About two weeks ago my mother informed me that the man I knew as my father may not be. I did a search and found the other man. I sent him a letter explaining why I was contacting him and asked him to call me. I received a call from him today. He would like to meet so we can talk. He was very nice and admitted that it is very posible. I am now 28 years old with children of my own. My question is - What do I say to him when we meet in 5 days? What questions should I ask? Should I take my children? Please help!! :confused:

Why did you leave my mom?

She was married at the time so she isn't sure which one of the 2 is my father.

Ask what he's read lately.

Don't take your kids.

What difference does it make whether he gave you his DNA or not, really? Didn't your father do everything a father should?

I would get a DNA test before you did anything to see if he is or not