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miller3
Aug 14, 2008, 12:22 PM
I have a question... If a person in a relationship does not love that person anymore can they gain the love back ? Is it possible and how can that happen if so?

Janmarie
Aug 14, 2008, 12:46 PM
First of all, who is the person in question? Who wants the love back?

miller3
Aug 14, 2008, 12:49 PM
Well I talked to my ex of 2 years last night. She called me after 5 months of being broken up. I asked her if she loved me and she said " i guess i don't love you anymore" I don't know if that's 100% since she said she gues are what. I think she is feeling things she just can't grasp of right now. Will she realize 100% ?

Janmarie
Aug 14, 2008, 12:57 PM
Yes it is possible for someone to love someone again. It happens all the time but it really takes some doing on your part on being "that" someone that they will fall in love with again.

talaniman
Aug 15, 2008, 04:28 PM
Anything is possible. Is it likely, doubtful.

ylaira
Aug 15, 2008, 04:49 PM
Exe's will always have soft part in anyone's heart specially if he loved that person deeply.Yes, it is possible to gain the love back (if she will get back in the relationship is still out of question) but it depends on what happened to the relationship, reasons of breaking up and how the other person took the pain.

Janmarie
Aug 15, 2008, 05:10 PM
Do you still love her? If you do then yes it is very possible...most might disagree expecially if they have tried to get someone to love them again and it didn't happen.

In some cases moving on is your best option especially when you discover that this person isn't the person you needed in your life. And all the advice about getting on with your life and "you are better off without them," it is all very logical advice and people do move on and find themselves in a better relationship.

But even if after trying all that advice and you still have that feeling inside that you were ment to be together...you can win their love back easily and effortlessly. And all the reasons why, who did what to who, and what actually happened to break you up..has no effect whatsoever.....it doesn't even matter anymore once you know how.

BetrayalBtCamp
Aug 15, 2008, 05:13 PM
It will also depend on whether she is willing & able to allow herself to be loving towards you again as much as how lovable you are or can be.

You could be the most lovable perfect person for her but if she has issues / barriers that don't allow her to let that love in or acknowledge it, her equally loving you won't happen. Or at best will still be a miserable experience for you if she never addresses those impediments to a fully loving partnership with you (or anyone else for that matter).

Instead, there will likely be too much indifference, drama or trauma instead of love being nurtured & cherished in a healthy way for both of you.