Ok well I just started a new school, and there is this guy that I always see in the hall ways. (Girls you know the one,Tall,Handsome,Perfect Body,Always Dresses Nice,The hole nine yards) I really think I'm crushing on him witch is wonderful,but the bad thing is that I;v never even talked to him:( Don't get me wrong, I'm never shy but when he is near me I just can't help it. I get so shy and I can hardly even move. Witch is the worst thing for me cause I can't find anything to say... Some just tell me how to get over this shy thing or just help me find what to say!! (:PLEASE:)

When you see him, catch his eye and smile. Then you can let him do all the work.

That's just chemistry, hon. And if a guy fires your engines so much just being close to him, maybe it's a good thing you don't talk to him. What you want is to be yourself when you're around guys, especially ones who may make your guard drop. Does that make sense?

People do a lot of things they know they shouldn't, or don't really want to, because they're all gaga over them in some way and a little out of control. That's not that good a thing, really.

And since you don't know him at all yet, no idea if he's a good guy or a guy who would take advantage of your lowered guard for his own pleasure, it's OK for now.

When you can talk to him and not lose your mind, you will. Until then, the distance will protect you from yourself.

Is this the same guy in your other thread?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/what-did-get-self-cout-up-255959.html

In that thread you claimed that you aren't shy around him even though you usually are shy. Now here you say you're never shy.

How many guys are you "crushing" on anyway?