View Full Version : My girlfriend needs space but says she still loves me
ericpraetorius
Aug 13, 2008, 03:24 PM
Well hello I live in a small town. I started seeing this amazing girl that I have so much in common with and the best sex of my life with. I started seeing her right after she dumped her other boyfriend of three years. We have had an amazing six months together. I would get a bit jealous cause we live in a small town and guys are always all over her. Just recently she came to me and said she loves me very much but needs space. She says she has lost herself and needs to find her path in life. It is very hard on me right now cause I feel like I have found the perfect girl for me. She is leaving to go to her home town for a month. When she gets back she is moving to Montana. She says if it is meant to be then we will be together in the future. I don't know what to do cause I love her very much and don't want to loose her. Any advice please
ISneezeFunny
Aug 13, 2008, 03:27 PM
I don't mean to make you feel bad... but I think you've lost her. You made the mistake of dating a girl who JUST got out of a serious relationship... which meant that you were the rebound guy. Rebound guys last... how long? That's right... up to 6 months. She never had the chance to get over her ex... and now she may be missing him.
The "I need space...I need to get my act together" bit is a overplayed... which translates to, "I found someone else" or "I simply don't have the same feelings for you anymore"... the first one usually happens.
Right now, you just have to get focused, cut off contact from her, and see where this goes.
talaniman
Aug 13, 2008, 07:00 PM
Hope you enjoyed those 6 months, but Sneeze is correct, she used you to soften the blow of her failed relationship, and now she is off to her next chapter.
See ain't coming back, so accept it and heal.