Well this is me again, I picked up when he called me this weekend and we just started to get angry with each other.

He has his stuff at my house still and I took Monday off work and cleaned out the garage and came across of his stuff. So I had no idea on what to do with them so I text him and asked him what to do with them? He said that he will send address to send to. So you anyway I asked him if he had told his mom about us not being together and he said that he did. When I would talk to his mom she told me that Jerry is very private with his relationships that he would never say anything to her about anything so why would he say something now is he lieying or telling the truth? I don't know what to believe anymore.

Is it really over or does he just need time? I feel like very confused here he says one thing then another. I asked him if he wanted it to be over 4 sure and he said yes! I said cause there is no turning back.. He said.. ya there is no going back now. To leave him alone now 4sure and changing number.. Well what the hell is that? That it wasn't sure before until now and he still hasn't changed the nimber if he was serious he would have changed by now right?

I think he's made it pretty clear that it's over between the two of you. :T

Regardless of whether he told his mother the truth or not, regardless of him not changing his number, it's time to accept the fact and move on. I know it's hard not to try and look for hope.

If you truly want to get back together, I suppose you could talk about it to him, but why bother going through all that hurt again?

Best,
J

Well this is me again, I picked up when he called me this weekend and we just started to get angry with each other.

He has his stuff at my house still and I took monday off work and cleaned out the garage and came across of his stuff. So I had no idea on what to do with them so i text him and asked him what to do with them? He said that he will send address to send to. So ya n e ways i asked him if he had told his mom about us not being together and he said that he did. When i would talk to his mom she told me that Jerry is very private with his relationships that he would never say n e thing to her about n e thing so why would he say something now is he lieying or telling the truth? I dont know what to believe n e more.

Is it really over or does he just need time? I feel like very confused here he says one thing then another. I asked him if he wanted it to b over 4 sure and he said yes! I said cause there is no turning back.. He said..ya there is no going back now. to leave him alone now 4sure and changing number.. Well what the hell is that? That it wasn't sure before untill now and he still hasn't changed the nimber if he was serious he would of changed by now right?
I't's pretty obvious that it's over,he told you it was. Take time for yourself to heal,let him call you if there is still something there don't push it. You'll only get an angry response. When you least expect it you'll find someone new.
Mary E

I agree with both of those two, he is really over you, and if you leave him alone then you will really know if he misses you and is over you!!

Take what he said as being what he wants and respect that. If he doesn't want you to call him then don't call or text him anymore. If you do it will always be uninvited and will turn into an argument every single time. He doesn't want the drama. If you want to save any part of your friendship with him if he is willing to be friends down the road, then you have to let him go now.

It is always a painful thing but we can't control people or try to change them. The more you try the more he will resist and the more he will want to be away from you for good. So it is absolutely necessary for you to let him go.

Take him at his word and do as he wishes, the issue isn't if he is serious, its about accepting what he said and leaving this behind as quick as possible. Never contact him again. That's what he wants.