paige82
Aug 31, 2008, 06:04 AM
My best mate is male, we have got on for years.
We do have a bit of a past, when we first met he admitted he liked me and we ended up kissing. However, we agreed to just keep it as friends.
Recently, he has changed towards me. He is flirtier and always teasing me, making me laugh, trying to chat to me (making sure we are in the same room). He seems jealous if I look at a lad, even if it's a celeb in a mag. He'll mess around with me, i.e. grabbing my hair pretending to cut it, pushing me softly in the back to make me laugh, silly voices even trying to copy my voice/accent. We went on a night out a little while ago and I could see him looking at me out the corner of my eye, all night. Even my other mate commented that my best mate went quiet if another lad that he didn't know come over to talk to me.
This is what makes me unsure, sometimes he says things like "Ooh shes nice" and "You can pull someone for me." Am I just becoming like one of the lads to him?
I need help, I do like him but I don't know what to do. Its quite funny in some ways, I am usually the person that gives the advice to my mates about relationships. However, this one is tricky. I don't want to lose him and he will be moving away soon, I don't want him going and not knowing either.
Please Help me!
We do have a bit of a past, when we first met he admitted he liked me and we ended up kissing. However, we agreed to just keep it as friends.
Recently, he has changed towards me. He is flirtier and always teasing me, making me laugh, trying to chat to me (making sure we are in the same room). He seems jealous if I look at a lad, even if it's a celeb in a mag. He'll mess around with me, i.e. grabbing my hair pretending to cut it, pushing me softly in the back to make me laugh, silly voices even trying to copy my voice/accent. We went on a night out a little while ago and I could see him looking at me out the corner of my eye, all night. Even my other mate commented that my best mate went quiet if another lad that he didn't know come over to talk to me.
This is what makes me unsure, sometimes he says things like "Ooh shes nice" and "You can pull someone for me." Am I just becoming like one of the lads to him?
I need help, I do like him but I don't know what to do. Its quite funny in some ways, I am usually the person that gives the advice to my mates about relationships. However, this one is tricky. I don't want to lose him and he will be moving away soon, I don't want him going and not knowing either.
Please Help me!