unfaithful
Aug 3, 2008, 11:31 PM
Howdy do guyz,
(Married man) Okay so I met this guy @ my job we both work in the medical field I'm fairly young (25) he's 40 and for whatever reason we connect not like the young losers I've dated anyway going out spending lots of time together he tells me he's married sticky situation for me cause I'm not into the homewrecking biz but apparently the home was and is pretty demolish if you ask me anyway he's really into me says he loves me we've been dating for 4 mnths now but we've always known each other frm work (thug) my first love I'm his first love family and friends didn't want us together because I was (12) @ the time he was 15 yea I was pretty fast shhhh heehee anyway we been hooking back up since our 10 year break up the love is still there hasn't left feels even much stronger all is good BUT he's a "thug" you know in the streets all the time he's a DJ/promoter very popular so you know there's groupies and he's sexy as hell and is welled packed if you know what I mean the mans sexi okay and he knows it I've known him for a lonnnggg time I can tell now he's semi done with the playing games etc. But of course I'm NO dummy I never trust a man 100% we all know shyt happens so my question to you is who do I keep around I mean I can continue to have my cake and eat it to but I don't want to hurt feelings I like to keep it real and I'm not right now so I need help who do I keep around do I stay with the married man who I am extremely comfortable around in all ways and continue to see him although I know he's never going to leave his wife and be with me in the end and I have accepted that or do I stay with my first TRUE love who isn't really stable I mean come on people party but they don't do it forever which means he's not really stable but he does collect a check every mnth until the day that he dies (God forbid) but is that enough he's like my 2nd half he knows me more than I myself and like I said the love never died but I really really like the married man so who do I proceed with who do I train do I train this man to stop being a coward and leave his wife if that's not where he wants to be the rest of his life and convince him not to die unhappy or do I train this thug to grow up show him how to do things with more class show him things he never would have seen in the streets clubs etc. I know it sounds like I got some nerve but I'm very independent strong successful woman somehow I'm tangled in a string and I don't know which side to cut so help me if you can why don't you moochez
(Married man) Okay so I met this guy @ my job we both work in the medical field I'm fairly young (25) he's 40 and for whatever reason we connect not like the young losers I've dated anyway going out spending lots of time together he tells me he's married sticky situation for me cause I'm not into the homewrecking biz but apparently the home was and is pretty demolish if you ask me anyway he's really into me says he loves me we've been dating for 4 mnths now but we've always known each other frm work (thug) my first love I'm his first love family and friends didn't want us together because I was (12) @ the time he was 15 yea I was pretty fast shhhh heehee anyway we been hooking back up since our 10 year break up the love is still there hasn't left feels even much stronger all is good BUT he's a "thug" you know in the streets all the time he's a DJ/promoter very popular so you know there's groupies and he's sexy as hell and is welled packed if you know what I mean the mans sexi okay and he knows it I've known him for a lonnnggg time I can tell now he's semi done with the playing games etc. But of course I'm NO dummy I never trust a man 100% we all know shyt happens so my question to you is who do I keep around I mean I can continue to have my cake and eat it to but I don't want to hurt feelings I like to keep it real and I'm not right now so I need help who do I keep around do I stay with the married man who I am extremely comfortable around in all ways and continue to see him although I know he's never going to leave his wife and be with me in the end and I have accepted that or do I stay with my first TRUE love who isn't really stable I mean come on people party but they don't do it forever which means he's not really stable but he does collect a check every mnth until the day that he dies (God forbid) but is that enough he's like my 2nd half he knows me more than I myself and like I said the love never died but I really really like the married man so who do I proceed with who do I train do I train this man to stop being a coward and leave his wife if that's not where he wants to be the rest of his life and convince him not to die unhappy or do I train this thug to grow up show him how to do things with more class show him things he never would have seen in the streets clubs etc. I know it sounds like I got some nerve but I'm very independent strong successful woman somehow I'm tangled in a string and I don't know which side to cut so help me if you can why don't you moochez