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adam_89
Sep 3, 2008, 11:17 AM
I was wondering on how to become bulimic? I am a little over weight and I need to lose it, and I think that would be the easiest way to lose weight fast. I think I can control myself after I get to the point of where I want to be. I just can't remember what you do. Can anyone help me?

danielnoahsmommy
Sep 3, 2008, 11:20 AM
Sick, sick sick. Seems to me to be a very lazy person.

adam_89
Sep 3, 2008, 11:58 AM
I run 3 times a week, and do other things to stay in shape. I am 6'3 236 lbs. I would like to be back to 200lbs. I try and I am so sick of it that I am ready to try anything like that.

lmangileri
Sep 3, 2008, 12:10 PM
You need to mix up your routine for starters. Your body is used to running and you need to do something you're not used to. Do you have a bike?

adam_89
Sep 3, 2008, 12:29 PM
I don't have a bike. It would probably help wouldn't it? I just figured running and doing sit-ups and crunches would help a little bit, but I actually gained a little weight. I am tired of gaining and not losing.

lmangileri
Sep 3, 2008, 12:34 PM
Just make sure you're mixing up your routine. That's something my trainer won't let me forget. Lol. You can't get into a routine with exercise and still get results.

adam_89
Sep 3, 2008, 12:37 PM
OK. Thank you very much. I feel so stupid for my dumb idea. Thanks for your help!

lmangileri
Sep 3, 2008, 12:42 PM
Not a problem! I can't imagine throwing up on a regular basis, I don't even like it when I'm sick! Lol

Emland
Sep 3, 2008, 01:11 PM
Do you know that bullemic people generally lose their teeth (the acid when you throw up rots them out) and have a higher chance of dying from heart attack? The spasms can really tear you up inside.

Don't worry about being fat. Learn to be fit. Join an exercise class, take up cross country running or join a support group. Studies have proven that people do better when losing weight with the support of a group.

adam_89
Sep 3, 2008, 01:17 PM
That would help a lot. Thank you so much everybody. I just hate not being in the best of shape.

Ziggy420
Sep 3, 2008, 01:47 PM
What is your eating habbit? U should be eating breakfast lunch and dinner no midnight snacks after dinner be done! Not having a good eating cycle can cause you to gain weight. Like for example not eating breakfast everyday and just eating lunch and dinner can cause you to gain weight. Sounds weird but its true! And limit yourself don't overload your plate. Also do you drink beer? Beer will make you gain a lot of weight as well

adam_89
Sep 3, 2008, 01:52 PM
Well, I drink about 20-25 beers over a weekend, but that's it. Probably doesn't help does it? I always skip breakfast and only eat lunch and dinner. That is exactly what you are saying not to do. Haha

Fr_Chuck
Sep 3, 2008, 01:54 PM
You could not eat all week and that would not do anything but make you sick, nothing will help if you are drinking 20 plus beers a weekend, change that to 2 beers for the weekend and then exercise that off. Skipping breakfest is the worst thing you can do.

J_9
Sep 3, 2008, 01:58 PM
Did you know that many bulimics are actually regular weight or slightly overweight? Yup, true story, and dumb idea.

lmangileri
Sep 4, 2008, 01:21 PM
not a problem! I can't imagine throwing up on a regular basis, I don't even like it when I'm sick! lol


Areyouserious,
I wasn't saying it to be insensitive. I was saying it because I don't like to throw up. You do?

plonak
Sep 4, 2008, 01:28 PM
Hopefully you're not going to become bulemic..

It's like asking everyone "how can I become a drug addict?"

My little sisters friend died at the age of 14 because she vomitted so much (she was bulemic) that she burnt her esphogus so bad that she couldn't keep anything down.. she was 14!!

Don't do it to yourself

adam_89
Sep 4, 2008, 01:45 PM
Wow. The things I didn't know. Thank you!

lmangileri
Sep 4, 2008, 01:49 PM
Thank you, plonak.

linksys2000
Sep 5, 2008, 06:34 PM
Adam_89,

I have been bulimic only for a few weeks now. I am so desperate to loose a few extra pounds. I find myself vomiting at the very least 3 times per day. Almost every meal. It's quite disturbing, the thought of going to the restroom with 3 garbage bags to vomit. What a dread!

