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JoshRCT
Aug 12, 2008, 06:34 PM
I like a girl who has a boyfriend. Me and her always hang out, she even went to my prom with me. I don't know how she feels or if she knows how I feel. I can't stand to be around her when she is with him, she is my ideal girl but she has someone. I'm beginning to think attempting to break all contact with her is the only way to break the feeling. I want to be with her, but I can't wait around until they break up, if that happens. Similarly, I can't see myself being just friends with her much longer. I'm really not sure what to do!

I speak with her everyday and even go out to eat with her, she is my greatest companion, but I wish we could be more, and I don't think I can tell her this. It's a real blow on my happiness, and being around her with him often leaves me depressed. Heck, I even went on a vacation with her, him, and some friends and I just couldn't bare to be in the hotel room. I always went off on my own. I just figure, maybe its time to give up or just tell her how I feel as I can't bare with this much more.

ylaira
Aug 12, 2008, 06:42 PM
Your problem is similar to this link...

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/im-madly-love-but-248214.html

For your own sake, you must withdraw yourself from that friendship little by little. Its life ruining to be faithful angel to someone unavailable. Why?

1. You will be forever fantasizing but that's no t your girlfriend,
2. You will be jealous but you have no right,
3. You're concern about her choices but its none of your business
4. most of all you are closing heart but you are technically available.