View Full Version : Absence makes the heart grow fonder or not?
alanalov
Sep 1, 2008, 07:06 PM
They say 'absence makes the heart grow fonder'. Should I let him miss me sometimes and if so for how long? :rolleyes: What do you think?
Fr_Chuck
Sep 1, 2008, 07:07 PM
It can at times, but it also lets them get over you and move on.
alanalov
Sep 1, 2008, 07:09 PM
it can at times, but it also lets them get over you and move on.
Yes, makes sense. This is why I'm wondering 'for how long?'
Thanks
ChihuahuaMomma
Sep 1, 2008, 09:32 PM
Is this a long distance relationship? How long have you been together? Is this after a fight? Just because you want him to miss you more? Or because you are busy?
brkfstatiffs
Sep 2, 2008, 03:33 PM
Most definitely you should make him miss you. Don't always answer his calls, let him initiate the communication and wonder where you are from time to time... especially if this is a new relationship. Give a guy his space, so your thing, and let him chase and wonder where you are sometimes. It's a game, but we all have to play it a little bit.