came from no where so I was hrt and confused. I took ithe break as "It was fun while it lasted." But my best friend who is also good friends whit her talked to her and she said we were still together. She also said she needed time because she was stressed out ith school, church and that she didn't have time for me right now. What should I do? I care a lot about her, but the though of me breaking up with her has crossed my mind nourmous time becaouse there was this guy at her school (we go to different schools) that was trying to break us up and he wouldn't leave her alone. I got tired of him tell her that I wasn't good enough for her so I asked my dad for advise. He talked to her and told her to tell her dad t talk to him and to leave her alone. He did. No a month later, two more guys are messing with her at school by kissing her and she says there is nothing she can do, but this happens at school so she can go tell the principal or her dad. I need some advise. What do you think I should do? :confused:

I took the break as "It was fun while it lasted."

... the though of me breaking up with her has crossed my mind [numerous] time...

... we go to [different] schools

You nailed it on the first quote above. Dating is about finding someone who is EASY to be with, who makes you feel better and you do the same for her. You don't need all this stress, do you?

You're already thinking about it, do it, and not angrily. "We are just in two different places and we both know that. Let's quit this before our friendship suffers, too."

Then do some relaxed dating until you find someone more matched to you. Good luck.

Thank you for your advise.