I usually pull over on the side of the road/highway and throw up. Or sneak to the restroom when no one is around and vomit. Or binge after excersise for an hour or so, on chocolate cake, soda, and all sorts of unhealthy foods. Then vomit.

What a dread, especially when I hate, for a lack of better words, to throw up. It's just disgusting!

However, I have slowed down just a bit, to regain control over this terrible measure to loose weight, and have lost about 2 pounds in 1 week.

I would not recommend anyone to choose this option.

ChihuahuaMomma
Sep 7, 2008, 07:35 AM
I'm glad that the members here could shine some light on how bad this condition really is. The thing that I don't think was approached here. ADDICTION.

You find something that comforts you, makes you feel better. Puking after eating, or working out. You vomit and you feel skinnier, you feel prettier. This can easily become addictive. So, the assumption that you will be able to stop when it's "enough" isn't necessarily reality. I've seen it happen.

There are small changes that you can make to lose weight. What is your goal weight? Or perhaps goal clothing size? Replacing a daily soda with water. Replace a peiece of cake with a piece of fruit. It's amazing, I promise.

liz28
Sep 7, 2008, 03:57 PM
You know what Adam everyone wants quick results when it comes to getting their body like they want but I am glad to hear that you rethought your decision to become bulimic. Exercising and eating right is the way to go. Getting results take time and it is time you have to put in. I hate going to the gym and eating things that I don't want and mostly giving up my favorite sweets but it was a price I was willing to pay and in 2-3 months I saw my results and wents down from 182 to 156 and was contempt with it. Now I am 5 months pregnant and see my weight climbing back up but not a much because I still exercise and eat right. Just keep in mind change is a gradual step and if possible join a gym because no matter want you do at home you need some type of strength traing besides aerobic exercise. Strength training help tone your body and turn the fat into muscle and aerobic exercise help burn the fat and is good for your heart and lungs but when you do both forms of exercise you be surprise with your results. Oh yeah and don't forgot a good diet. Good Luck!

adam_89
Sep 8, 2008, 05:28 AM
I'm glad that the members here could shine some light on how bad this condition really is. The thing that I don't think was approached here. ADDICTION.

You find something that comforts you, makes you feel better. Puking after eating, or working out. You vomit and you feel skinnier, you feel prettier. This can easily become addictive. So, the assumption that you will be able to stop when it's "enough" isn't necesarily reality. I've seen it happen.

There are small changes that you can make to lose weight. What is your goal weight? Or perhaps goal clothing size? Replacing a daily soda with water. Replace a peiece of cake with a peice of fruit. It's amazing, I promise.

I am very thankful for everyone's help here! I would like to get back down to 200 lbs. I am at 235 right now. I am actuall still wearing the same pant size that I was wearing when I weighed 200. I have moved up to a large in shirt size, and I'm hoping an XL is far away.

Do you really think that changing out a few things would help a bit?

lmangileri
Sep 8, 2008, 06:39 AM
ChihuahuaMomma is right. Try replacing things like she suggested. I think you got a lot of good advice in this thread!

tkald
Sep 8, 2008, 07:07 AM
Also, try eating 5 small meals/day. Definitely eat breakfast and never eat anything after dinner (7ish). Try this and walk 1 hour/day... you might find an improvement.

xcarriecookex
Sep 8, 2008, 08:56 AM
OK so either you are a very very sad girl or just totally bonkers

Firstly no men like a size 0 or even an 8 for that matter, stop looking at magazines that is not the ideal, learn to be happy within yourself, I am a size 14 and bloody proud, I have a lovely husband who adores my shape. As my mum says never change yourself to impress others always find someone who is happy with you the way you are!

adam_89
Sep 8, 2008, 10:22 AM
ok so either you are a very very sad girl or just totally bonkers

firstly no men like a size 0 or even an 8 for that matter, stop looking at magazines that is not the ideal, learn to be happy within yourself, i am a size 14 and bloody proud, i have a lovely husband who adores my shape. as my mum says never change yourself to impress others always find someone who is happy with you the way you are!

Thanks a lot carrie. It is kind of funny that you thought I was a girl. I am actually a guy. I was being depressed about my own weight because I can not find a good girl, and I am not that out of shape, but there is some reason that I can't get a girlfriend. My friends and all there girlfriends say that I am the nicest guy in the world, so it is not that. I am not going to become bulimic. With all the help here, I realize that would be a really serious problem!

Thanks!

