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johnfox
Aug 8, 2008, 04:26 AM
Hi , I recently got back in touch with one of my first girlfriends we were really young and the relationship ended without malice. We saw each other a 3 or 4 times in the last 6 months for dinner\drinks etc. About 4 weeks ago she broke up with her current boyfriend, and the week after she called into my house for lunch again. We seem to get on really well and have loads in common. That night she started texting me while she was drunk and saying she still liked me etc . Since this we have spoke on the phone or text each other everyday and seen each other several times, We usually end up in bed kissing but no more. This week, I stayed over again at her house and she was being a bit quiet, I asked her what was wrong and she confessed that she still thought about her ex (She broke up with him and said she won't get back with him. ) She went on to say that she really liked me but didn't want to hurt me as she doesn't know what she wants. I told her that was OK and that I really liked her but was happy to wait for her to decide what she wants to do. After our chat she was her normal self again and we spent an hour kissing and cuddling on the sofa before going to bed where we did more than usual. In the morning she went out early before I was awake to get breakfast, and we had a really nice morning, When I had to leave I asked her what she wanted to do, she said again about space so we decided to not call, text or see each other so she can decide what she wants. There was a long kiss goodbye and then I got a text saying "I really enjoyed being with you x I'll call you in a couple of days x "

I replied with a joke and have not heard from her since, she did say she would call tomorrow morning though.

I'm not sure what this means though, is it an excuse because she doesn't like me enough to get involved, any advice appreciated, I haven't called or text her but I can't stop thinking about her.

Thanks

N0help4u
Aug 8, 2008, 08:54 AM
Depending on how you replied may make a difference in the best way to handle this
But basically I would call her and apologize if she took what you said wrong and you didn't mean anything by it. That you hope that things between you and her work out to be all good.
Then you pretty much have to leave it up to her from there.