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big88
Aug 19, 2008, 10:06 PM
OK here's the deal I have this friend rite and I really like her but I don't know what 2 do I love to be with her and just talk and stuff but I don't no is she likes me the way I like her. Wat should I do?

JBeaucaire
Aug 19, 2008, 10:24 PM
Just keep talking to her. Then plan some fun stuff to do together. Let it happen naturally. You don't have to "talk" about being with her, you can just do it.

Clough
Aug 20, 2008, 01:10 AM
Yes, communicating with her and telling her how you feel would be the best thing to do as well as the planning of things where the two of you can be together and just let things happen naturally. Just in case you don't feel comfortable doing that, is there a particular reason why you have not already told her the way that you feel?

Also, how long have you known her? It would be helpful to us in order to help you the best here, to know about that also.

Thanks!

talaniman
Aug 20, 2008, 11:33 AM
Ever been on a date??

jiltedgirl
Aug 20, 2008, 12:16 PM
Ask her to "hang out"... so basically ask her out on a date. See how she reacts. Take it from there.

big88
Aug 20, 2008, 09:33 PM
OK thanks but I love 2 talk to her and I'm scared 2 ask her out cause she's like my best friend and I don't want 2 ruin that and she's very smart if I say want 2 hang out she will no what I mean

Clough
Aug 20, 2008, 11:08 PM
Talking is a great way to start with someone as far as getting to know them. Communication is probably the most important factor in any relationship where you want the relationship to be successful.

It would be helpful to folks that do come along to answer your question if you would be so kind as to answer the questions that have been asked of you already.

Just one more question though, in addition to those that have already been asked - how old are you and how old is she, please?

Thanks!

talaniman
Aug 21, 2008, 06:08 AM
ok thanks but i love 2 talk 2 her and im scared 2 ask her out cause shes like my best friend and i dont want 2 ruin that and shes very smart if i say want 2 hang out she will no wat i mean
That's the point. How old are you two, to repeat a good question?