misstee1
Aug 21, 2008, 05:55 AM
I am a divorced mum of four and gran of two and am desperate for advice as my heart is breaking!
Can someone please advise me what my rights are concerning my granchildren? I have a grandaughter to my eldest daughter and a grandson to another daughter; both have turned against myself, my partner, my two other children who still live at home and my parents. I believe that my ex husband has had a lot to do with this as up until he started a new relationship a couple of months ago was punishing me for meeting someone else over a year after we separated!
Even after he lied and said that he was dying of lung cancer, I still encouraged our children not to turn against him as he was their father and needed them however he has used every opportunity to turn our children against myself and my partner whenever I have had words with any of my children as normal families do!
After finding out that my two daughters have said some extremely hurtful things (many of which are untrue) I feel that at this moment I do not want to see them, however my granchildren are innocent and I miss them terribly, even though I don't see them every day or even every week does not in any way mean I don't think about them constantly and love them with every breath in my body!!
I really look forward to receiving some help and advice please.
Misstee1
Can someone please advise me what my rights are concerning my granchildren? I have a grandaughter to my eldest daughter and a grandson to another daughter; both have turned against myself, my partner, my two other children who still live at home and my parents. I believe that my ex husband has had a lot to do with this as up until he started a new relationship a couple of months ago was punishing me for meeting someone else over a year after we separated!
Even after he lied and said that he was dying of lung cancer, I still encouraged our children not to turn against him as he was their father and needed them however he has used every opportunity to turn our children against myself and my partner whenever I have had words with any of my children as normal families do!
After finding out that my two daughters have said some extremely hurtful things (many of which are untrue) I feel that at this moment I do not want to see them, however my granchildren are innocent and I miss them terribly, even though I don't see them every day or even every week does not in any way mean I don't think about them constantly and love them with every breath in my body!!
I really look forward to receiving some help and advice please.
Misstee1