heygirlhey
Sep 12, 2008, 10:25 PM
Okay.. let me start from the verry beginning.
Me and this girl were best friends and hung out everyday for about 2 months and she was dating this guy named dusty. They had been dating for maybee 7 months and they were each others firsts and first loves. She dumped him like 2 times for other guys and when her and the other guys broke up dusty always took her back. Her and dusty broke up while me and her were getting really close and she started talking to this other guy named randy. Well me and dusty had started talking to each other and were considering dating. She found out and called him crying and begging for him to take her back BUT she was still talking to the other guy randy. About a week after all that happened they broke up again and a few days after this break up she started to date the guy randy. Well I saw my chance to start talking to dusty again and we started dating about 2 weeks after they had broken up. She found out and she never wanted to talk to me again.. of course.
Anyway... me and dusty have been dating for a little over a year and are having some problems. The problems started about 6 months ago when I found pictures of another girl in her bra and panties on his phone. I don't remember if I had cheated on him before or after this but we got back together after I had cheated. I told him I cheated the day after it happened because I'm the kind of person who can't keep those things to myself because I feel horrible. About 2 or 3 months ago he had started talking to his ex (the one I talked about above) about having sex and seeing her again and when I moved away that he wasn't going to talk to me no more so they could be together. (I moved away but I still go back to my home state to see him) Well 2 days or so after I found out about this I forgave him and said I would forget it because he swore it would never happen again. 2 weeks later.. they started talking again about the same thing pretty much. Well I dumped him and I had a guy friend I hung out with for a month after I broke up with dusty. Every time me and this guy would hang out dusty would call non-stop bugging me. Me and the guy only kissed and that's it. Well when I moved me and this guy pretty much stopped talking and I realized how much I missed dusty. ( I just moved 7 weeks agos) Well me and dusty got back together after talking about everything for about a week and recently broke up again and are trying to stay broken up for good this time.
In between all of this that and the other me and dusty were and still are arguing all the time. Im insecure about him cheating on me and I have these inseuritys because of a past relationship. I don't really like him talking to any other girls and I don't like him hangin out with some of his friends because I know they will try and make him do something with another girl. Well I really want it to work between me and him because I really do like/love him a lot. Since this last break up he has been trying to make me jealous and mad by telling me about other girls and just random things that he KNOWS will make me mad. Ive been trying to move on and try to find other guys but I come home from school and want him back. He is the same way. Im not sure what to do and I want anyone's opinion because I'm so confused. Should I try and make things work between me and him and try to get back together or leave all in all? :confused: :(
Oh and sorry about the life story but I had to put it in because of things that have happened.
Me and this girl were best friends and hung out everyday for about 2 months and she was dating this guy named dusty. They had been dating for maybee 7 months and they were each others firsts and first loves. She dumped him like 2 times for other guys and when her and the other guys broke up dusty always took her back. Her and dusty broke up while me and her were getting really close and she started talking to this other guy named randy. Well me and dusty had started talking to each other and were considering dating. She found out and called him crying and begging for him to take her back BUT she was still talking to the other guy randy. About a week after all that happened they broke up again and a few days after this break up she started to date the guy randy. Well I saw my chance to start talking to dusty again and we started dating about 2 weeks after they had broken up. She found out and she never wanted to talk to me again.. of course.
Anyway... me and dusty have been dating for a little over a year and are having some problems. The problems started about 6 months ago when I found pictures of another girl in her bra and panties on his phone. I don't remember if I had cheated on him before or after this but we got back together after I had cheated. I told him I cheated the day after it happened because I'm the kind of person who can't keep those things to myself because I feel horrible. About 2 or 3 months ago he had started talking to his ex (the one I talked about above) about having sex and seeing her again and when I moved away that he wasn't going to talk to me no more so they could be together. (I moved away but I still go back to my home state to see him) Well 2 days or so after I found out about this I forgave him and said I would forget it because he swore it would never happen again. 2 weeks later.. they started talking again about the same thing pretty much. Well I dumped him and I had a guy friend I hung out with for a month after I broke up with dusty. Every time me and this guy would hang out dusty would call non-stop bugging me. Me and the guy only kissed and that's it. Well when I moved me and this guy pretty much stopped talking and I realized how much I missed dusty. ( I just moved 7 weeks agos) Well me and dusty got back together after talking about everything for about a week and recently broke up again and are trying to stay broken up for good this time.
In between all of this that and the other me and dusty were and still are arguing all the time. Im insecure about him cheating on me and I have these inseuritys because of a past relationship. I don't really like him talking to any other girls and I don't like him hangin out with some of his friends because I know they will try and make him do something with another girl. Well I really want it to work between me and him because I really do like/love him a lot. Since this last break up he has been trying to make me jealous and mad by telling me about other girls and just random things that he KNOWS will make me mad. Ive been trying to move on and try to find other guys but I come home from school and want him back. He is the same way. Im not sure what to do and I want anyone's opinion because I'm so confused. Should I try and make things work between me and him and try to get back together or leave all in all? :confused: :(
Oh and sorry about the life story but I had to put it in because of things that have happened.