I was 15 beginning of July, and I've started talking to this boy a lot for the past 2 weeks that I've known for a while and we've met up a few times. Thing is, he's 19 in November. Do you think its too much of an age gap seeing as I've been 15 for 2 months so far! We both like each other and want it to go further. I no we've only been meeting up n talking properly the last 2 weeks but it is going good. Well apart from tonight! He's been ignorin my texts :S but I'm sure there's an explanation! Anyway, would just like to know.. dya think its OK a 15 and 19 year old togethere or not? I know my mom and older sisters won't approve but if its what I want then they're going to have to understand. Thanks x

Just to add I don't know if he truly does really like me or not. He told me he does and said he didn't think I did and I told him I did and he said okay sorry I was just getting paranoid. And then the other night he went out with his mates and I said "did you kiss anyone last night" and he said noo lol , stop being paranoid (he said it in a nice way) and I answered I'm not, I just wondered :) its up to you what you do as you are single. And another time he asked me if I had any lads after me n I said no and asked him and he said yeah but the only girl he wants is me. Do you think he's just taking me for a ride or does actually like me? Xx

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K well I'm 26 now and was in your same situation when I just turned 15 he was turning 19 too. We ended up dating and it was a really rocky road we end up dating for 4 years. None of our family approved and I fell for him really hard. When it started getting abbusive I still stuck around. Till I was almost bar age and he started to get worse cause he thought I would find someone else at the bar. I wasted my whole high school years with this guy cause I thought right on a older guy. I'm just telling you to be careful. And good luck

I know my mom and older sisters won't approve but if its what I want then they're going to have to understand.

No way a grown man needs to be going with a very young teen age girl, who thinks she knows more than her mama. I guess you don't care if he gets in trouble!

I honestly feel he's just sweet talking but he could mean it and that could just be his personality. I usually steer clear from guys like that. If you feel it's the right thing to do then go for it and if you feel that you can trust what he says then believe him. Just remember that you've only really talked to him for 2 weeks. I think before jumping into anything get to know him a little better. Gudd luck

Actually they don't have to understand anything as this problem if they want, is solved by a simple phone call to the local authorities. And NO it's not OK