Before I begin, I would like to point out that he didn't know I was 15 until after the fact.

I'll try to make this story short.

I'm 15, and he's 19. We met at a hotel in LA and I snuck to his room and we fooled around a bit (no sex!) but we really connected and talked for nearly 5 hours. He's a marine training to deploy to iraq in October by the way.


Now, I went back home (massachusetts) and we continued texting. He kept insisting that he missed me and cared for me and that he wish I was older so that we could be together. Just really sweet things.

So he had a 2 week break to go home before going back to LA and training until his deployment. He lives in Maine and he said that he really wanted to see me when he got back because his flight landed in Boston, so he wanted to spend the day and hang out with me.

Well, before he came back I went on vacation to France and we texted a bit, and he said he missed me. The day I got back from France I texted him and immediately noticed he was acting differently. He wasn't calling me babe or hun, and when I asked him if I was going to see him, he said he didn't know how it could work out. He said something about how his flight was at 5 in the morning and I wasn't going to be up, and how my parents wouldn't let me see him so how would it work out.

I called him out on it and told him he was acting like he didn't like me anymore and he said "i didn't say that at all." Well, the next day I apologized for being a to him and that I shouldn't have expected anything from him, and we talked a little but he was being kind of moody with me, distant. He flew back to Maine and we haven't spoken for about a week now.


Why on earth did he change so quickly?

Firstly a 19 year old who would fool around with a 15 year old is one dodgy character!
You had a one night stand with some extended pointless communication afterward, which would have confused things. This boy should not be taken seriously, try not to fret about it - he obviously isn't worth it.

He probably met someone else, or realized you were too young and figured he should put a stop to it. If he was into you, he would have made the time and wouldn't have given you an excuse. Plus, what kind of a relationship is a purely text one? That's a huge no- no right there, he probably only talks to you when it's convienant for him to send you a text because you have put up with it. But honestly, it's probably the age thing. If I were you I wouldn't mess w marine men, they like to act quick with women since most of the year they are usually out on deployment. They can be sketchy, not all, but a lot. As in just want to find a quick fix.

p.s. the WORST thing you can do at this point is bug him or text him or call him asking why he is ignoring you... that will only push him away further. TRUST ME.