Have been seeing as guy for 18mths an he's always had his own place though stayed at mine regular.he smokes weed an is 43, an over the last 8 weeks he's became intrested in god, antichrist an conspiracies of life. He also been writing a lot of his own theroy.an he started distancing himself from me an now says I'm a good friend an sex confuses things. He says he'll still visit an stay over from time to time but its to nice an comfortable here with me at mine an stops him doing things in life.he knows how I feel an how I'm hurting. He won't have a phone, he says god did not have a phone. After 18 months he can't have no feelings. Please help how do I get him back

he won't have a phone, he says god did not have a phone

That actually made my day.

If I were you id get on with my own life and let him go through his phase. When he becomes rational again then perhaps give him the time of day, but right now leave him to it. Don't be his play thing, don't let him stay over when he chooses!

He started distancing himself from me and now says I’m a good friend and sex confuses things. He says he’ll still visit and stay over from time to time but it’s too nice an comfortable here with me at mine an stops him doing things in life.

You have the option of not having sex. Now that he is uncomfortable with it you can either agree or disagree with him. Look at the last 18 months and see if there is more to your relationship than sex. If there is and you want to save the relationship you could agree to not have sex with him as long as he is uncomfortable with it.

You could also mention that God doesn’t have a phone because He can communicate without it. If he is trying to be God he will fail. If he is trying to honor God, try to be supportive in any way that you can.

Sounds like he wants to do things and can’t with you in his life. Is this true? Talk with him about his dreams and see if there are ways you can help him be who he wants to be.

The key to change is to let go of your fear.