I have been married with my husband for the past 14 years. I have two daughters 13 & 5. from the time we got married till now we have been renting around and I have been paying the rent. My husband who works for almost 16 years now still can't afford to buy or built the house I don't know why. I'm thinking of leaving him as most of the time he doesn't understand my work.

Well this is a little hard to answer, because there are not many details. The money in a marriage is meant to be shared between the husband and wife. Do you have an understanding that you will take care of the rent, and he pays the other bills? Why don't you understand why he can't buy or build a house? I'm assuming you live in the same house! It sounds like a serious lack of communication to me.

How do I go about getting married at the court house and do they perform the cermoncy