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nikki_lynn17
Sep 11, 2008, 10:38 AM
Hello,
My Name is Nikki I'm 17 years old. And I have a very serious question for everyone. My future very much depends on it.

Im 17 as I said and I'm dating this really amazing guy. I have had many boyfriends and none has made me feel the way he does. He impresses me in every aspect and there is not one thing good or bad that I do not absolutely love about him.
But I have one problem...
He's only 14 :/
I know that sounds bad considering I'm going to be 18 in January.
But we do not have sex or anything and I really love him. And he wants more than anything for us to have a long term relationship. My mom is okay with it because I'm happy and he is happy. But I don't know how the law will feel once I'm an adult.
Do I have to break up with the one person that makes my world go round because he was unfortunately born a little later than I was? If both of our parents give concent or us dating is it okay?
Pleaseee pleasee tell me what to do.
And its not like I'm a pedo or anything I can care less about sex or anything because I love him for him not all that I will wait if need be. That's how much I want to be with him.

bigbird213
Sep 11, 2008, 10:40 AM
If you aren't having sex, and don't plan on it for some time, there is nothing legally wrong with what you are doing as far as I know... If no one has concerns about it, I don't see any problem with it. The only trouble spot is sex, but you said you could "care-less" at this point. The only time I can see that being an issue is further on down the road if yours, or his, feelings change about the subject...

talaniman
Sep 11, 2008, 01:20 PM
If both of our parents give concent for us dating is it okay?

You may not have my blessings, but being above board, and honest counts for something.

Annonimus
Aug 30, 2009, 10:17 AM
Is he mature for his age? My boyfriends only 14 and he acts like a complete idiot sometimes.