I am 19 and in college trying to find myself. I am realizing that I could possibly be gay, but I'm not sure... I don't know anyone who is gay to help me with this, so I guess for those who are could you help me by telling me how you knew?

Are you attracted to men to the point of wanting to have sex with them? How about women?

*All* my gay male friends told me they knew they were gay from the very beginning, so I would think you know who you are attracted to, right?

Perhaps, you are inhibited from thinking about it because of religious teachings that condemn homosexuality??

I'll tell you a bit of wisdom: you have to get out in the real world and live your life! Youth is a time of trial and error, or trial and success, or trial and whatever. As a youth, you are starting to get old, pal. :) Tomorrow, go out and start a relationship with a girl... see if you like kissing her and getting felt up... whatever. There is a start for you. If not, ask a guy out. Ya got to have a backbone to be an individual. :)

Time to get out and live your life in all respects... friends, scholarship, sex, sports, hobbies...

Best wishes to you, :)

Hard to say because your question is not very detailed you could be but really only you would truly know anyway.

From your name I assume you are a man.

Unless you like playing the skin flute then likely you aren't.