J_9
Sep 8, 2008, 10:24 AM
Adam,

It may not be the weight that is at issue with you not getting a girlfriend. Maybe personality. How old are you?

liz28
Sep 8, 2008, 10:29 AM
Maybe your meeting the wrong girls but there is someone for everyone and oneday you will met your match.

adam_89
Sep 8, 2008, 10:33 AM
Adam,

It may not be the weight that is at issue with you not getting a girlfriend. Maybe personality. How old are you?


I think and I am told that I have a great personality. I am not trying to sound conceided or anything, but I don't think my personality is the problem. I am 19 by the way. I know that is young, but you would be surprised if you met me. I am very mature for my age.

Thanks!

adam_89
Sep 8, 2008, 10:34 AM
Thank you! I am sure you are right!

J_9
Sep 8, 2008, 10:35 AM
Chances are you are meeting the wrong women at the wrong places. While I am a GREAT bit older than you, my husband weighs more than you. I am conceited to a point and love a man that is much more lean, but he is the best man in the world, to me and our children. Chances are, you just have not yet met the right woman and she is out there just waiting for you.

ChihuahuaMomma
Sep 8, 2008, 10:37 AM
I couldn't give J_9 another greenie, but I absolutely agree. Where are you meeting girls at?

adam_89
Sep 8, 2008, 10:38 AM
Chances are you are meeting the wrong women at the wrong places. While I am a GREAT bit older than you, my husband weighs more than you. I am conceited to a point and love a man that is much more lean, but he is the best man in the world, to me and our children. Chances are, you just have not yet met the right woman and she is out there just waiting for you.

Thank you very much! I really hope so! I am tired of hoping to find that girl, but on the other hand, I am young and have a lot of time, but I would really like to be in a nice loving committed relationship!

Thanks!

J_9
Sep 8, 2008, 10:40 AM
She's out there Adam, you just haven't turned the right corner yet.

adam_89
Sep 8, 2008, 10:51 AM
I couldn't give J_9 another greenie, but I absolutely agree. Where are you meeting girls at?

I really don't have many chances to meet girls. I work with about 20 guys at my job, and I work with one girl, and she is married. So, that is out of the question. I work 6-5 Monday through Friday, so that doesn't leave me a whole lot of time! I have tried meeting friends of some of my girl friends. That usually doesn't work out. I have done a few other things to try and introduce myself to a girl to get her number, just at random places. It just seems impossible sometimes. I seem out of the dating thing. I wasn't to get back in it though. Some girls I am tense around and some girls I am completely comfortable around as soon as I meet them, but I lose them somehow.

Thanks!

adam_89
Sep 8, 2008, 10:52 AM
Thank You!

J_9
Sep 8, 2008, 10:53 AM
It's always a surprise. She will show up when least expected. Trust me, been there done that, got the T-shirt.

Maybe the best trick is to stop looking.

liz28
Sep 8, 2008, 10:55 AM
Sometimes when you looking for someone you can't find them but when your not looking your find it. So relax and that someone will come into your life when you least expect it.

adam_89
Sep 8, 2008, 11:03 AM
Maybe I am looking to hard. I would think you are right, and when I am not expecting it I will find her! Or at least I hope so. Later!

ChihuahuaMomma
Sep 8, 2008, 09:04 PM
I really don't have many chances to meet girls. I work with about 20 guys at my job, and i work with one girl, and she is married. So, that is out of the question. I work 6-5 monday through friday, so that doesnt leave me a whole lot of time! I have tried meeting friends of some of my girl friends. that usually doesn't work out. I have done a few other things to try and introduce myself to a girl to get her number, just at random places. It just seems impossible sometimes. I seem out of the dating thing. I wasnt to get back in it though. some girls i am tense around and some girls i am completely comfortable around as soon as i meet them, but i lose them somehow.

Thanks!


WHAT?? That leaves evenings and the whole weekend. I work 65-80 hours a week, and STILL manage to have time for friends and meeting someone new if that were my interest.

adam_89
Sep 9, 2008, 04:15 AM
WHAT??? That leaves evenings and the whole weekend. I work 65-80 hours a week, and STILL manage to have time for friends and meeting someone new if that were my interest.

Wow, really? That seems like a lot less time than what I have. I do make time for my friends, always, but I am always busy working or something when I get off work, as well. I don't know, but I may be looking in all the wrong places. Oh, and I am 19 by the way!

Thanks!